While understanding is necessary for communication, it is not sufficient for communication to be effective. For it to be effective, people must also accept what you have to say.
I disagree that effort to use proper grammar and spelling is wasted. Poor spelling and improper grammar convey that you are either uneducated or were not willing to expend the effort to communicate well. Either case provides cause to discount what a person has to say.
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