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Well, here I am going to beg for ideas.

The birthday is coming up soon, and I am looking for ideas of what to do.

Things I don't want to do:

Go to a bar/club
Go to a sporting event
Go to a concert
Go visit relatives
Go to a theme park

Done all those.

Looking for refreshing ideas of what might be relaxing and let me enjoy my birthday.

Any input appreciated.

P.S.- Sorry Shell and GG and neilb, but I can't come over for this birthday...or I darn well would! :)

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by charliespencer

Rent a tent and hit a state park for a weekend. Don't even bother with a grill, just a cooler with stuff for sandwiches. Take along a couple of books or a pair of binoculars. No electronics. Or hit Subway and just go for the day. Sometimes the best way to celebrate is not to.

by jck

It's kinda cold sometimes to get out. I thought about it. Only drawback is I'd have to leave the state. If I stayed down here, someone would find a way to get a hold of me somehow. Where I work, people in my department live in 5 different counties. And, camping in the Everglades would be kinda dangerous. lol

As for Subway, I'm there once every couple of weeks. But, the idea not to celebrate is pretty much my whole premise. I want a no-effort style birthday. Just me, peace and quiet, no phone calls, no emails, and no nosy people inquiring what I'm doing.

I thought about coming north, but there's too much snow/cold. Otherwise, I'd probably be up near Gatlinburg or Hickory.

by av .

Go somewhere you haven't been before and spend the day exploring the area. If you can make it a weekend getaway, even better.

AV

by jck

That is exactly the idea. Something to get me away from the rat race. Thanks :)

by forum surfer

I don't particularly like to gamble, I don't particularly care for clubs and I'm not a huge drinker. Even still, I love Vegas!

If you have never been, it is a very memorable trip. Even if you fly solo...it is very much worth it. Lots of sights to see and activities. I never had a dull moment there.

Knowing where you are helps greatly, too. Go to a travel agent, ask what you can get discounts on this time of year and then compare the prices to booking it yourself. I had a birthday this month. I got caught up in training on my bday, so my freakin awesome girlfriend has given me an IOU pass for us to take a trip on her dime this month.

by jck

If I went to Vegas right now, I'd do little gambling and a LOT of drinking.

And, I might never come home. :^0

Thanks :)

by jessie

Contact your local tourist information center and find out what kinds of deals they've got. I absolutely love going to spend a night in local B&Bs... especially ones with themed rooms and bathtubs built for two. ;)

by jck

Would love to share it with someone, but right now that part of the equation is null...unfortunately.

And, the couple of B&Bs I know in the area...look more like haunted houses.

I might look into a B&B elsewhere.

Or maybe a night in the Don Cesar as a treat getting pampered and massaged and all would do me good. :)

by purpleskys

I like sitting home with either a wine vintage of my choice or some surprise bottle of (hopefully) single malt whisky and a good movie ie: sci-fi "B" movie type flick ;) or the latest, greatest action flick (believe it or not, chick flicks are normally at the bottom of the list)

by jck

I can drink on an empty stomach. I just fall asleep much faster.

by jck

Hawaii would be about 9 hours of flying, and Fiji about what...22?

I don't have the time, or I would. Always wanted to go to Hawaii just to watch a sunset on the beach and to just sit under a remote waterfall and feel the water and spray hitting me.

Thanks for the idea tho :)

by boxfiddler Hot topic

small wineries in FL. And the Dali museum is in St. Petersburg along with one of those wineries. Can't think the name of it, but Googling FL wineries will get you there. The one I'm thinking is a fruits not grape winery. Carrot wine is pretty damned good! :0 There's a decent open air eating establishment next door to the Dali museum.

Edison-Ford Estate in Fort Meyer (?) is cool, the lab is fascinating. Marie Selby Botanical Gardens (Sarasota-ish) is gorgeous. Solomon's Castle (Arcadia-ish) is hilarious. Mote Aquarium isn't bad either.

Yeh. Be a tourist in your own state! :D

by jck

Been to two of the wineries here, and yeah alternative wine is very popular here. Have a co-worker who makes pumpkin wine, etc.

Been to the Dali Museum and other sites.

Think if I go see anything else in FL, I might go up to Suwanee River area and I think they have a Stephen Foster thing up there.

Thanks for the ideas :)

by maxwell edison

Within the constraints of your budget, get on a plane or into your automobile and go to a place you've always wanted to visit but never have - and go alone.

by jck

The budget isn't a constraint. I could afford to fly to England or Ireland right now.

The big restriction is time, and having enough to relax and enjoy.

There's nothing I really want to see in the United States. I have been all over from the smallest towns (literally...2-4 people living there) to LA and NYC and Chicago and Houston.

If I had the time, I'd go spend a month in Europe. I have friends there...some I haven't seen in almost 10 years there, and I regret not having made the time before now.

Hence next year, I hope to be spending 2-3 weeks over there. I have 7 countries to visit.

by forum surfer

I've always wanted to take a serious road trip. Maybe drive the old route 66. I love long trips on 2 lanes during the off season when traffic is less significant...particularly into the wee morning hours. No GPS, just a map and the road. Okay, I might keep a GPS in the trunk for emergencies. I'm weird like that, so that isn't for everyone. If I didn't have kids or a serious girlfriend, I'm sure I'd do it on a Harley or gas guzzling, rear wheel drive big honkin v8 car of my choosing.

http://www.historic66.com/description/

by jck

I love road tripping...in fact, to an extreme.

