sexual harassment w/o proof

to your

"Are we a little mad..."

uh, i don't know - i'm not, but perhaps mr royal person you are

"are we" - sheesh! - the way to phrase the question is "are you?" - presumably you know what you think, but maybe not

you checked - with whom? generally information about someone's vpn & secure login status is pretty private information - not just given out

so either you have a LOT of work priviledges (which would explain why she asked you in the first place) or you are full of shite!

now if you say you got the information from her ... why didn't you help her set that up? sounds like your BOSS has deemed that that IS part of YOUR JOB