Using DataGrids with VC++ 6.0

I’m attempting to use an ActiveX DataGrid with an ActiveX ADO control. I can edit, I can add records but I can not delete entire records. Is there anyway to do this? I’m told a FlexGrid has more functionality for doing this type of thing however I am unable to connect a FlexGrid with my ADO control. Is there another ActiveX control that I need to use with the FlexGrid? Basically, I have all the functionality I need except the deleting of records. I would rather not use the ADO data bound dialog in the application.