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As usual, I'm late in hearing about innovations that others have long since accepted as commonplace- even mundane. Since I'm extremely new (August 2007) to the forums/ blogging community, I was wondering about the various (non-obvious) ways to be banned from discussions, forums, etc.

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by mjd420nova

One real quick way is to ask how to hack or bypass password protected hardware and software. Another way is to start trashing other members of the forums, for whatever reason. Some discussions will obviously become trash sessions for any number of reasons and if you feel the need to jump in, you might get a trashing in return this is best left to common sense and jurisprudence. But beware there are some who really need no reason to just fly of the handle. Welcome to TR.

by tig2

Use of foul language repeatedly, obvious racism, spamming the boards- can all get you kicked. But in general, if you are reasonable and respectful of your peers and generally act in a professional manner, you'll never have to worry about it.

Doing things like filling out your profile, using an avatar, and participating as much as you care to will help you to find your place in the community. Look for old timers and those whose interests are similar to yours and watch how they post.

The fact that you care tells me that you have little to worry about. You'll be fine.

Welcome to TR. Enjoy!

by hal 9000

Is perfectly OK but if you keep bringing that [b]Chicken or Other Domestic Birds[/b] into discussions you'll be thrown off the site. :D

The PTB here don't like the continued Kinky reports of what is done with the entire Bird. :p

Col ]:)

by maniacman

If somebody forms an opinion of a specific ethnic group based upon a certain repeated characteristic behavior, does that make the person in question a racist? Yes, stereotypes exist, most of which are bad, but where do such things come from? Observations of common behavior among many of the same group, so is it racism to state the obvious? based on confirmed facts? Why does the obvious truth need to be suppressed because a few may find it offensive? Yes, it would be a perfect world if we didn't have hatred, prejudice, and racism, but that is far from the realty we live in. Is it right? of course not, but we can't escape reality and can only acknowledge fact and that which we observe and that should not make us "racists" as some other nimrods are quick to call others. Those that are quick to pull the race card and label others as racists are hiding the true fact that they themselves are racists.

by Member 25348569

So that I and other peers can see what is racism and what are simple statements that point out cultural differences.

The definition of a "phobia" is an "irrational fear" so I'm not sure what you're trying to say and I'd appreciate clarification before I get out the matches...

Neil :)

p.s. Don't assume that you are standing on the moral high ground all of the time.

by charliespencer

"Observations of common behavior among many of the same group, so is it racism to state the obvious? based on confirmed facts?"

Unless one is a sociologist or other professional researcher of human behavior, one probably will not observe enough individual members of any group to make valid assumptions about their behavior. Observations of a limited number of individual behaviors are not a basis for "confirmed facts", merely indicators of the behavior of only those particular individuals.

But trot out some of your "confirmed facts" of human behavior. Apparently they aren't "obvious", but I'm always willing to learn something new.

by nentech

Its to hard to tell if they?re serous or acting the fool

Some will just try to wind you up
For their own perverse pleasure

by nicknielsen

Pretty much anything that violates the terms of use will get you booted.

To answer the questions you did not ask, I provide these links:
http://tinyurl.com/hc9ho provides guidance on forum features such as text formatting, subscribing to posts, adding links, and (last, but most certainly not least!) emoticons.
http://tinyurl.com/9jmyg is a discussion in which the regulars on TR haggle over what we think is good and bad forum etiquette and why nobody seems to know the difference between a discussion and a question.

Welcome to the forums. Happy browsing.

Edit: long day, can't tupe

by deepsand

As others have covered the banishment issue, by way of reference to TR's Terms of Use, I will not repeat, but merely add that while it is the Members who bring infractions of such to the attention of TR's staff, it is the latter alone who make any decision re. terminating your account.

However, behavior not sufficiently egregious so as to warrant TR's taking formal action, but that repeatedly fails to well comfort with the temperment of the Members in general, and the Regulars in particular, can lead to one being shunned.

But, given your the nature of your query, I would be surprised were you to place yourself in such a position.

Welcome aboard.

by maniacman

and those one word jibberish postings? Those guys do need a good proverbial kick in the arse sometimes. Is it bad etiquette to enforce our ethical standards here and rant about these fools? Beth keeps getting on my case when I start ranting about the foolish and idiotic postings coming from our friends in the Indian subcontinent who seem to be either too lazy to do a google search or too clueless to visit an online knowledgebase. One guy wanted us to provide him with a word for word manual on how to deploy Exchange while another wants us to do his damned homework or term paper for him. Am I wrong to be annoyed and vent my anger and frustration at such audacious and arrogant behavior?

by nicknielsen

[i]Am I wrong to be annoyed and vent my anger and frustration at such audacious and arrogant behavior?[/i]

I find it irritating as well, but having taught, ascribe the cluelessness or laziness more to student status than national origin. Consider that the American (or British or Australian or German or your choice of country) kids who are trying to get somebody to do their homework for them or are too clueless to do a Google search are probably on some other tech forum asking the same stupid questions we're getting here.

The scariest part is they are probably using the same gibberish in the process...

by deepsand

"[i]Beth keeps getting on my case when I start ranting about the foolish and idiotic postings coming from our friends in the Indian subcontinent who seem to be either too lazy to do a google search or too clueless to visit an online knowledgebase[/i]"

"Who seem to be ... too lazy ... or too clueless ..." serves as an example of an absence of common sense, by not only assuming facts not in evidence, but choosing to select those least favorable to the other party.

There is no basis for assuming that one from another country and culture will employ language as do you, even if it appears to be the same language. To expect that all will speak as you do is wholly unjustified.

by charliespencer

"Is it bad etiquette to enforce our ethical standards here and rant about these fools?"

