Droid X with MIUI ROM
I tried the iPhone 4S, nice phone but the screen was too small for me. I went back to my Droid X, updated to Gingerbread, rooted and installed the MIUI ROM. It's not for the average user, but a few internet searches and YouTube videos with step by step instructions (RageXMods) and it can be done, all for free. Blur is just ugly, MIUI is smooth, and ultimately customizable.