Personally I think you can only comment on the matter if you never ever had a voilent though/outburst in your life, this pretty much includes everyone I know. The fact that she'd made a verbal chirp about it should differentiate her from the peeps who thinks this. Whats that comment from the movie "Anger Management" - "Let me explain something to you, Dave. There are two kinds of angry people in this world: explosive and implosive. Explosive is the kind of individual you see screaming at the cashier for not taking their coupons. Implosive is the cashier who remains quiet day after day and finally shoots everyone in the store. You're the cashier" thought I'll through in my 5cents.