Here is some additional information...
If your IPS is using ourcompany.com and the Win2k server on your LAN is using ourcompany.com, then ANY TIME you access any resource at 'ourcompany.com from the LAN; nothing, (I repeat, nothing) will get out to the internet. For example, if your ISP were hosting a Web site with your domain name, or an FTP site with your domain name, then no one on the LAN would be able to access that web or FTP resource at your ISP.
Since your internet connection is POTS (telephone) then for your own server to host your e-mail is definitely NOT the answer.
From my observations, you have only two options. And neither will be easy.
A. Change your LAN domain name to ourcompany.local. That will mean a complete reload of your server, your email server, your applications, etc. This would be a lot of work, but will solve this problem.
B. Get a second domain name, as mentioned above. Note: in this case, you cannot get a domain name like 'wan.ourcompany.com' because the root of this name is still 'ourcompany.com' and your current Win2k server believes it is 'authorative' for this name. It will never send any request for this name out, to the internet.
C. There is a third option, but it will cost you a lot of money. This would be to get a DSL internet connection and then have ALL email for your 'ourcompany.com' be hosted on your own server. Not on the ISP server.
You have some business decissions to make to correct this problem. How imporant to you is the solution to this problem? How much money are you willing to spend? How much time do you want to spend on this problem? The owner of this network will need to look at the entire picture, all the options, and make a decision.
As I stated above, if you have particular questions, let me know.
Best of Luck.
Michael R.