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Our company has been a kid frendly enviroment for a long time. The problem is now it is time to put into place a real computer use policy. I have kids that I like to bring into the office on weekends and even sometimes during working hours as do several other employees and principals.

So the question is, Should children be allowed to play on company computers?

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by roger99a

But if you have an old spare you could setup in your free time for them with some kid games on it, that would be good. This would protect the kid friendly policy and the company network.

by prana7

I agree with Roger99a and Bhamm@

best way to set up separate computer for kids so they can mess around with that computer. your work computer will not lose data

by oz_media

If your company has a child friendly policy, it should also provide child friendly PC's.

Fill up an old PII with some kids learning games and educational software, then the kids can actually learn something instead of playing with the network.

I used to go to work with my dad on weekends when I was little too, it was a great learning experience. He was a machinist and marine engineer though, so I was allowed to use CERTAIN machines (I could use a lathe by age 11) and play with CERTAIN stuff in the boat dry docks and it gave me goo dhands on skills early on. But he would always give me something to occupy myself while he was working. When I was really little, 6-10 say, I would be given things to measure with micrometers or things to clean up (very important shop skill to learn!) etc. WHen I was older, he'd give me little welding and machining projects that he could easily redo in minutes if needed but they'd keep me busy and taught me valuable skills while I was at it.

Hanging out and just playing around all day is not productive though.

by mad*max

I couldn't agree more!

If you give your kid a chance to learn or to get better at something, and some guidance while he does it, he or she will benefit - and will appreciate you more.

Simply parking the kid at a computer, letting him play some jump-and-run games, and doing your own thing in the meantime will likely prove detrimental to the child, especially if there is no social interaction.

And another thing - what if the company were to provide, say, a basketball hoop in a corner of the parking lot? It would give your kid a chance to have some fun while getting a nice workout, and a chance to interact with other kids.

by percyking

Exactly as I see it. Hey, it's great to encourage kids into whatever area you work in, but when at work, as others have sid, there are limits

by hockeyist

...there was a kidsafe room like at Ikea and it was well utilized. I have been working on weekends and after hours (these time slots seem to attract a lot of kids to the office) and have came close to injuring a kid and almost losing data at my open terminal (which I have religiously locked from that time on). On one occasion I didn't see a kid come out of an office from the side when I was carrying a monitor and stumbled over him. The other time I came back to my desk to find that a kid had homed in on my laptop and was happily hammering away at my keyboard. Luckily for me I had nwadmin minimized.
It also comes down to the social maturity of parents and "their" supervision of "their" offspring. I don't know how many times I wanted to have a go at parents at shopping centres for the actions of their kids (It's not in any way the kids fault).

by skidoggeruk

I don't think you can allow both to happen simultaneous. You can't enforce the policy if people are allowing their kids to login into the network with their login. Suppose you could make it clear that they are still responsible for what occurs through their login.

Configure up some old PCs, maybe even setup an old server and a seperate LAN.

by aferdina

I let my son surf (no installed games). I log into the local machine rather than the domain account. My company data is where it belongs. On servers. Since i'm the network admin, I can do this. Unfortunately, most people don't contact IT to tell them what is going on, or they do it on weekends. I've rectified this for people if I saw them on weekends, but most people aren't smart enough to keep company data where it is safe, which is on the servers and unavailable without domain login.

by jdmercha

Haven't you seen the ads on TV? Where the tech guys are discussing a virus infection with the boss, and how it was stopped at the firewall. They were discussing how it got in in the first place when the bosses daughter comes in excited about the new game she downloded on her fathers computer.

by dtownsend

I do not believe work is a place for kids. When I was younger I did have to bring my kids in once in a while because of babysitting problems,(I am sympathetic to parents getting put in a bind by daycare centers etc) but unless the company provides a seperate and monitored environment for the children I don't believe they belong there.

by advancedgeek

I dont think kids belong in the workplace, and ESPECIALLY not on MY network. *puts on grouchy face* The workplace should not be used for a daycare. With this being said...I am not a parent...so maybe things will change once I become one. However, I will try to remember how much I hate having to deal with other peoples kids while I am trying to work. *removes grouchy face*

by dc_guy

Life has to normalize. Parents and children need to spend more time together, or at least in proximity. For that matter, children need to become more familiar with the world their parents spend most of their time in. As hard as that may be on us childless curmudgeons, it will advance civilization and we should roll with it.

If this forces companies to get serious about IT security, then it's about frelling time.

Same goes for pets. Having a few dogs in the office will lower almost everyone's blood pressure. Take down the names of the people who complain, they've already become distanced from some important components of real life.

by salamander

..that's not necessarily a good thing. I hear what you're saying, and I'm not saying that it isn't valid to seek a work-life balance, but consider the reverse.

There is a troubling trend for people hauling their personal business to work, and business forcing itself into peoples' personal lives.

The other edge of the sword: more intrusiveness of one's employer into one's personal life. It's increasingly common for folks to be on page 24/7, 365 days a year, to face travel restrictions, to work massive amounts of paid or unpaid overtime, are required to check e-mail and voice mail from home, etc. If you allow your personal life into your work, you'd better anticipate your employer having more say in your personal life. Witness the number of increasing policies regulating employees' legal behavior outside of work: prohibitions against smoking; anti-obesity policies; etc.

Personally, I'd ideally much rather work an honest eight hours and then go home to an uninterrupted personal life of my choosing, rather than be expected to babysit somebody else's kid at work, work out at the gym the company has built to keep employees within easy paging range, play on the company softball team, or get called in to work overtime at 2 a.m.

Just my $.02. I think that the work-life balance can be accomplished, not by increasing expectations for work/personal life blurring, but by decreasing them.

by dammit96

Sure kids and parents need to spend time together, but 'work' is for 'work' and I need to be uninterrupted. Sure set up a room with spare PCs but don't have them on the LAN. And supervise them don't let them run riot. Dogs? Don't be daft - I am allergic to most animals, I also love them but I want to WORK not get sick!

by gawiman

"Same goes for pets. Having a few dogs in the office will lower almost everyone's blood pressure. Take down the names of the people who complain, they've already become distanced from some important components of real life."

