Is it objetive to compare the sum of updates of 3 operating systems, against anything else ? Is it fair to compare un updates without comparing mitigation factors, likehood of ocurrence and versions affected ?. I think it is not.
Product maturityis not equal to time in market. How many times has linux been compiled and a release tested in the Open Source community ?
Vendor support is a mith. I use very little of open source products, but my experience tells me the flaw are fixed faster on some open source products that they are on the ones my company paid for. I will no go in details, but Apache has been quite a good experience for me, will other paid webservers have not been as good as it.
Focus on support and security on open source products is real, four years ago I would have share your opinion, but since I've been researching on different open source products this has change, and I think that from a marketing point of view companies have a bigger banner stating "Security", doesn's always mean it is backed up with real work.
Using open source, does not mean you must code and compile your version, it is up to you, I don't see an issue of security, rather than personal likes and capacity.
Keep your mind open, we do not have to migrate to open source, but we do not have to keep on payed software. We must evaluate, compare, make decisions; options have changed, we are not on 1998 when "Open Source at enterprise" was a bad word.