i forget which one I used offhand. A BSD based liveCD that virtualbox was happy to boot in-between my home lan and VB's virtual network space.
For MS stuff, a TIP is also to watch for deals on the MCSE software library subscriptions. You may be able to get yourself valid learning/personal-use licenses for less than the cost of Win7 Pro (let alone a single server license).
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