So I don't like dogs jumping up on me and slobbering all over me. I prefer cats, but (aware that some people don't like cats) I would not even think of bringing my cats to work. It's just called basic consideration.

by jessie

...to allow children to play on the company computers, setup a generic roaming profile for kids that is SEVERELY locked down. Block all but a very few specific websites and block ALL downloads. Put a couple of kid game cd's on a server and put shortcuts to those games in the roaming profile.

Or setup a completely seperate kid-space with it's own network that is completely seperate from the rest of the work network.

by dc_guy

But I think civilization is simply moving in a different direction. Businesses operate 24/7. The increasing portion of the population that is self-employed is already living this life. People in the consulting profession and many others have already made the choice to not have sharp dividing lines between work and real life.

I'm with you. At my age I remember the days when Pop came home from work every night at 5:30 and we sat around listening to the radio (we lived in Arizona) or playing canasta. But the Post-Industrial Era is not going to work that way. We have to be realists.

by dafe2

I'd have to certainly agree with Salamanders post (As you do), but I still believe you can shut the doors a 4 or 5.

Allthough businesses do run more & more 24 X 7 there seems to be (albeit a slow) realisation that people need quality of life as well.

Yes there are (fools?) that will work like crazy for the full garage & empty life. I did it for about 12 years only to realise that I missed some more 'valuable' experiences in my life.

Now there's a line, well a wall really, between my business & personal life.

I really feel for the men and women that put in twelve and fourteen hour days an DON't get paid properly for it (or) are encouraged to put it asside & take the time off - I believe if more people would simply push to be paid the overtime or refuse the work, businesses would have to hire more staff.

A 'simple' argument but (I) believe that as long as businesses get away with using existing ressources unfairly, they don't really know the true human ressource needs, in effect getting cheap labor.

by salamander

As one of those people who worked like a machine, and who is still trying to reform, I agree with your statments regarding quality of life. You have to partition it off; otherwise, you'll find yourself in the office at 3 a.m. brushing your teeth and preparing to sleep on a couch. When you develop a preference for which couch/chair at work you prefer to sleep on, it's time to enforce some boundaries.

Other signs: keeping a change of sweatclothes at work for when your bosses go home; keeping slippers at work; the take-out joint across from your office fills up your frequent-buyer punch card more than twice a month; sunlight stings your eyes when you finally do walk outside; and you find that it's often cheaper to tear up your parking ticket and pay the loss fee to the parking garage than pay the daily fee for the actual time your car's been parked in the same spot.

by dafe2

Take the kids to the park......WTF are you doing working on the weekends (LOL)

Been down that road, all your teaching the kids is that you (and later them) are expected to work at all times.

If you must, (as others have mentioned) setup a generic box and let them play on it.

Really though, it's great to have a kid friendly office ...................but only from 9 to 5 Monday through Friday.

Like I said I've down the live to work road. Today I choose to work to live.

by percyking

Being from WA (Australia for non aussies) baeball bats don' abound here.
Pretty simple.
Can't handle the consequences - NO KIDS

by pparsons0913

If truly a "kid friendly" workplace, designate a computer for the kids - doesn't have to be new, or connected to the net. Put some educational games on for the kids to play and let them go. I assume these are kids under 12, or they would be able to stay home when mom/dad must go in on the weekend.
Better yet, connect and work from home on the weekend.

by cuteelf

there were times when I as a kid went to my dad's office or my mom's office.

This was back when Thicknet was da bomb :).

I had no business at a terminal, and my parents told me so!
They would sit me down at an empty desk, and tell me to do my homework until they were done, or let me draw on paper.
No computer stuff.

I think if kids are allowed into a workplace, there should be a child-proofed supervised area for it. Without computers. Kids need to socialize, get off their tushies and play! Why are so many CHILDREN obese? HMMM???

Use imagination, stretch minds, read, draw, doodle, fiddle, tinker, just dont type and sit at a desk.

CuteElf

by mcs-1

You're right (IMO). If evolution is as it is, I can see a world in the next 200 years where people are just hairless, pasty-white blobs with two little arms and legs sticking out of them, and jacked into about 50 different wires and cables. Yeh, that's extreme :)
But, I know what you mean about playing, running and horse-assing around. This is something that has been lost on the latest generation of kids. I harp to my kids all the time about how I never sat around doing 'nothing' when I was a kid, in fact it was rare if I was in the house just doing 'nothing'. Quite often I force my kids off their arses and send them outside, or just somewhere to do something besides MSN ... my kids are probably pissed at me now for it, but hopefully will see my point someday?

by jdclyde

So parents won't be bothered by them is why so many watch so much TV and play all the video games.

If the kids are getting bored and making noise it makes THEM look bad.

Now on the other hand, if you have a good policy and your systems are locked down, how can going to Nick.com hurt the systems?

If this is standard that kids come to work, then why isn't an area setup just for them? Throw in a few computers that reimage themselves everytime they boot.

Hard to expect them to sit quietly.

When I was young and we went into my stepdads work on the weekend, my brother and I would play the old star trek on the terminals, or the character based football. That was coooool.

by banzilla

I have 4 Yes, 4 children (part of why I have to work on weekends)3 of them girls and one boy 13. Guess which one would rather play on the computer (duh). Anyway, when I do bring my youngest daughter in, she spends equal time drawing, playing with other kids, watching movies and on the computer and resting. I believe her lack of interest in computers and my other daughters for that matter have to do with their mother being a stay at home mom for the last 16 years. As for my son, why does he want to spend so much time playing video games, Probably because 1) his friends. 2)He has watched me at that computer for so many hours (working - I started hating online games shortly after spending weeks mastering DOOM)

Being a small office without much room, I like the idea of setup 1 or 2 machines on a Vlan with the locked down profile.

