It depends on your router. If you have any router with T1 WAN interface, you are limited in choices what you can do. In this case you can create access-list to permit legitime traffic and create a "deny all" statement at the end of this access-list and log hits to this "deny" statement. That's how you can see all attempts to establish connections to/through the router.
If you have ISP's router and you can not do anything with it, you may either create similar access-list in your firewall and log all attempts (it's very good idea in any situation), or install IDS (Intrusion Detection) Sensor between ISP's router and your firewall. Intrusion Detection will not only show you TCP and UDP connections, but it will also analyze the traffic and determine real attacks.
And last but not a least. Install any kind of traffic monitoring software to watch your Internet link. I like MRTG package. It reads interface utilization every 5 minutes and builds a graph, so you can analyze your baselines and trends.
Good luck,
Michael Shavrov
CCNP, CCDP, CCSP, MCSE W2K, MCSE+I, Security+