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what do i do ? suicide ?

By Virendra Argekar ·
well i am 16 yr old guy ....

this is a bit far away from technology...but related....

well...some of my friends have been sending attachments.... .exe files which ruin ur pc...with MY NAME....

so all dumbos do not beleive me....some one sends a fake mail and attachment....i am blamed by everyone....

everyone....even the guys who thought were my best friends have turned against me....

how do i explain this....rumours are spread...i hack and all that ****....
anything that happens....

that day my friend ,i gave him a net booster application....he says it slowed down his pc....and evern the internet !!! IS IT POSSIBLE THAT BECAUSE OF A APPLICATION... YOUR INTERNET GETS SLOW.... NO WAY....

its just jeolusy that i am a MCSE and other guys are not tht they are doing this.....i do i protect my self against this....

please guide..me...i dunno what to do....dumb thing....i feel like suiciding

bye
virendra

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by arigney In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

whatever you do, don't shoot up your school! it's not a cool thing! noone will think better of you if you do that! pistols bad! shotguns bad! relax... take a deep breath.. ahhhh much better?

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by SteveD In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

Hi, Virendra. Don't let them grind you down.

You've had many practical suggestions here regarding e-mail headers and the like. I would add only this one idea. You can't control what the people in your life are going to do. You can't control whatsituations are going to face you. You can only control how you yourself respond to the people and the situations that you face.

So it's up to you. Either waste your time feeling frantic, depressed, suicidal or decide to take control of yourself. You know your own worth. You know your own accomplishments. You know your own integrity. It's up to you whether or not you feel you must prove anything to your friends, but you never have to prove anything to yourself. No one can take from you what you know to be true.

Best of everything to you.

Steve Diamond

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by estebandelatorre In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

Dear Viendra,
Some people like, need to discharge all his frustations & envies in someone. It's your turn, but in a couple of weeks, another will be in your place, and you will be part of the bad_boys_group.
Just do not give them attention, and they will simply find another guy to bother.
Some other people just need a person with good skills and knowledge (like you) in order to obtain personal benefits (speed up internet). If they are insatisfied or unable to resolve the problem itself, they just bother the 'current' guy or the one that know how to solve the problem.
In Argentina we said "No le des pelota!!! y que se vayan a la mierda"
Simply do not read any email from those you said are your friend, do not open .exe files and start searching for new friends in the arena technologies.
If the are in computer's problems, ask them to send the PC to a tecnician...

Good luck from Argentina.
(I'm 39 years old, and also may times, happened to be the 'current guy' for sometime)

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by kaigb In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

your mum will miss you and she probably will not like having to clean up the mess

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by pbgerrard In reply to what do i do ? suicide ?

I am 17. Perhaps, someone else responding also is closer to your age, but my point is, I do understand how you are thinking and how you feel.

Knowing how impressive MCSE certification is, you probably have a good job.

These guys you describeare not friends, and thy seem pretty jealous of you. Go find some real friends. Perhaps if you start hanging around jocks, you may eventually become friends with them, and they will never be jealous of any computer accomplishment.

Second, act like a very kind and responsible young man. If you download anarchy documents and always talk about computers, people will think you a freak. If you act like gentleman, people will not believe you are a hacker, and if they do, it will add some mystery to you. If you are kind and well-behaved, girls will like you and adults will like you, regardless of the rumors about you.

So, if you take my advice, adults will like you (like possible future employers especially), and girls will like you. What else really matters?

If somebody got zapped by one of your "friends", and they confront you, explain the situation. If you take all of my advie people will start to believe you, and it will get around that all the rumors about you are not true.

To give you further hope, lets look at groups of people like this in history. They usually become fanatics and go off the deep end, and evrybody stops listening to them. They will ruin themselves, and once they do, they will not be able to ruin you.

Hope this helps.

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