But before I start that project, I am out of here, I am going to get a baseball mit.

Thanks
Sam

by advancedgeek

/me initiates cheezy slow clap.

My parents did that for me, and I will do that for my children. Outside activities are good for both parent/child...it's healthy to unplug, even if you start to get the shakes (like me).

:D

by dwdino

With Centrino you too can work from dawn till dusk with minimal interferance. Sure go to the ballpark with the kiddos, there is an access point at the concession stand.

Actually the more I have become involved with IT the more dust has collected on my home computer. :)

I never even touched a PC/Computer until I was 14ish and it hasn't hurt me any.

I have 3 children, and there are no cell phones, pdas, gameboys, mp3 players, or laptops. The brain is there for a reason, engage it.

Interestingly enough, so far, I have been able to form compromises that say, if I am here on a weekend, I am not here next Thurs. or Fri.

by leiaj24u

Hey! I love children and can find many ways to entertain them. On a business network of computers with which many people are already having to be constantly monitored, I think it is risky business. Children in the past have accidentally taken down entire networks and cracked codes we had no clue about. Never under estimate the power of a child! I say No way. The risk out weighs the benfits here. Bring them their own little lap top or something! This is your job.

by comp1systems

The answer is a hearty, "NO!"

I have been in the same situation as you. I didn't think it at
the time, when I had taken my daughter to work on the last
day of school back in June 2003 at my old job. She had
gotten into the internet and was browsing and play games
in various sites, however, the problem came when she
attempted to download a trial program (or something like
that) from an unknown site.

What happened later was that the system had gotten hit
with a ton of spyware and adware files, not to mention
some of them being viruses. Children should not be
allowed on company computers because when something
goes wrong, the company will hold the parent liable and be
made to fix the problem and/or pay for the cost of fixing
the problem.

Fortunately, I was able to straighten the problem out using
the antivirus protection program which deleted the majority
of the files that were detected as threats and viruses. I had
to take time out of my work schedule to manually delete
the rest. It's too time consuming to undo damages caused
by a child playing around on a computer. Something can
get accidently deleted, files can accidentally be deleted,
who knows. It's too much of a high risk for businesses to
have to take.

If a policy is currently in the process of being written with
regard to keeping children off of company computers, then
it is a policy worth writing, and employees should have no
problems with it. I think child-friendly businesses who
welcome parents bringing their children to work should
have such policies in place.

SIDE NOTE: At home my daughter has a computer in her
room. There's a front computer and there's a back
computer. I do not allow her to use the back computer
solely because I use that for business-related functions.
And I have a policy stating that fact.

by comp1systems

The answer is a hearty, "NO!" However, your company
should not be totally against the idea of having at least two
computers set up somewhere where the kids can engage
themselves in fun educational programs that will keep them
busy.

I have been in the same situation as you. I didn't think it at
the time, when I had taken my daughter to work on the last
day of school back in June 2003 at my old job. She had
gotten into the internet and was browsing and play games
in various sites, however, the problem came when she
attempted to download a trial program (or something like
that) from an unknown site.

What happened later was that the system had gotten hit
with a ton of spyware and adware files, not to mention
some of them being viruses. Children should not be
allowed on company computers because when something
goes wrong, the company will hold the parent liable and be
made to fix the problem and/or pay for the cost of fixing
the problem.

Fortunately, I was able to straighten the problem out using
the antivirus protection program which deleted the majority
of the files that were detected as threats and viruses. I had
to take time out of my work schedule to manually delete
the rest. It's too time consuming to undo damages caused
by a child playing around on a computer. Something can
get accidently deleted, files can accidentally be deleted,
who knows. It's too much of a high risk for businesses to
have to take. And at that time, my boss was not agreeable
to setting up the old spare computer with educationa
games feeling this was not that much of a child-friendly
envrionment, and that it was a place of business to "get the
work done" as she put it.

If a policy is currently in the process of being written with
regard to keeping children off of company computers, then
it is a policy worth writing, and employees should have no
problems with it. I think child-friendly businesses who
welcome parents bringing their children to work should
have such policies in place.

SIDE NOTE: At home my daughter has a computer in her
room. There's a front computer and there's a back
computer. I do not allow her to use the back computer
solely because I use that for business-related functions.
And I have a policy stating that fact. Her computer is
equipped with all of her games so is the front computer.

by skywalker_al

If you are an IT Manager, you have to set the course. By not allowing your children on the pc's, you are the role-model for you policy to follow. What are you going to do when someone else's child inadvertantly deletes an important file? You can't point the finger at anyone, if you, the IT Manager has his children on the company pc's as well.

By doing this, you are protecting yourself.

by pr0x1

With all the other replies, I would also support a >>stand-alone<< pc, not connected to the network, that you can put kids games on, etc.. An older, sunsetted, recycled, non-business system that can be put to good use and you don't care if it gets destroyed.

I would NOT hook it up to the network unless it was locked down so tight that only certain internet sites were available (Noggin, Disney, etc.) and even then, I'd be cautious.

Best bet is to provide some alternate form of entertainment. And regardless of what you do, never leave them unsupervised.

by martin_ternouth

. . . and it would amuse my eight-year-old to have a go with my
chainsaw.

My friend is a physician and wonders if he should let his kids
have the run of the pharmacy cabinet . . .

