This page from Microsoft seems to cover your situation:
http://support.microsoft.com/support/kb/articles/Q112/5/49.asp
Here is the gist:
It may be necessary to promote a Backup Domain Controller (BDC) to PDC when the original PDC fails. In the event that the original PDC is unavailable during this process, it is necessary to promote the BDC without having the PDC on-line. ...
...Promoting the BDC to PDC should work properly at this point. When the original PDC is restarted, it attempts to also become the PDC, and two Windows NT Advanced Server computers will both think they are PDCs for the same domain...
To demote one of the PDCs:
Stop the NetLogon service on the current PDC by typing Net Stop NetLogon.
Highlight the machine name of the original PDC and then on the Computer menu, select Demote To Server. This changes the role of the original PDC to BDC.
Restart the NetLogon server by typing Net Stop NetLogon.
Again, please read the full article for complete information before you do anything.