"There???s a bell curve for all things involving people. It???s reality; it can never and will never change. Deal with it."

Ummm... "Deal with it" is an interesting choice of words. When a manager turns out to be a total toad, one way to "deal with it" is to replace the manager with someone more competent. "Deal with it" usually has the connotation that the underlings must kowtow because that's the status quo. But like any job, if you are not willing or capable of doing what's required, there are probably several more just like you standing outside the door trying to get in, who can and will do the job.