Connecting to a database remotely

Hi! I have my ASP pages on one server and my database on another server. Using ASP ADO Connections or any other way you can recommend….how do I connect to the database? I would prefer using ASP. I do not any control over the two servers…they are just two server provided by two different ISP’s. It would be great to have the code for a database connection USING DSN.

Thanks.