are we ? Relax man, the idea is that there is no magic pill, except the exceptional, you do your work as good as you can, you show interest, you learn continuosly, you are socializing, make friends .... got the picture ? And yes, you do not dress in rags and show off your piercings and tatoos

. There is no need for somebody to tell the obvious. Oh, andnot being sarcastic is a good idea too.