One of the conflicts project managers face is that they don't want to say no when someone asks for a scope change. Here's a trick that takes away the need to do that.
Project scope refers to the box that defines the work of your project. The boundaries of the box separate the areas your project will be responsible for versus those areas your project will not be responsible for. It provides the baseline against which you can perform scope change management throughout the project.
One of the conflicts project managers face is that they don't want to say no when someone asks for a scope change. Since the requestor is usually a client manager, stakeholder or end user, the project manager usually feels an instinct to do whatever is needed. Saying "no" to the client request means not being client focused, or not satisfying the client's needs.
However, there's a simple way to get you out of this yes/no dilemma. The secret is simply to understand that the project manager doesn't have to be the "no guy." In fact, the project manager doesn't need to decide one way or another.
The project manager's job is to identify scope change requests and take them through the scope change management process. The next time a client asks for a change in scope, ask him to send you an e-mail explaining the new capability and the business value of the change. Have him include a description of the consequences if the change is not made. Determine the impact to the project on terms of budget and schedule and then send the benefits and costs to the sponsor for approval.
If the client insists on the need for the change, explain that you're not disagreeing with him, but it's just not your call. The sponsor makes decisions on scope change requests.
Placing the focus on the sponsor to make scope change decisions changes the entire dynamic of a discussion. It shifts the pressure from the project manager to the client, forcing him to explain the benefits well enough that the sponsor will approve. The project manager can then focus on what he or she should be doing—proactively and effectively executing the scope change management process.