Sorry about your mom. Mine has cancer, and I just moved 1300 miles away from her to have a job. So, I know how you feel...sort of.
I left my old job (knowing budget cuts meant layoffs), and literally 3-4 weeks later the head chopping started. But, the new job is great. I have my own office, my supervisor is super nice and so is the head of IT. Things are more ordered and laid back here, rather than last-minute, crash-cart IT practices.
I'm just glad some of the old crowd I recognize are still here.
I'll try to be back here more. I have no Twitter, and I have a Facebook but I use that to just message my best friend...since he leaves his phone off and to talk to him requires him knowing when I'll call.
Otherwise, the only other things I do regularly are: work...unpack...spray bug spray...drink coffee...and watch Top Gear.
I just hope they actually learn to put the thing in at the top of the Discussion section that you're in to backtrack through things. When I want to switch a water cooler discussion, I have to go all the way back out rather than using a website breadcrumb.
Anywho...nice to see you all :)