hi,
so to add my 2 cents....
in belkin router there should be a port forwarding or pinhole setup.
SETTING UP A YOUR COMPUTER IN THE DMZ IS A BAD IDEA. IT OPENS YOUR ENTIRE COMPOUTER TO THE INTERNET AND UNLESS PROPERLY SECURED CAN LEAD TO EASY HACKING
having said that. go to www.dyndns.org and register your very own dynamic dns. you will have to install a client (available on their website) and basically it will update the dns tables to reflect a path to your pc. this way you can get to your pc by typing my-dyndnsname.dyndns.org or something similar. look on the belkin website for pinholing or port forwarding to get the other part done.
hope this helps. email ne questions
kenderkin