My brother's a trucker, and hell it allows him to have a bit of
sleep when his toddler takes the wheel . . .

by jsdutcher69

There are times I do bring my son into work with me but I do have a laptop just for him and his games so there is no issue of and work data being compromised at all. Plus, I do watch him to make sure he's always next to me at all times. All it takes is 5 seconds for a child to wander off, even less to damage a computer or worse.

by scifiman

If a child has to be constantly watched so he/she doesn't turn off servers, spill hot coffe on themselves, eat the kitty litter- then hey, leave them at home. But an older child can benefit when there is no danger. My son used to help me strip down old junk PC's for parts and learned alot. Kids can see what dad and mom do to put food on the table, and if they're older it exposes them to careers they might like to investigate. Or jobs they want to avoid!

by wallowamichael

Of course the kids can't DO what you're DOING. The experience of learning something they can't get in school is invaluable.
If you think that child friendly places mean that they are unsupervised and running wild, you are mistaken.
I don't know of any lumberjacks that bring their kids to work, but it could be done. I do know of doctors that bring thier kids to work (never all day, however) and we correspond with a trucker family who are homeschooling their children while on the road! (They know geography REALLY well).
If modern businesses (logging included) are going to survive and compete, they are going to have to consider bringing kids back into the workplace.

by numbat

You need to determine what is the appropriate policy in regards to network logons, passwords, and third party use of a logon.

For example, our policy is logons are issued to the individual. Passwords cannot be given to anyone else. Third party users may only use network resources under strict supervision. Abuse of a logon is the responsibility of the person to whom it has been issued - and they wear the consequences if it's been shared.

Your company has to determine what is the level of information and IT security required. Most security analysts believe the greatest danger to information security is posed by authorised users, not by external parties.

by oddish

I say they can get on the computer if the parents will be responsible for their clean up. Children on the internet at my work is horrible. They play games on the computer, change the background, download games, music etc... Leave the area a mess. Eating candy, food, drinking juice. I work for a school system, so my coworker really don't care because it is a baby sitting tool. I am the who has to fight virus coming in. It is a nightmare.

by cgresley

I rather have children as users. Not as thick as a lot of grown-up users.

Treat them like adults.

Give them their own log on details and tell them the don'ts. Don't download. Don't install. And use Mozilla.

Most of the times they will listen.

by mmerchant

Statistics show that about 64% of spy ware/mal ware/virus/worms etc..come from children websites. it could be the new "pok-e-mon" online trading website or online game that brings it in.

personally, i would take an old computer (which already restricts how elaborate of a game the kid can play) and set it up outside your network letting the child play whatever they want. create an unattended cd that you can just pop in once a month or so that way it doesn't get filled up with too much crud too often.

this would be my suggestion.

by jlockh9122

IF POSSIBLE, USE A STAND ALONE COMPUTER FOR THE KIDS. OR ALTERNATIVELY, SEE IF THE COMPUTER CAN BE ACCESSED WITHOUT LOGGING ONTO THE NETWORK. AS A LAST RESORT, BRING PLENTY OF HOMEWORK AND/OR HANDHELD SEGA OR NINTENDO PLAYERS!!!

by pcsupportuk

I used to have to do the odd weekend and regularaly took my children with me, maybe there just good kids, but I didn't let them roam free.
Give them as much freedom as is safe but rememer they are children and aren't expected to understand health and safty at work.
Surely you could create a user account with a strongly locked down profile, controlled Internet access.

by papaike

You have to isolate the net, or set the systems to re-set on re-boot. A re-set on re-boot basically returns the system to it's approved configuration. Thus correcting all posssible mess-ups. This only works with all data being saved to removable media. Not an easy thing in a normal workplace.

by doctordisk

My network is a primary (US = Elementary) school with 350 kids from grades 1 to 5 all with their own login accounts. Every PC accessible by a student is returned to a fresh new disk image on every re-boot. Unfortunately there are a few adult users (principals, etc.) who insist on having their PCs set not to re-image on re-boot.
I have ten times as much problem with a small handful of adult users as I have with all the kids put together.
If kids are taught to understand networking, login names, passwords, etc., they are no problem on a network providing their login profile is set up appropriately. I don't know what age you can start to teach this sort of stuff, but my classes of five-year-old grade one kids virtually never forget their passwords or have any other problems after the first two weeks of each school year.
The firewall system blocks all sites whose url contains a couple of hundred specific strings such as "virgin", "sex", etc., blocks a further few hundred specific sites, and specifically allows a bunch of sites that would otherwise be blocked by the other rules (such as the Virgin Blue airlines site).

Now I thoroughly agree with the comments that kids need out-of-doors activities rather than extra hours on PCs, but if for some reason they MUST be in the office with Dad, then providing you set up their own appropriately restricted login accounts, spend some good quality time teaching them about the network, and limit them to computers whose hard disks will re-image on re-boot, they are neither a danger nor a problem to your network.
By the way, every employee on our network knows that their computer may be replaced or their hard disk re-imaged at any time without reference to them, and that people caught attempting to save work-related stuff to a local hard disk instead of the appropriate area on the server get severely disciplined.

by graeme

We support plenty of small businesses that are "kid friendly" where parents have the kids in at work for the last couple of hours of every day - cheaper than day care and the business gets to keep skilled employees. It is a win - win situation EXCEPT when it comes to computing. Most have learned (to their cost) that they also need to provide sandboxed computers for the kids and they need Interent access for homework and IM'ing their friends - or parents soon hear about it and don't get any work done! We are happy to assist. :-)

For the home worker - it becomes quickly apparent that the family computer must EITHER become the worker's computer exclusively or they get a second one for themselves.

Young kids cannot discriminate and older kids take part in riskier computing behaviour - especially when it is not their own computer they are screwing up.

by jags_mcp

Until n unless u dont care of your companys' secrets n documents, than you can bring the kids.

by pwalton99us

Children might be accomidated using a restricted visitor log on, Microsoft does have a problem of not being able to implement passwords at the catalog file level with in the file management system. I am not talking about password built into applications.

The problem of telecommuting from away from the office creats more problems and an organization. Users in that catageory have to have positive controll of access to their computer when working from home.

I used to head a Computer Science Explorer Post and we would bring in our Explorers in for tours of our Force Control WWMCCCS vault but no terminal access, but we would demo of it on a development main frame.

Our Visitor age policy was the same as the SAC Command Post no children under age 12 on the computer floor or terminal areas.

