[i]Let him play as he wants to on the computers that he gets to use at school and the like. Don't even allow him access to one at home under any circumstances as this is harmful to the poor child![/i]
This is what the Social Workers in the Child Welfare industry will tell you to do. Unless of course they have a vested interest in which they work at selling something that they insist that are absolutely necessary for children to have.
[i]Take one very long good look at him and then add up all the money he has cost you to get to this stage. It will be at least several hundred K so if you want to make the little sod pay you back for all the trouble inconvenience and cost that you have been put through try to keep him away from computers for ever. Only allow him access to one when he's at Uni Studding to be a Brain Surgeon then when he's finished his Internship you can continually hit him for money and keep insisting just how much good that you have done for him as look at where he has ended up while you have made all the sacrifices for him to get there.[/i]
Children are expensive and only get more so the older that they get. My youngest is 32 this year and still runs home to get daddy to fix things for her. I've long since given up hope of getting any return on my investment in this monster. Actually Both Monsters as instead of repaying me for everything that was provided for them they continually continue to return here and ask for money or for me to fix things for them. Naturally they don't supply the parts that's my job.
[i]I have a 10 year old Nephew who a wiz on computers and loves to play games On Line but otherwise has no interest in actually fixing the things only in playing with them. The machine that he uses predominately is a fairly late model P4 with all the high end stuff and an ADSL Modem connected as that is the fastest available where his parents live. He's been using computers for about 4 years now and has gone from a 1100 AMD with 128 MEG of RAM running 98 SE to something very close to a Top of the Range Gaming System running XP Pro with all the bells & Whistles.[/i]
Actually I thought that this was fairly self explanatory. These little monsters get together at school and check out the specs of each others home computers then go to their parents and claim that they need something better to do whatever it is that they do on the computers but it's only [b]Keeping up with the Jones Mentality.[/b] They Network much better than us poor adults who are too busy earning a living to actually have the time available to get information for so many different sources.
[i]And worse still I had absolutely nothing at all to do with this for some reason it was recommended that to help his Hand Eye Coordination they buy him a computer to play simple games on. He's turned into a monster that continually wants more & more in the way of hardware and at the moment he's still only playing relatively simple games On Line.[/i]
This was suggest in the strongest terms by a Social Worker in the child welfare industry to help the child improve at school.
[i]As for his Hand Eye Coordination there is absolutely nothing wrong with that as some of the things that he can do with the keyboard go beyond the normal Highly Skilled IT Person. Though to be fair he still walks into walls and things like that but I still believe that's more because he can not be bothered looking where he's actually going and is far more interested in where he has been.[/i]
This little monster [b]Ham's it Up[/b] and is incapable of concentrating on what is presently at hand unless he's playing a game on line. He continually looks everywhere but where he is going is selectively deaf when it suits him. Generally does as he pleases and then blames everyone but him for what happens to him.
This child when asked what he wanted for dinner a couple of years ago while his mother was changing the new born baby looked directly at his mother and said [b]Boiled Baby.[/b] :D
Or a while latter while in the bath waited till his mother got worried because he was too quite and when she got into the bathroom he was lying face down in an overflowing bath tub. When his mother pulled him out and started giving CPR he burst out laughing which made his mother so happy. :(
Then there are the things that these lovely things repeat that are supposed to be confidential and [b]Continually Drop you in it![/b]
As for the computer that he uses they started him off on a 1100 Duron basically something similar to a Pentium only a lot faster. That only lasted for a few months the CD ROM only lasted a few days as apparently CD's and Jam [i]I believe that the Americans call Jam Jelly[/i] covered fingers don't mix to well. I'm still not sure how he managed to do this but he somehow managed to feed the computer bread covered with strawberry jam. When it stopped working the first time when I opened the case I found about half a loaf of bread thickly covered with jam inside the case and naturally a very dead M'Board & Power Supply.
He kept destroying CD's at an alarming rate because sticky little fingers and CD's don't make a good mix. The drives didn't fare much better either as he managed to trash quite a few of those as well. Then he moved from playing games on CD to On Line Gaming where again his [b]Network of Fiends[/b] had told him all about several On Line Gaming Places devoted to children his age so he just had to play these sites. His mother took a quick look and thought that they where safe as they where just games for children, what she failed to notice is that they where playing each other and when one pulled of something special or won a game they talked to each other in [b]Real Time.[/b] Not so great for a 8 year old without any idea of who he was actually communicating with. Places like that while good for children are also dangerous and unless you know exactly what is going on the children can be placed in [b]Harms Way[/b] without you knowing about it.
Why will a child refuse to speak to a stranger face to face by will open up completely on the Internet?
If the child asks for a computer by all means get him one or upgrade either your's or your wifes and give him the old one to use but make sure that he's always fully supervised when using it and that if he gets one of your's every bit of data has been transfered off the HDD and deleted otherwise it will end up as Public Domain Information.
If you don't want to upgrade your existing computers buy an Ex Government one from one of the major resellers who specialise in these you'll pick one up quite cheaply and you don't need to go overboard with something that may never be used. If the child wants to play they will but you never force a child to do something that you want them to do and they are not really interested in doing.
At 9 years old they will not really be interested in writing any programs in any language they may like to use the thing as a Games Console but not as a tool for something. When they get older they may be interested in writing programs but when they get to the Mid Teens they will be looking at writing Porno Games.
Also never allow any child unsupervised access to the Internet one 15 year old downloaded the construction plans for the F16 and printed them as a Science Project in his school newspaper with a Commodore 64 years ago.
Todays equipment is far superior and they have the ability to get into places that are not healthy places to be particularly since 9-11 where they will be treated as terrorists first and children second.
Col