There's nothing wrong with being liberal....in your case you seem to know your users & you appear to use responsible techniques. IMO there should still be some form of written policy. Due diligence. (Maybe you have one, you don't mention it)
In some countries, you may need to be aware of (and abide by), Governmental issues such as Sarbanes/Oxley (US) and PIPEDA (Ca)
In some enterprises you may have thousands of users, politics, and all manner of (user) sophistication..........Yes, there's porn, music and just plain surfing. Then there's E-Mail.....
In most, well in my opinion ALL computing environments - Threats come from within. They can be intentional and/or accidental.
Absolutely - There is nothing wrong with a liberal policy but the rules MUST be in writing, clear and uniform.
I'll give you a for instance:
A supervisor notices an employee doing a lot of surfing. He requests an internet useage report on the employee. The report shows the employee has surfed for more than 43 hours in the past 22 working days. It was clearly not work related surfing. When confronted, the employee says, "I'm sorry, I wasn't aware of any policy." There's really nothing you can do.
If he/she works a 40 hour week, this employee was given a weeks pay, the employer received nothing in return. Some businesses call this theft. (I know I do). An Employee does not own the computers or the infrastructure. They are TOOLS an employer supplie to either produce or account for income. A simple view I'm sure.
On the flip side, I wonder what this same employee would say about the company or OUR security if he where a victim of identity theft...
No doubt it wouldn't matter that he/she was in some way responsible......just that it was found to happen at his office. All he/she thinks is: "I was at work! How could the IT group let this happen!"
And they'd tell anybody who'd listen...
IT is not "Corporate Internet Police", but all I'm saying is we should be doing all we can to educate our users, protect corporate asetts (using due diligence) and also protect users, in some cases, even against themselves.