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The Scummy One - Scott Ross

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From his Facebook profile this morning:
"It is my sad duty as Scott's sister, to tell everyone that Scott passed away today. If you would like any more information, please contact us, his family, at the following e-mail address: (deleted)
Catherine Ross"
Contact me, Ron K., via peermail if necessary and I'll send Catherine's email address to you.

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by jamesrl

I've sent you a peermail Ron, I'm trying to co-ordinate a joint donation from many of the active gang here. If I've missed anyone, and I'm sure I have, they can peermail me.

Scott was well loved, and his quirky humour brightened our days.

James

by jamesrl

I've emailled Catherine to see what we can do, and been in touch with Sonia et al.

My apologies to those whose names or email addresses I've forgotten.

To All: Please peer me if I didn't email you, if you want to join me in some gesture from Scott's peers.

James

by charliespencer

Ron, please convey our condolences to Catherine. We'd appreciate a link to his obituary when available.

We've lost our class clown. Damn.

by shasca

Scummy was one of the rebellious spirits that hooked me on TR. I felt honored, and part of the in-crowd whenever I got a comment, snipe, or even a "dumbas" reply in the Q&A or Forums.

He was just alittle too wild for some of the staff I guess, and he had not been around as much lately.

I think I just died a little too.....

by jdclyde

Of all the TR members, he was the one I could relate to the most.

Just re-listened to his member spotlight. :(

by gadgetgirl

and speechless.

The God of Scum is no more.

:x Scummy. I'm gonna miss you more than I care to admit....

GG

by cmiller5400

I didn't know him personally but I loved his sense of humor. His posts always made me smile. His passing is a huge loss for the TR family, this place just won't be the same (especially his password reset posts :) ).

Scott will be missed around here. Rest in Peace forever buddy. May the God of "the Church of The Scummy One" grant you every wish and comfort you desire.

[i]Do not stand by my grave and weep
I am not there. I do not sleep
I am a thousand winds that blow
I am a diamond glint on snow
I am the sunlight on ripened grain
I am the gentle autumn rain.

When you awake in the morning bush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight
I am the soft starshine at night
Do not stand by my grave and cry
I am not there... I did not die.[/i]

~ Anonymous

:_| :( :_| :( :_| :( :_| :( :_| :( :_| :(

by jamesrl

I'm in a choir preparing to go to Paris to sing at a celebration of anniversary ofthe Liberation of France.

One of the pieces we are preparing is "In Rememberence" by Eleanor Daley. It uses that poem. You can find it on Youtube - search on Daley and Rememberence. I highly recommend it. Don't yet have a recording of my choir doing it.

Edited to add the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lHivwo-AvNU

BTW I know the composer

James

by Tammy.Cavadias

I stared at this for a while - not sure what to say as it comes as such a shock.

My prayers do go out to his family. Scott will be terribly missed.

Ron - can you send me the email please?

-Tammy

by jamesrl

I realise that some of us need to grieve and no one should be ashamed to take the time to do that.

But I'd also like to make a modest proposal. Namely that we find a way to remember Scott as he was; a funny, witty guy, who made lots of friends. I propose that whoever cares to participate, the collective we, start to go through his posts and collect the "best" of Scott, both the Scummy and the W2Ktechman sides. How we organize what we gather, I'm open to suggestions.

James

by ron k.

He expressed condolences to us all and asked for me to pass them on.
I sent him a rather lengthy reply this morning. His brother wants to read more of Scott's posts and he's going to play Scott's TR podcast for the family.
I included tinyurl links to Scott's profiles and explained how to navigate in them so that they can read everything that Scott posted.
I explained too how Scott's friends are scattered around the globe and how we wish that we could be there with them now but beyond flowers, emails and whatnot it's just not possible.
I told him what the number means next to Scott's thumbsup picture, that he helped hundreds with technical questions and possibly hundreds more because not everyone marks an answer as helpful even though it was.
Scott's presence is seemingly everywhere here at the moment. I have small spiral notebooks where I was keeping score against him at Facebook. I still have seeds he sent to my wife and I and perennials that will blossom again this year.
Missed? Oh yeah!

by hal 9000

To check that sent E-Mail it arrived here.

Don't get me wrong I'm not complaining as that was the first I heard about Scott's Death but just check that it went to it's intended recipient as well.

