Sounds like you want to bypass the router. One option would be to replace it with a Wireless Access Point. The other option is to turn the wireless router into a Wireless Access Point by configuring the re-configuring the router. I have had luck doing the following:
1) Disconnect the cable on the router WAN connection.
2) Turn off DHCP service on the router.
3) Set the WAN IP Address to an unused IP address on an unsed subnet. (Foudn this helps on some routers, do not know if it is always necessary.)
3) Set the LAN IP address of the router to an IP address from the subnet that you had for the WAN connection. (On the subnet your Windows 2000 server is the DHCP server.)
4) Connect the cable which was on the router WAN connection to the LAN side of the router.
This basically turns your router into a Switch and a Wireless Access Point.
Anyone else used this trick?
Let me know how it goes.
Happy Networking!