You do not need to yell at every one.
Sorry about your security problems; it sounds like you need to be a little more careful of your passwords and possibly not use the same one for every site you visit. After all passwords are sent plain text here and any one, any where in the chain can view them. You need to check your system as well because you just might have a backdoor in it, this is fairly common in a Windows box.
The people on this site mostly have better things to do than run around playing in others accounts. If you were a bank or fortune 500, well maybe... but you are a nobody, so why bother?
Trojans are common in any freeware on the net, try again.
Finally, working with computers and software every day, I have come to the conclusion that there is nothing so dangerous to a computer or system security as an uninformed end user. I have seen people complain about virus when they either have no anti virus or it is has been expired for over a year, I have seen someone take a working computer out the door, reach their car and delete the wireless drivers and walk back in the door complaining that the wireless does not work when they checked it before they walked out the door. I have seen people like you click on a phishing link and complain when money leaves their bank account. One of the most stupid things I have seen is with one user who repeatedly sets his power switch from 120 to 220 and then complains that the computer does not work; the first two or three times the switch was reset and the computer was sent home free, the next time $5.00 was charged, the next $15.00, the next 25.00, yesterday, $50.00. There is a lot you seem to assume, are you like this guy?