I am like you. I don't like social mixers after work but I also believe that those who do participate have an advantage when promotions are handed out.
I, too, like individualism and there are plenty of ways to do that with your clothes, hair, shoes etc. My attire was always what I would call eccentric.
There is a certain amount of Borg-like behavior in those who successfully climb the career ladder.
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