The age 12 up is still a good policy for most environments. Children at that age have a better degree of accountability.

by bearwhiz

Considering that you and other staff (including principals)already do bring children in and allow it, precedent has been set. It's not all bad.

1. establish a children's user account, block all server access except for one common area with privileges to save only there. allow access to some games, standard software, and the internet. log all activity for the account
2. your internet access should have pornography blocked as it is
3. prepare a contract between the parent and the company relieving the company of liability should the child see material inappropriate, accepting the parent's responsibility for damages to equipment (normally keyboards, etc.) and for maintaining complete network security from the child.
4. prepare a contract between the child and the company emphasizing that if the attached rules are broken, the child will not be allowed computer use (or even on the premises, if needed)

by mary.hoerr

Thanks, bearwhiz!
We're child-friendly too. Maybe kids have no place in banks, but we're a small non-profit. Some of our people work here instead of other places where they could make more money in part BECAUSE the place is child-friendly.
Ideas like a separate place set up for kids are both too expensive (sometimes we're pressed for space as it is) or don't allow the parent to be able to supervise their child (because it wouldn't be near their work space).
The kid's account and the contracts are perfect solutions.
THANKS!

by gawiman

Better get your legal department's opinion. A child visiting workplace visits a porn site, reads an off-color joke, exposes another child to inappropriate material (Are they segregated by age? How extensive is the adult supervision?), violates illegal downloading restrictions, goes to a chat room and hooks up with a predator... the liability possibilities are endless.

Yes, it's OK for kids to visit the workplace occasionally (though the company must accept a ding on productivity) but unless the company is willing to accept the expense of maintaining an offline network, a protected network, standalones configured for children (and answering for the thousandth time, "How come I can't get to the Internet?) then, NO.

by mdm

Face it, children are a part of our society. Sometimes it is necessary for them to accompany adults to the workplace. It would be better if the children did not use workplace computers because they invariably will try to make the workplace computer into a familiar PC that has IM's, and other applications which they use and enjoy. As with any workplace environment, without specific PC useage policies, there is little that can be done. (If the boss can have PORN, why can't the children have IM and games?) A suggestion that could easily provide the needed distraction for the children whilst the adult works is simply to setup a workstation designated for the children's use and make it off limits to adults. Why not?

by cheetahspeedz

To accomodate the no group and the yes group....all you need to do is set a corner that's for visitors!

This way, when the kids visit - there are 2-3 PCS (available in a carousel in a small library area with books, games and headphones that employees can let their kids use without getting on the working computers or potentially disrupting things on your network.

All they need is internet access and music and some learning tools or something - why inihibit their curiosity? Further, why squelch kids interest in what their parents do? For far too long we have isolate kids from the workplace and therefore they have no idea of what work is like and flounder in school and when they older trying to "visualize" what they themselves might like to do as productive members of society.

One added bonus - by setting up an access corner, you create a positive acceptance AND help keep those who don't want kids on the computers protected from theirs being "played on". A second bonus - by making that access corner, if you ever have other visitors, customers or whatnot that need to "hop on" a computer to check email or get on the web, you already have it in place !! They can use the resource corner as well (phone, web, email, etc...) !!

The solution to the children in the workplace is very easy as long as there is a bigger picture and a larger context for it than just can the kids bang on the work PCS or not.

by kattoon

Are you working in an office or a daycare center?

Who's watching the kids while the parents are working? This is not my idea of a productive work environment.

Either stay home with your children (isn't that why you had them in the first place?) or get a babysitter.

Sorry to be so harsh, but there needs to be a line drawn between WORK and HOME.

by j.lupo

This is the exact thing a former company of mine did. We set up an area for the kids where they had a few computers (which were not connected to the office network or the internet). It also had books, games, and other items they could use to keep them busy.

We found that it increased employee moral in unexpected ways. First, there are employees who (for what ever reason) do not like kids and feel they should NEVER be in an office setting.

I can think of a few reasons, like
interrupting work from getting done, being too
loud when others are on the phone with
customers.

At any rate, by designating an area for them, the employees who didn't want the kids in the office were ok with it now. So, that section didn't complain anymore and the parents were able to do what they had to as well without worrying about their kids. It worked great.

The important thing is to make sure the area is not in a busy spot in the office that gets a lot of customer traffic.

Good Luck

by kattoon

In most offices, each person has a computer at their desk. If you only have one PC, (yes, I know some have more than 1)who's computer is your kid using? Are you letting them sit at your co-workers' desks?

Yeah, my favorite thing in the whole world is to come to work on Monday morning -- my keyboard all sticky with some unknown goo, grubby fingerprints on my monitor, and items from my desk strewn about.

The workplace is not for children. How can you actually get work done AND supervise your child properly? One or the other suffers. It is not fair to your child or to your employer.

However, if the child is older (early teens), that can be a different story. Why not buy them a cheapo laptop so they can bring that to the office. This way they are familiar with it, and can play games etc. Better yet, why not actually have them STUDY for school. Even if they don't have homework, I'm sure there is something they can improve on.

I like another person's answer to let the child do some actual work...clean up etc. But this puts the company in an awkward position. If the child gets hurt while they are "helping" who pays? Hmmmm child labor laws??? Lawsuits are a sad but true fact in our current "legalistic" society.

I could go on and on...but I should stop here....
=^..^=

by gsharpe

I agree, and I am the Network Administrator here. If we're doing our jobs adequately, then there is no need to worry.

by jim asbille

I don't think kids should be on the work network or in the office during working hours. There have been some good thoughts on seperation of work and home and some good comments on keeping families together. What I have always felt is that companies should contract with a daycare provider and have them onsite but not in the work area. Employees using this service could be required to share the cost like they would with health insurance. A cafeteria plan would help pay for this in pre-tax dollars. Lunches and breaks could be taken with the child. Older computers could be setup for the kids that would not hinder the working network. The reality of life today is that BOTH parents need to work and sick children can lead to increased absenteeism not to mention stressed workers.

by mike_chappell

I bring my daughter in four days a week (only for about 30 minutes until Mom can pick her up). I put a child gate up on the entrance to my cube so she doesn't roam freely and from time to time she likes to play games on one of the computers in my office or watch DVDs while she's here.

