I'm a geek, nerd, hermit ... and I like it
I tried to be more "social", tried to fit in.
It was like swimming up a s.creek without a paddle.
Everytime I went to bar, I noticed one thing ... half of ppl there were a half-brains and the other half tried their best not to stick out like a sore thumb.
I hate small talk ... waste of time.
Do not like kids, so family is out of q.
Hate office politics, so home-work serves me best.
Prefer way comps think to people ways ... sometimes wonder if ppl think at all, of is it just an instinct based actions mostly fuelled by evolution induced 3f (feed, fight, ****).
So again ... I'm a hermit and that suits me just fine.