When I was in college, I would just get in my truck...and go. No map. No itinerary. Just a wallet, some snacks, and drive and see things.

Once I ended up in rural Arkansas after visiting the world's oldest cyprus tree and an Indian tourist thing in SE Oklahoma. That was cool to me tho. Just seeing out-of-the-way things that probably 10,000 people have never seen in 100 years.

As for not having kids and a girlfriend, that's where I am. No kids, and no current female other half...although, that is in the works along with possible relocation.

by notsochiguy

http://www.lastminutecruises.com/

Granted, it was a while ago, but I took a last minute, short cruise for a birthday, and it was a ton of fun.

I've also gone to Union Station in Chicago with a bag in hand, and boarded the first train that seemed like it was going somewhere interesting.

In any event, I hope your birthday is a good one!

by jck

I do too. Of course because of the politics involved with my job, I think the Friday following my birthday that I wanted to take off and spending time with my niece who is in the state for a week...will partially be spent in the dentist's chair getting a crown prepped.

I love how work makes you accommodate all their timetables, but rarely wants to give you time to accommodate your own.

Yay?? lol :^0

I'll check that cruise out tho. I have always wanted to go on more than a 6 hour one like I did on gambling boats.

Thanks :)

by charliespencer

leave the local area during the crown process. After making a mold, your dentist may have to send the mold off site to have the permanent crown made. He may have to put in a temporary crown. I've had three done, and in two cases the temporary broke or came out. Fortunately, both happened during the week while I was in town.

by dmambo

leave the phone/BB/pager (do they still use those?) at home.

What I would do for a quiet B-day is take a long hike with a pre-planned junction at a great sandwich shop that serves microbrew. I even like urban hiking through parks/old neighborhoods with maybe a museum stop or something built in.

Also, be sure to bring this along:

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, jck!!!!!!!!!!! :)

I hope it's a great one whtever you do!

EDIT - or a Smithsonian weekend in DC. I've done that a couple of times, and still haven't seen everything that's been on my list.

by jck

I'd love to go to the Smithsonian Air and Space Museum, especially for all the space stuff. I was raised on NASA and Star Trek, so I love that stuff.

Just need 3-4 days to see the museums I want to go to there. And, I really only have 2 days including travel...if there's no dental work to get done that weekend.

Thanks tho :)

by jck

Is this REALLY ritzy, upscale hotel down on St. Pete/Pasagrille Beach about 2 hours south of me or something.

It's where Hulk Hogan took his wife on that one episode of Hogan Knows Best where they got massages before they divorced and all.

I don't know about spending all that money on one night there though. I would probably do better to get the presidential suite at a Hilton for the weekend. Probably get better service too.

by jck

Hogan used to live about 40 miles from me.

Tons of wrestlers past and present live here around this area, and you can see them on the beach and stuff or out on their boats or in their humvees a lot.

As well, Hogan's family was on the news the past few years with his son crippling his buddy in that car accident down there.

So, it's unavoidable for me. They're part of the citizenry here.

Plus, Hogan's daughter is kinda cute. :^0 ]:)

by jck

I have had temps pop off too. Luckily, it wasn't too painful and I just flushed some .3% H2O2 in there and then gauze dried it and used a denture adhesive to hold it til he could get the perm in.

by forum surfer

Some people think cruises are corny or a poor way to visit places. I however, had an absolute blast on the cruises I went on. Never book the tours on the boat, the locals will give you much better deals. Just be careful not to end up like a bad horror b flick victim. An ex and I thoroughly enjoyed a few days of para-sailing, horseback riding through the countryside and riding jet-skis around the islands. Had we done the same activities through the cruise line, it would have cost us significantly more.

I had a crown fairly recently. Don't they use a semi permanent filling now? The stuff they used on me was pretty tough. I had about a month or so in between the temp and the final stage due to a work project. My temp held up fine without attempting to take it easy.

by jck

I haven't had one done in 3 years, and that was a repair job from a previous dentist (at a dental conveyor belt sorta shop) near an old job.

My dentist now is really good. He's kept this tooth from having to be crowned for 4-5 years, but said the leak the filling had before had just gotten around before he got to it.

It's scheduled March 1. So, we'll see how it goes. I like to chew gum, so I hope it stays in. :)

by jck

isn't it? :^0

If I had a wife, I'd spoil her...but, that's just me.

I'm sure you do too, Darryl. You seem like that sort.

Plus, she'd get on ya if ya didn't! lol

:)

by jck

Well, the cell phone I almost have to keep on because of my parents and if they need me or get sick.

However, I might go buy one of those $20 temp phones for the weekend and give them that number. My work [b]demanded[/b] I give them my cell number when I started, citing that I was expected to come in whenever they deemed it "necessary".

I almost told them "Buy me a phone. It's not my job to pay for your functional operations."

Ah well. I might have this solved soon anyway.

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