Col

by boxfiddler

going to need a new God of Scum. And the HAL unit is going to have to be found and held at bay. Last I recall, as treasurer, he was working at a coup.

I know there are least two other officers. OnTheRopes is High Deacon, and seanferd is either deacon or a second High Deacon (memory is tricky...) Maybe he made steffi28 Deaconess?

etu

by gadgetgirl

one of those two officers would be me.

High Priestess of Scum.

Made me beg for the damn thing, too. Oh, good times, good times...

GG

by hal 9000

Not at all Davette.

I need a Front Guy to take the heat away from me and have fingers pointed at them.

So out of a sense of Duty I have suspended all Financial Transactions from the Church of Scum but only after emptying all the accounts into my name. :D

After you get around with the Other Deacons of the church we can then set about rebuilding the Finances of the church. That Way I stay rich. :^0

As I think I was the first to call Scott [b]The Scummy One[/b] when he was using the Pond Scum Alias to give Steffi a hard time I'm withdrawing from any group that may appoint a New God of Scum. They just need to know who's the real Boss though after they get appointed. ;)

Anyway no more joking as I'll have more complaints and I really don't want to distract from the real meaning of this thread.

Col

by ron k.

I'll always be the High Deacon. I have the Viking helmet and yodeling pickle that go with the office and without those no one can be THE High Deacon.

by nicknielsen

Just...damn! My sincerest condolences to his family.

:-( :_|

Anybody doing anything, please let me know by e- or peermail.

by ron k.

...has sent condolences to us all too.
She has said that she'll let me know as soon as they make necessary arrangements. Keep an eye on this thread as I'll likely post details as they become available.

by av .

Scott was such a vibrant, funny person. It was always enjoyable talking to him on TR. I'm very sad to hear that he has passed away.

Thank you, Ron, for letting us all know. My condolences to his family.

Gone too soon! :( :_|

AV

by captbilly1eye

Thank you, Ron and James, for taking on the burden of letting us all know.

As I look up the TR Spotlight of him and listen to it tonight, I'll think back on all the great exchanges we had and his contributions.
I remember how excited and honored I was to see him request me as a Friend on FaceBook as he was such a vital member of the TR crew that I appreciated most.
Scott will be greatly missed!

- Billy

by seanferd

It is going to take me a bit to come to grips with this.

My condolences to Scott's family and TR peers.

by bfilmfan

Scott was a good guy and will be missed.

My deepest sympathy to his family on their loss.

by ic-it

Anything we can do to ease the pain.
I never knew him personally , but always enjoyed his persona ( and perhaps what showed through that into his other friends lifes). Rest in Peace Scotty

by .martin.

to Scotty's family

I will always remember Scotty as a funny guy who (along with many others) kept bringing me back in my early days at TR.

RIP

by Jay Garmon

Scott goes back to my days as a TR guy. He was one of the good ones. Irreplaceable. He'll be missed.

by shasca

That sounded very disrespectful to Ron. He is the one that has taken many hours of his personnal time to share T.S.O/W2K's sad sad news with us.

He has been nothing but a gentleman with my inquerys to him. I think you are way off base, or I am losing something in the translation, as that just doen't seem like you.

by seanferd

Col wanted to make sure the intended recipients got the email, and that he did not get it by accident.

by shasca

I find that is was pretentious since it was well underhand by Ron K. prior to Hall9000 saying what he did. Wasn't cool at all.

Col/Hal is my hero, but in this case not so much. I may be just too sensitive because I am just so upset about my other hero (THE SCUMMY ONE's) passing. So if everyone else is okay with what was said I'll just shutup..........

by shasca

I am deeply sorry for creating a row. It appears that I am way more upset about Scotts passing than I realized. I took the advise to stop slow down and take a deep breath.

Col to you personnally I say I'm sorry. I shouldn't have questioned your intentions as being negative. I have to admit I frequently have trouble interpreting some of your statements, and I should just shutup when in doubt. That will be plan going forward.

by hal 9000

I was just a bot worried that maybe something got misaddressed and the person who really needed the E-Mail didn't get it.

Being at work after reading the E-Mail earlier and being confused I didn't have access to my address list so I thought it better to post something here just in case as I wasn't going to be home for quite a while. ;)

Col

by ron k.

Sometimes I think that because I know something other people know it too. I wouldn't have laid that on you the way I did if I'd have realized that you didn't know. My bad.

by seanferd

I read the post. I'm not sure what either of you are getting at.