I have the advantage of haveing several machines in my office and I regularly capture images of each, so if one gets screwed up I can re-image it and not really lose anything.

I realize that I have a pretty good setup as far as being "kid-friendly" but it was the company that has allowed me to do this.

by xamdam

I'll echo a couple of sentiments...

Unless you can offer expendable boxes that are off-
line, don't even think about this. And whatever you do,
don't offer a child a computer that work of the business
is actually performed on.

The legal problems are capable of completely wiping
out the company and possibly whole careers.
(including yours)

If a child accesses the worst aspects of the internet/
chat - You're in trouble, and possibly the child's life is at
risk.

If a child accesses files related to clients and throws
them away, corrupts or in any way disrupts the
commerce within the organization... do I need say
more?

If a child accesses sensitive personal information about
any employee... again, someone's gonna be sued.

The only viable solution would be computers that are
totally expendable that have no access to the outside
world.

Standard user level accounts would be prudent, with
appropriate age/grade level educational games/
software installed.

Be sure to follow standards for software installation.

Create a computer usage policy for these computers
and be sure to have the parents read & sign it! For
those children say age 12 and above, get them to sign
an additional "child's portion" usage policy.

This will help instill a sense of responsibility and
accountability.

Good luck... you ARE gonna' need it... along with
asbestos underwear, kevlar body armor and REALLY
good attorney.

by mgruber

You mention principals and other employees in your question. Principals are usually associated with schools. There would be no harm in letting kids use the computers if you are employed at a school. I am a computer support technician for a public school, and that is one of the things that I would like to see more of is school employees bringing their kids in to use the computers. That is what we have provided the computers in the classroom for so that the kids can play while learning at the same time.

by gtrfgtrf

The discussion has been centered around “Is this a good idea for the children and/or the parents.” I pose this question. If a child accesses the Internet and is solicited by a child predator or manages to get past the blocking software and accesses an inappropriate site, is the company liable? This is not a risk I’d want my company to take. Be safe. Keep the kids off the Internet while on company property. Old stand alone PC? Maybe. Take the modem out.

by drumchik

I was a working mom for many years, as well as a supervisor of working parents, and I think it's great when employers are sensitive to the needs of their employees. But "kid friendly environment" can mean many things - from having an established day care on site, all the way to what basically amounts to having kids unsupervised and underfoot at any given time because there is no structured accommodations for kids or general guidelines for parent-employees.

Bringing the kids to work should not REPLACE day care; it's not good for the kids, the parent, co-workers or productivity! In one job I held, my supervisor's 6-year old snuck up behind me and nearly cut off my hair before I caught him. He also cut the phone line in our office and on many occasions I would come in to find my desk and my work-in-progress in complete disarray.

A truly kid-friendly environment will have some sort of structured accommodations that will give parenting employees some flexibility, provide the kids some sort of interesting diversions, and will respect the needs of other employees to conduct their work undisturbed. With that overall policy in place, it's a relatively simple process to set other specific policies such as computer use.

In my experience, kids should never be allowed to use company computers that are in use for company work.

by mikefromco

First, you have to define kids and playing. There's a difference between a 10yr old and a 16yr old hacker-cracker.
Second, if you're system is as secure as it should be, nothing a child could do should be able to cause any more damage than any other user. It's not like adults just use the computer for work, they're playing games, downloading, etc. in many places.
Third, the policy is tough to enforce. Most people don't bring their kids to work during normal hours. It's those sometimes needed trips in the evening or weekends, maybe on short notice where there is no babysitter available and when there may not be anyone there to notice anyway.
If your security policy only covers "responsible users", then you don't have one...

by hgordon

By all means allow the children to play on the computers. Perhaps someone will observe them and become the first adult to discover how to put a computer to good use. Unlikely perhaps, but there is a first time for everything.

by mgskins

it's unprofessional to have children in the workplace at all, but letting kids on the company network is ridiculous. Would you want to do business with a bank that let kids surf the internet on the computers that contain your private data? Spyware/Adware, etc. I wouldn't do business with a company that had kids running around in the offices - making paper airplanes out of my critical faxes.

by scifiman

You must not have kids, or else you let them run wild. My 7 yr old is responsible and knows what not to touch and always asks for help when needed or she isn't sure. It depends on the child, so yes, there has to be a open policy in the workplace, but a pure ban isn't necessarily a good idea either. It depends on the workplace; banks, metal fab, welding, explosives = bad. But many workplaces are just plain old offices. Everyone here will need to evaluate and decide.

by mgskins

true, i don't have kids. i do work in a 'kid friendly' office environment. i've had kids bust into my office during meetings. in addition, i have had a virus sweep through my department that some conscientious mother exposed us to by dragging her sick kid to work. 5-5 people home sick, just because the mother didn't want to use one of her personal days - very nice. it's also unreasonable, and frankly bad parenting, to expect a seven year old kid to sit quietly for an 8 hour day, and not be disruptive. Clearly, it is also rude as the devil to your coworkers trying to do their jobs.
isn't it enough that childless people pay all these taxes to educate your kids, and build parks, and zoos, and kid museums, etc? do we have to deal with them at our jobs too?

by brownhill11

NO way! It's a security and work safety hazard. I thought this was a joke - hopefully it is. This is NOT the norm for any workplace I've ever been in. In fact, I've never heard of such a practice - until now!

by scifiman

You have to get out more. Most businesses are very small (less than 20 employees). When I consulted I've seen kids, dogs, cats, and a company ferret. Now a big multinational will only have the annual kids at work day with a tightly controlled tour and a couple events. But plenty of small companies have somebody's kid there almost everyday, due to day care issues or whatever. The kids are visiting, just like at a friends house; they can't run wild, have to sit and be quiet, don't touch equipment, etc. It's not that hard to control, and easy to set up a seldom used conference room or spare cube with a tightly manged PC, headphones, small TV, playstation- all brought in and donated by the parents for anyone to use. It works out very well when the rules are followed, and makes for much more productive and unworried parent employees.

