I get what you are saying about balancing it all.
But in the end if I had to make a decision...to me...if the job has a need...and the SO/spouse/person in your life has a need...I'm picking that lady I spend nights with and days thinking about.
I can always get another job. Can't always get another her.
Fortunately...I don't have to juggle that ball...not yet, at least. Give it another 2 years.
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