Changed my attitude about the poster practically 180 degrees around. Filed it under live and learn. Like I tell people when I learn something new and unexpected, "Now I have experience."
I never did see the yuk that got yanked. I know that some of the yuks aren't very funny to me, (old videos and jokes and lame ones at that) but I think, "if that's what floats your boat so be it." Every once in awhile someone posts something funny, to me. (Notice the emphasis-"to me"?) Doesn't happen often though. Some of the funniest stuff can happen in the middle of a "serious" discussion anyways.
I don't get racist crap and people can stick all that where the sun don't shine. I don't buy it. Never really have, I'm not that ignorant. I used to have to fight an attitude towards the Japanese because of Pearl Harbor but I've gotten that all worked out and am over it. Not open to discussing it.
Since I feel like venting my spleen... One of the things in discussions that irritates the *beejeebers* (not what I wanted to say) out of me is when people act like kids and have to be "hot" to one another. Give me a break. Most of us seem to be married or are in a long-term relationship and couldn't give a *beejeebers* what someone else looks like. Who the *beejeebers* cares what you look like? Saying you're hot doesn't make you hot. If that's what you want to believe go right the *bejeebers* ahead but it looks childish. People seldom get beyond that level. I really don't give a rip if females here have a good opinion of me or not. I don't look at them as if they're "available" women and I'm an "available" guy, I look at them for what they appear to be and FFS I have certainly been wrong, as wrong online as I have been in real life and that's saying something.
Another thing, as long as I'm here... Why don't we all just abbreviate everything (i.e. FFS)in our post as much as we can? I'm certain that everyone has the time to look up IRL, FSM and the letters of the day. I'm guilty of it too and you know what? I don't like it when I do it and I sure don't like it when everybody else seems to do it too. It annoys the *bejeebers* out of me. It often makes as much sense as, "It was as if an occult hand had reached down from above and moved the players like pawns upon some giant chessboard." There. I'm in. (obscure reference intended)
I often get a kick out of how some people freely express their opinions and seemingly think that because no one challenges them they are somehow, "right". It may just be that the opinions are so borderline pathetic, idiotic, repetitious and/or underwhelming that others don't feel a need to comment. This happens mostly in off-topic threads where weight of numbers or who posts the most long-winded rant about something are supposedly, in possibly only their own minds,
the ones with the right answers. You know what? It's extremely rare when someone here says something that's going to affect the way my day or my life goes. It happens but it's rare.
Everyone seems to get a wild hair about the environment, politics, whatever and use their debating skills to somehow win an argument about "the people in my country are better than the people in your country" or some such *bejeebing* crap. Again, who really changes their position based upon what some relative stranger posts here at TR?
I have a sense of community with a few people here but in real life it mostly doesn't matter much.
If I have an itch I still have to scratch it. "You can pick your friends and you can pick your nose but you can't pick your friends nose." (Words to live by. You're welcome.)
I have previously been a lot more wrapped up into TR than I am now. That may or may not change. I do know that the one thing in life that IS constant is change. One other thing I'd like to see change is, "Print/View all posts." Didn't anyone one of the pro's at TR raise their hand and say, "hey, look how everything loses it's white-space using Print/View all posts!?" Nobody? It's just me that thinks that should've been fixed by now?
Okay... here I go complaining. I realize it didn't cost me a dime to get into TR and it's provided me with quite a bit of real life help and support over the past couple of years. I like it here but I'm not blind deaf and or dumb to TR's faults, TR members faults, or my own faults. Most of the time I do just like everyone else likely does, I keep it to myself. I didn't this time so sue me.
Everybody is, of course, free to make whatever they want of this post and me. Maybe there's more going on here than I let on that tweaks my attitude from time to time. Maybe there is for you too JD but just because I think of you as a friend doesn't mean that I don't think that you aren't as *bejeebing* messed up as me from time to time. I think we all (male, female, pro and amatuer) get stoopid from time to time and man oh man I'm done talking about it now.
I'm not even sure there's a point in any of that anywhere. It is what it is.