by longennamer

I like hearing you guys talk about keeping a distinction b/w work and home. I think its crazy that employers anymore expect to have everyone on call all the time and work like a dog. Its not physically healthy, its not relationship healthy. How can you have a good relationship with your wife and kids if your never around to talk to them and hug them?

by anarchocapitalist

If the kids aren't on the payroll, they aren't working for the company. If they aren't working for the company, they have no business using company equipment and resources--especially since kids don't understand a lot of the dangers, liabilities and security issues associated with Internet use.

by tomsal

Flat out I don't like the idea of kids in the workplace on a daily basis, week in and week out. First why would you WANT to - as a parent? I mean I know we all love our kids (though I'm not a parent yet -- I've been an uncle since 12 years old and am very close to most (but not all) of my nieces and nephews), wouldn't it drive you crazy to be around your child all the time particularly when you are trying to be professional and get work done at the office?

If its purely a matter of you have zero options in regards to nobody can watch your child and you can't afford a sitter or whatever that's different (though I'd really try hard to find a solution even then -- ask your parents, a close aunt or uncle etc.).

Secondly, don't "kid" yourselves this isn't really fun if you are a child to hange out with your mom or pop at work.

Even if you give them stuff to do that'll only last for so long. Kids are kids they WANT to play video games, they WANT to run around and play in the parks, playgrounds, etc. That's what being a kid is about.

I'm not saying the educational games aren't a good idea, my thing is -- yeah..but not every day, all day. Wanting our kids to be the best they can be and pretty much not be stupid kids without feelings or ethics -- that's good stuff and every parent should aim for that with their child..BUT...don't be a tight wad with your kids either, if all they are allowed / told to do all the time is "No you must always do something with a life lesson in it or that brings educational development to you"...you know what that kid things (or eventually will) "Damn my life sucks, its so boring.".

by scifiman

It depends. In general I say no way, because the typical user and children will always cause some level of damage. However, I work at a tiny software shop (7 people) and I frequently have to work a weekend or two a month and I'll bring in my 7 yr old. While I'm working she can surf to nickjr.com or watch movie trailers, etc. since my firewall rules won't let people go anywhere dangerous. Any damage would stay contained on my office PC, which I can easily fix, although it hasn't been a problem yet. But I sure wouldn't want any other kids on my network. Even our software developers (web based applications) aren't all that aware of the inner workings of Windows and PC's.

by whitehare

I couldn't help but notice what strong emotional responses this has elicited. Personally, I don?t think having children at work is conducive to a productive work environment. However, apparently your workplace has an open environment that encourages family to enjoy this part of your life.

If that is the case, then I recommend that computers be setup in open-area pods where adults can monitor the children?s activities. Put the computers on dial-up or broadband connections outside the company network to eliminate the accidental or intentional misconduct.

by unclerob

You make an excellent point and I totally agree with you but I have a question concerning a portion of your post.
You mentioned policies regulating employee's legal behavior outside of work: prohibitions against smoking, anti-obesity policies, etc. Do you have any real world examples of these policies? These policies seem for the most part blatantly illegal. Granted smoking and obesity are health risks, no one will argue that point, but I've never heard of any company policies that prohibit you from being a smoker or overweight/fat/obese. We've all heard of or experienced no smoking at the workplace or on company property which is fine (walk across the street on lunch & coffee breaks) but for a company to tell someone that they're not allowed to smoke at all even when that employee has left the workplace and gone home or somewhere else after work seems ludicrous - if something like this existed, more media attention would have definitely been created on this issue. And the obesity issue, some people are genetically pre-disposed to carrying more weight regardless of what they do, diet, exercise. Obese people (mildly chubby to dangerously obese) probably make up the largest portion of the population in North America, I find it hard to believe that any company would have anti-obesity policies, discrimination against someone who is obese would clearly be against the law. If you have links to news sites documenting these types of human rights violations, please reply and post them, I'd definitely like to read up on it.
thx....rob,wpg

by jsmith

There is a michigan Insurance company that is indeed banning smokers. I haven't found the news link yet, but is real and has been a number of policy changes that effect personal life of employees. The reasoning is that smokers have increased health care costs effecting benefits of all employees and as it is a controlable(self inflicted) situation he felt he had a right to make the policy. Let me just say I abhor smoking, my father died at 54 from, in part, smoking since he was ten. That said, what a person does in his/her home and private life should not be effected by work policy. If you are late because of contant hang overs...grounds for dismisal, but simply drinking should not be.

by mavv

at an insurance company where I live. A friend of mine went to apply for a job there and they told him that they could not hire him due, in part, to the fact that he is a smoker. Part of the reasoning they gave him was that it "didn't look good for the company" to have smokers working for them and selling insurance and that it increased the cost of benefits as jsmith mentioned. Crazy as far as I am concened as I also agree that what someone does in their personal life should not have any bearing on their work life, unless it starts affecting their work life...late from hangover, etc.

by salamander

Did a quick search. Here are a couple of well-publicized recent cites:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7019590/site/newsweek/

http://www.cbsnews.com/stories/2005/02/18/national/main674879.shtml

Per the attorney quoted in the first article, employers can institute these policies, unless state law specifically prohibits them from doing so.

There was also this discussion on TR, which may contain some info you might find interesting:

https://www.techrepublic.com.com/5208-6230-0.html?forumID=6&threadID=167468&start=0&tag=search

by jmiles

Kids have NO business using corporate resources. The companies didn't invest the thousands or millions of dollars in equipment for kids to play with. If you have to work, hire a babysitter to look after the kids...

by dblaylock

Sorry . . . when you are at the office you work - when you are at home you play.

