I saw a movie but forgot to the name and in there a guy tells another "listen to the woman". Later the one being told does what his woman tells him and things go horribly bad and he turns to the friend and says but you said I must listen to the woman. The friendd replies I said listen to her but i never sadi do as she says. Advise is just that Advise. Get advise and make ur own mind up. Thank you for the Ghengis teaching will take it to heart.