Actually, I think we probably agree more than we disagree, and I certainly don't want to start a flame war over the disagreements. However, I do feel compelled to respond to the points that you categorize as "misleading".
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I didn't say absolute sizes were "safer". They're easier to use and offer the most consistency across browsers and platforms, but they have accessibility problems, so they're not any "safer" than relative measurements or keywords.
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Exactly! Although most browsers can resize pixel-sized fonts, IE/Win can't. That means that the overwhelming majority of Web visitors have potential accessibility problems with pixel-sized text.
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Normal text size is dictated by the standards committees and browser manufacturers when they set the browsers' text defaults. Similarly, the default settings for the operating system fonts are set by the manufacturer. Whether you or I like and agree with those default settings or not, they are the defacto standard and most web users never change them. Web builders who habitually view their creations on systems with significantly different settings risk losing touch with the way typical web visitors view their sites. This is a potential problem for Web builders using both Windows and Macs, but it's noticeably more prevalent among the Mac users -- especially those coming from a print production background. I'm not saying that you shouldn't use whatever screen resolution and settings you find comfortable -- but if you create Web sites using a system that differs significantly from the typical visitor, then you'll need to do extra testing with more typical system settings to view your site the way your visitors do.
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I agree completely! In fact, I'm planning a future article to discuss this very point. And speaking of future articles, some of the other points above are mentioned in next week's column.
The main point of this article is that using relative measurements for font sizes can create major problems in real-world usage. Sizing fonts relative to an arbitrary norm doesn't work well if we can't agree on that norm, but the bigger problem is the compounding effect that results from nesting elements with relative font sizes within other elements with relative font sizes. The resulting exaggeration of the relative sizes can quickly reach outrageous levels, and it's very difficult for most Web builders to anticipate and control.