Yes to all of the above...ever go to work to work, have the S.O. call and ask you to come home because now is the perfect time to make a baby? Well, I know of one such situation and the other 50% was right in the middle of a complete outage of all networks, internet, server, and such...at a police department...with over 400 officers...the point here is they were trying for a baby for 5 years...pop question what do you do, what do you do??? (I would have lied my butt off, say I need a special instrument that was just delivered at the house, and have an officer speed me home with full lights and siren... Give me 1,5 minutes in the house to pick-up the special tool, then blast back over to the PD....only problem here is that the participating partner, sorta, kinda, forgot to bring the special tool back with him...
Other then the story I just told which is true, it is a most important to have a better , mutual, way for both of you to understand what has to be done to bring the bacon home. But of course it they are mad, tired, and they know your telephone number- there is no defense to this...:)