"1. On my Win 7, to shutdown, you must click on start, turn off and then you get a window that asks you to choose between Restart and Turn off."
I support over 100 W7 systems. On all of them, to shut down I click teh Start button and then the Shutdown button. It sounds like you're clicking the menu button with the triangle icon located to the right of the Shutdown button.
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