Peace. I'm done, as I apparently have exacerbated this.

by jamesrl

And lets not jump to hasty conclusions.

Everyone is feeling a little raw and hurt. This is a tense time for all.

When I read Hal's post, I see no malice at all, just some concern that an email might have gone astray.

Lets all just put it behind us.
James

by seanferd

I don't understand precisely what has upset you, and I did not mean to upset you further.

I am not seeing what was uncool, so I merely suggest that, yes, you may have misunderstood something? I only saw someone concerned that he may have gotten an email in error, and that perhaps someone else may not have gotten this rather important information.

I am sorry if I misunderstand you as well. For instance, I don't understand, "it was well underhand by Ron K." So I feel we are not communicating well.

So, let this be clear, that I do not intend an argument, but I though I might clarify something for you. I failed.

Peace, shaca. I share your grief. My condolences to you.

by shasca

Why would Hal/Col suggest that?? Ron is the one that spearheaded this sad sad notification. I would think that all coorespondense would obviously come through him. Is that illogical? I still think the big guy was out of place. ( even though he is one of the cornerstones of TR).

Please tell me what I am missing

Hey Col what were you saying? I would like to apologize if the explanation is there.

by boxfiddler

[i]Why would Hal/Col suggest that?[/i]

Because Ron and Col and Scummy are friends. Friends prop each other up in times like this. Col is propping up Ron. As Ron is propping up us.

by ---tk---

I can remember when I first joined TR, I always anticipated, and waited and waited for him to post up. He always made me laugh out loud, literally.

I think some of my co-workers though I was nuts (for a while), a couple times (more than I care to admit), when he posted up I fell out of my chair laughing. His humor will truly be missed by me...

May his soul rest in peace... My condolences to his family... I didn't know him to well, but he will never be forgotten by me.

Tim K.

by hal 9000

Just in case something had gone astray.

Nothing worse for the family than to think that they have been forgotten. ;)

Col

by hal 9000

The E-Mail from Ron telling me how to navigate Scott's TR Threads.

When I saw the Thread here I was concerned that maybe I had got it by mistake that's all.

Nothing else intended other than to let Ron know that maybe he had made a mistake which is perfectly understandable under the circumstances. Here the worst thing that can happen is that the Family gets the impression that they are being ignored and e-mails that end up at the wrong place can do that.

I just wanted to warn Ron of any Potential Problems before they became something much worse than a possible simple mistake. ;)

Sorry for my poor communication skills but I was more than slightly shocked. And as I was at work I didn't have access to a direct link to Ron to let him know off TR just in case something had gone wrong.

Col

by ron k.

I'm about as sure as I can be that it went through. I just have an old email address for you in my gmail account. It came back as funky within minutes of my emailing you. Quit changing email addresses, dang it!

by hal 9000

That E-Mail address I had for over 11 years and kept i till that ISP went broke and ceased trading.

I couldn't do anything about them shutting their Mail Servers down. ;)

Well I suppose I could of but I just couldn't afford to bail them out for more than a few months if they couldn't make enough money to stay in business. :0

Col

by ron k.

Except for having a bed head.
I have noted your defense of me even though no offense was made or intended. Nice to wake up to. Thank you.

by seanferd

I only meant I would not further try to explain my understanding of Col's intent and upset shasca further. What I said was obviously of no help. :(

I am here.

And I'm very glad to read your thoughts, because I am saddened and more than a little freaked out by Scott's shuffling off this Scummy coil. I'm sense that I have not felt the full humming, buzzing impact of void yet.

Thank you.

by ron k.

I thought it was great when he started calling himself that. I had to laugh. Before Scott I used to call people scumdog to their faces every once in a great while but no more of that.

by ron k.

From Scott's sister, Catherine.
"If you or anyone else has any pictures or stories that they would like to share with us, please have them pass this information to this e-mail address. We are trying to gather everything we can for his memorial service. Nothing has been finalized as of yet, but we will have more information by Monday evening.
Catherine"

So, no place where we can send flowers and whatnot to, yet, but you can plainly see the family's request.
Good luck with that.
I think that it's beyond me to write a story telling any one thing about Scott because I know him from a myriad of posts both here and at Facebook. Mostly here but still... I don't know what to say and I choke up thinking I'll look stupid or maudlin or something else besides a mature adult because I don't feel very mature at the moment.
You guys and gals can probably put something together better than I can and I urge you to take the time to do it. Send me a peermail message for Catherine's email address and go to town with writing. If you can't I know that I'll understand.
I've sent Scott's brother email telling him how to navigate Scott's TR accounts to see the hundreds of posts he has made over the years. I'd sent the link to Scott's podcast and he was going to play it for the family yesterday.
(long pause)
Please, do the best you can do.
My wife and I are going to send flowers when we get an address, time and location.
I'm outta here.

by seanferd

You have done so much.

