Agreeing on politics is not becoming of us.
On more government, I don't agree that tighter reigns should be imparted on citizens, if that is your definition of MORE government that people keep pushing for. However, when people push for things like subsidized medical, welfare etc. That's where the grey area seems to come in and where you seem to have difficulty accepting it, as you see it as MORE government.
Most other democratic nations have deemed social welfare and medical, just as essential as police and fire.
So if these social services (yeah, that's right, I said it)are actually essential services, then all the other seemingly "frivolous" spending is what others deem too much government.
You, on the other hand, seem to see welfare and subsidized medical as being frivolous and unneeded government but other spending essential.
I think America still has slapped arse syndrome over having such a weak military after the attack on Pearl Harbour. You were teetering on the point of, get it together REAL quick or be invaded and speak Germ-anese (like that, German/Japanese?).
As a result, it has been vital that it never happens again, which I can fully accept of course, one bitten twice shy.
But the constant focused on military, war, war budgets, TRILLIONS in debts etc. just takes it to an extreme. As always, US politics goes from one extreme to the other.
YOU never seem to find a nice, comfortable balance and begin maintaining an even keel.
It is the nature of American people too, that's why they are so easily spotted in public when in other countries, EXTREMES in every way. Even FOOD there is an EXTREME, must be the biggest bag/box/bottle/serving, must be cheapest. Extremes.
I my eyes, you REALLY need to find some middle ground, find a comfort zone. then you can relax, enjoy living prosperous lives in a country that sees to equalize wealth (not necessarily in the form of redistribution but moreso opportunity).
I know, let ME run your freakin' country for a term. I'll fix it, nobody will give a toss about politics, everyone will be healthy and happy, you'll become the world's greatest exporter of marijuana for use in clothing, replacing paper products, plastics renewable energy etc. not the stuff that you smoke but the stuff that creates a renewable industry.
I'll give it back to someone in four years and they can give it a go, but I am sure that once people see their lives just become EASIER and less cluttered with BS, they will be much happier.
EDIT: Just read all that and it seem to be a lot of rambling thoughts about nothing, but I think there's a few points buried in it somewhere and I didn't bash anyone, well accept Bush but that's allowed.