what mike says is true. the windows messenger service is still available, it's just diabled. if you go into services on each comp you can enable the service to start automatically when a system is booted. put in an exception to the messenger program in the firewall, then the net send command will work.
However!! having the messenger service enabled on computers that have access to the internet is a security risk. Messenger service is a known and exploitable program with no fixes for exploits. MS figured with the proliferation of 3rd party IM programs, Exchange has it's own IM, that 50% or more of the worlds computers did not have firewalls, and that no one really uses it it was safe to disable the service in favor of including a firewall with XP SP2 [which would block net send anyway]. If administrators wanted to use messenger service, they could could always turn it on.