I wouldn't know where to begin, unless the family wanted some rather dangerous instructions for the wrong way to an administrator account, or some information about his attempt to refinish a built-in cutting board in his apartment.

How little I knew him. But what I know will live on in me, always.

by tig2

Just thank you.

There are a precious few people that I hold close. You, sir, are one of a small number. And held closer now.

by ron k.

It made me feel important to act like you need my permission to be yourself.
Carry on. :)

by shellbot

I was away for the weekend, but GG let me know.

Recently I got to know Scott a lot more. He was actually quite deep and thoughtful.. some people would only know his style from TR..a bit of a h*llraiser..not unlike myself.. but he was much much more than that.

I know he cared for his family a lot and he would always tell me of his visits with them, especially a certain one who he absolutly adored.

This is yet another reminder to me, and to us all..live life! Live it as full as you can, for it may be taken at any time.

:(

by maecuff

I like the jokes. Jokes are always good. And I think they are a lovely way to honor Scott.

by nicknielsen

I find that hard to believe.

But then, The Scummy One was involved...oh...my...now THAT's a visual! :0

Never a webcam around when you need one, darn it! ]:)

:x

by hal 9000

Just a [b]Hell of a Shock[/b] just before I had to got to work on Sunday. I really don't have a life working on a Sunday at a bank. They didn't even give me any samples of their products either.

Throws a lot of light onto some of the strange e-mails that I have got over the past few days. Maybe I need to improve my ability to understand Cryptic Messages that seem out of place or strange from Normal E-Mails. ;)

Col

by jck

A sad sad thing, and a great loss to TR.

God bless him and his family.

by ron k.

I'm going to try to send a link to this post in a peermail to everyone who has posted here. Some people may not have peermail turned on or may not have seen this discussion so it'd be nice if we could keep this bumped up for awhile.

Scott's Memorial will be held at:
5:30 pm Thursday 28 January
Church of Latter Day Saints
875 Quince Ave
Santa Clara, CA 95051

Flowers should be sent to:
Lima Campagna
600 S 2nd Street
San Jose, CA 95112

Donations should be sent to:
Pauline Kessler
954 Henderson Ave #117
Sunnyvale, CA 94086

Google search results for San Jose California florist:http://preview.tinyurl.com/yeosbwj
It appears that this florist was voted the areas best of the best: http://www.cittisflorist.com/

by ron k.

I didn't know that I can only send 10 peermail messages per day.
All I can do now is to send private email if I have your email address. Sooooo... The best thing to do is to keep this bumped up so folks can see it in case I miss anyone. I know I will.

by Sonja Thompson

I will send some flowers from TechRepublic. I believe a few peers are getting together to send flowers from the TR community.

by fregeus

That's younger than I am. That is way too young to go. My condolences to the family but especially to the parents. No one should outlive their children.

I hate to ask, but was he sick?

TCB

by gsg

I didn't think he was very old. He never said anything that I remember about being sick.

His presence here will definitely be missed.

by ron k.

He never said anything to me about being sick. You're right though, that is way too young to go. In chat I called him a Pup. Scumdog-Pup. :) I am just way too clever.

by shasca

"The family has asked that donations be sent to a charity of choice in Scotts name in lieu of flowers. Flowers can be sent to: Lima - Campagna at 600 S. 2nd Street, San Jose, CA 95112 and any monetary donations should be sent to: Pauline Kessler at 954 Henderson Avenue #117, Sunnyvale, CA 94086."

So should I send flowers?, or a donation to his Mom? There is kind of a mixed message. How come I never "get it"....

by ron k.

I'm sending a live plant because that's what I want to do. Do whatever you feel is right.

by dmambo

It's bittersweet to be in our virtual world where we know our peers without ever having met them.

I hope The Scummy One is in a place where his sense of humor is appreciated.

by shasca

I would not have been even a little bit as informed without all your efforts. They are greatly appreciated.