I will guarantee you that you will never find a more laid-back, easy-going, water-off-a-duck's-back type of bloke, whether in the IT world or outside in the rest of the world, as ME.
Yet I find your question utterly insidious - you've been loitering around on TR for 19 months, you've never posted before, not a single solitary post (question or answer). Apart from this one post the members of TR would be unaware of your existence, you are not even approachable by Peer Mail, yet you find it plausible to finish your Post with the words "[i]Thanks group.[/i]"
I cannot find it in my laid-back heart to identify you as a member of ANY group that I am aware of. Yet you seem to expect us -the computer savvy- to supply you with a method, an untraceable method, of spying on our own kind.
I suggest you become slightly more 'Life-Savvy'.