+ 0 Votes As far as your boss is concerned it is acceptable Tony Hopkinson July 9, 2013 at 8:10pm PST They don't give crap about how much time you get with your family. How can any of us help you? We don't know your boss, their boss, the organisation, your chances of employment elsewhere... The reason you are in this mess, is because you want other people to make decisions for you. Well I'm not your boss. Which option (aside from continuing to take it up the arse) does not matter. What matters is you clench your cheeks and say NO. You can do it. I did, felt f'ing great!