How many times do I have to explain to people?!!!
RS232 is a standard which defines not only the serial data protocol, but the connector as well. By definition RS232 MUST use a 25 pin D Type connector. The 9 pin connector is a reduced serial portwhich uses a subset of the RS232 standard and is actually an AT serial port...
Anyway....there are two types of RS232 device. DTE and DCE. DTE is Data Terminal Equipment and DCE is Data Carrier Equipment. RS232 or serial Modems are ALWAYS DCE. Most computers or teletypes are DTE and plotters, printers or in your case, the router could be either. DTE to DCE connections require all pins to be connected one-to-one. That is Pin 1-1, 2-2, 3-3 etc. DCE-DCE or DTE-DTE require a crossover cable. ForRS232 (25 Pin) that means 1-1, 2-3, 3-2, 4-5, 5-4 6-8, 7-7, 8-6 and possibly additional connections. 9 pin serial ports transpose the input and output connections so that although a PC is DTE, the pins are actually connected as DCE....another of IBM's contributions to messing up standards!! I suggest contacting Cisco and asking THEM what cable you need!!!