I am married no kids yet and trying to start my own drafting database design business while i have a great fulltime day job, and i am trying to keep my hopes high and do an extreme amount of self learning. My biggest obstacle is losing my fervor and then finally getting so much work i will not have any time to stop and breathe. Also losing touch with other important things in life. I am committed to staying strong and utilizing a lot of the tips listed here. Maybe one day i can be my own boss.