Children learn by example. If they are allowed to "play" while mom or dad are working, what kind of message are you sending to the next generation?

That being said, your company also going to have to deal with the ramifications of their playing. Experience as a parent has taught me children lack the maturity associated with making wise decisions and have a tendancy to think that whatever they can do at home can be done at mom or dad's work. Office systems will quickly be consumed with spyware, adware & related problems. Case in point: Last year one of our attorneys had his son "work" during the summer. The next thing I knew he was on the PC of his dad's secretary and had installed several music peer-to-peer software packages. What a nightmare to clean up!

by darendjunker

Making sure your network is resilient enough to withstand children will make it strong enough to survive regular users with fewer help desk calls.

I have run widely varied networks and consulted on even more. The best ones, with the fewest headaches for support staff, were the ones that were configured so well that kids could be left unattended at the computer.

by scottyc2005

It is also a good idea to keep kids off company laptops when employees take them home. I have had employees bring their computers in because their kid was playing with it at home

by wallowamichael

In all of the kid and/or pet friendly places that I've seen, the kids and pets are as well behaved as the employees. I think everyone is trying to think of bringing their children into the existing environment at their workplace, which in most cases is NOT kid/pet friendly.
We don't have a policy here about bringing in children, but I have my kids around for a few hours each week while my wife goes to yoga or some other activity. They like to see me work on the network stuff and they get to hear me on the phone dealing with all kinds of day to day stuff. This kind of education doesn't happen until you're out of college and perhaps an intern somewhere.
We have to bring our kids into the modern life! As others have said, the industrial model of workers coming in, working, and going home, is bursting at the seams (for better or worse).
All of the old professions (miller, blacksmith, farmer, tinkerer) used to educate their kids (sons, of course, but we're past that) by having them around all the time! They learned math, language skills, history, writing, all by doing the family work.
Bring your kids to work and set them up with drawing projects or basketball or even computers with software. Show them what you're doing, and if they're interseted it's a great education for them. You don't have to teach them how to subnet a class B IP space, just tell them you want some computers to talk to each other and not others.
I have never had any regrets working for kid friendly places nor having my kids come to work with me.

by bcdrguy

I think the answer to your question is obvious, NO. The work place is not a play ground. If the company has a day care or makes special arrangements for children in the work place, that would make life easier. I love children, but I am hired to do a job, not baby sit or possibly listen to other parents trying to keep them from disturbing co-workers.

by jenniferlott

I think it is great to have a kid friendly environment at the workplace. If security is setup in the office as it should be then there should not be a threat of having children play on the computers.

by bcdrguy

I think the answer to your question is obvious, NO. The work place is not a play ground. If the company has a day care or makes special arrangements for children in the work place, that would make life easier. I love children, but I am hired to do a job, not baby sit or possibly listen to other parents trying to keep them from disturbing co-workers.

by bajarip

Bringing in children must be locally decided, based on individual specific environments. My children come in to the university, occasionally, and do help in some very constructive ways (and gain imvaluable exposure and experience, for future IT leadership). And, believe it or not, sometimes provide useful incites & suggestions, form their youthful perspectives. But certain strong restrictions must also be applied.

by teana36

There is nothing wrong with letting your children play on the computer when you are working. The children should know what is okay to do and what is not. When a child is on the computer whether it is playing or working, the child is learning computer skills. It would be up to the boss and parent on whether or not the child should be on the internet.

by mkalinovich

Surely your children have friends their own age, who more than likely have parents of their own. Trade babysitting weekends, you work they watch, then switch it up one night (not even necessarily a weekend).

Kids should be playing with other kids, the obvious social and psychological benefits of having peers and friends.

Besides, to have a child sit on their toosh for 8 hours playing on a computer, or watching TV is hardly conductive to their health. This has been mentioned, go let them play sports or something a bit more active than click click clacking on a keyboard or remote.

by g.m.bakker (cne, self employed)

I have situations where the wife is working, there is an issue, and i'm taking care of the kids. And then it's either shit creek or accept the kids. However office computers, only if there is a user + profile they can use that does no harm to the company, but allows them to play a web game, or just browse. I work part-time for dutch government, and we have these all arranged and up and running. It is after all usually after hours that such instances occur...like my Sunday morning!

by anthem

I've read that work has become the new religion of the west, and that we take our identity and even find our purpose in life from our work. This whole trend that I've been seeing over the last 20 years of people spending more and more time at work, doing stuff (sorry folks, it's true) that nobody will know or care about a year or two from now, seems more like religious devotion to me than anything else. The bosses are like the priests of the middle ages, demanding certain acts of penance and contrition... Wasn't the whole purpose of the industrial revolution and technolog supposed to be to give us MORE leisure time? Looks like the new religion thinks that slavery is ok again...

by mavv

I don't have kids so I don't know "what it's like" but I do run a network and I would not, not ever, let any kids onto my network. They can come to the office all they want but they will not touch any PC's on the network. That is just asking for trouble. We admins spend enough time protecting the network from grown adults and the dumb things they can do. Just imagine what a child could do, albeit innocently, but no less dangerous. I like the idea of seperate, non-connected, computers for the kids. That would be fine but absolutely no access to any company devices.

As for the side topic of working so much these days...I try my best to leave when I am supposed to but there are times when you just can't and yoou need to stay to finish something off. That is fine. When it comes to coming in on weekends or after hours, it will need to be an emergency otherwise it ain't happening and my employer knows it. She has called me at home with a question or problem in the past but has never asked me to come in to fix it. Like I said, if it is an emergency and the server has crashed or something then I will come in, and get paid I might add, and fix the problem.

I have only worked 2 weekends in almost three years and that was due to the fact that I rolled out a new server to replace our old one and needed to do it after hours.

Just my 2 cents.

by johnydii

Would you want kids on computers that contain your information at your bank? Would you let your kid play with your car? How about a chain saw? It is time for children to know their place. Let them read a book, do their home work, bring a toy.
NO!