Just put yourself into the place of employer
Then I think it'll be much clear. You work very hard and build a company. You need new employees to improve the operations or extend the company. You need some members to work with you, to support you. Then candidate asks about vacations, working from home policies etc. While you work very hard to build the company from scratch, do you employ some selfish people just to give them your money and increase their comfort level? Of course there will be rules and borders but the essence is always the same.