It's good etiquette to enforce our ethical standards. It's bad etiquette to rant, at least without including the word 'Rant' in the title so readers know what to expect. But it's a free web; take all the shots at them you want. Just a couple of questions, if you please.

"Beth keeps getting on my case when I start ranting about the foolish and idiotic postings coming from our friends in the Indian subcontinent ..."

Stupid questions show up here from all over the world. Do treat them all like dirt, or just the ones from Indian Ocean countries?

"Am I wrong to be annoyed and vent my anger and frustration at such audacious and arrogant behavior?"

Not necessarily, but have you ever wondered why you let stupid questions annoy, anger, and frustrate you? I don't see how responding to them can lower your blood pressure any more effectively than just ignoring them.

Inquiring minds want to know.

by hal 9000

But only if you are Kiwi, Welsh or other Sheep Loving Country. :p

Of course if you have studied this practise [b]In Depth[/b] you are always free to offer suggestions or pass on the newest toys that these people use. :0

Col ]:)

by rob mekel

so Aussies are in the clear as well.
As they love the Kiwi's and Welsh, they must love their living-house-stock as well ... :D ;)

Rob

by charliespencer

We've found a new use for them in South Carolina. Did the rest of you know you can get wool and meat from them?

by Member 25348569

NITS(tm) Edit: For those of you who don't speak Latin, this is Colin's Ph.D from Harvard awarded for his dissertation on "The Erogenous Zones of Antipodean Sheep".

Neil :D

by nentech

Hal wouldn?t a kangaroo be better at it than a kiwi

The poor old kiwi can?t even fly let alone jump high enough

No the kangaroo is much better suited for the job

Or are their sex organs too small

What can you say about a nation the has and overgrown rabbit as a symbol

Aren?t they a pest?

At lest the roo and sheep can eat together

Wow common interests what a match

Col

PS since the kiwis haven?t found this yet I decided to step in

I know the national sport of New Zealand is Rugby

I know their favourite pastime is beating the dumb Aussies

So how is it going in the land of OZ?

by hal 9000

As the others have covered the basics about the only practise not mentioned is attempting to sell a product to the Peers here. That will get you the boot faster than anything else.

But if you make a [b]Rubbish Listing[/b] for something that couldn't exist you are likely to get a good laugh from many here.

When in a Technical Discussion you should take things seriously but in the [b]Off Topic Discussions[/b] a Good Sense of Humour is Defiantly Required.

Col

by hal 9000

I notice that you have been mentioning Sheep a lot recently what are you trying to tell us all? That the [b]Bitch Slaps[/b] that you have been overdosing with have started to have an adverse effect. ;\

Perhaps you would like to lie down on my [b]Couch[/b] and have a Talk About it. :D

If you do I'll organise that the [b]Bitch Slaps[/b] stop for all the time that you are talking to me or till I think that you are cured. Now how do you wish to pay for this service.? :^0

Col ]:)

by maniacman

That's your choice entirely, but I choose not to live with my head in the sand like an ostrich and tell it like I see it and am not bothered by the opinions or reactions of others. That's what makes everyone of us unique instead of blind sheep following a common persona, or at least I'd like to think so.

by charliespencer

"Observations of common behavior among many of the same group?"

"That's what makes everyone of us unique instead of blind sheep following a common persona"

Am I the only one who finds these two statements in conflict? On one hand you say the behavior of individuals can be predicted on some group they belong to. (Since almost everyone can be counted in more than one group, which one do you use to predict their actions?) On the other, you say we're all unique.

by deepsand

And, that he has addressed you in an uncharacteristically plain and straightforward manner.

Consider that, if one can rightfully use characteristics ascribed to [i]A[/i] to describe [i]B[/i], [i]A[/i] and [i]B[/i] are in fact not wholly different, that one may be original and the other derivative; that they may in fact be as intimately interrelated as are Mother and Child.

Which is which is left as an exercise for the reader.

by santeewelding

I sit at your feet in Questions. I seek out your answers, specially when I know little about a subject. I count on your being forceful and to the point. You know your stuff.

In another realm, something happens -- something noisome.

Whatever the (science) you practice so well in the one realm does not survive in the other.

I'm sure Deepsand saw what I was about. He was also on the money with his remark below about being "duly" sensitive.

The subject doesn't matter. I am duly and dually sensitive.

For example, you asked, "So you too deny the truth to be politically correct?" Did you mean "(in order) to be" or did you mean that I deny your truth to be itself politically correct? It matters.

I originally let that one go. You did exit stage right, saying "it's not worth it". I didn't want to throw rotting fruit after you.

But you leave unremitting. You leave your fighting words forcefully intact.

by tig2

Please let us consider that we are coming beyond discussion to high colored debate... and the is the WRONG place to pursue such.

Sandy- the issues between yourself and Santee are within thought process and verbiage of same. Sandy, you are blessed with the voulumness of speech while Santee speaks in the subtilty of brevity. I see the positions that you take and recognize that you are on the same sides- though you do not sound the same.

Can we please make a new choice? Can we start to HEAR one another and respect each other's views? You are both very intelligent men. I believe that you will both gain from HEARING each other's views- even if to disagree.

When we, as rational men, come together, we will find those places where we agree.

Hope you are both blessed in the New Year!

Edit- My third grade teacher would have been ashamed. Now I have to live with that...

by deepsand

I both understood full well and concurred with that which santee said; he himself recognized that by way of aknowledgement.

To MM, I pointed out that, unlike many of his prior posts, this one was exceptionally clear, clear enough that he himself could only have failed to carefully read it, or chose to deliberately misrepresent it.

I then restated, for MM's benefit, the thrust of santee's post, in the hope that it might be accepted as it was intended.

by tig2

You're right, I had misunderstood you.

And I very much appreciate the explanation.

I apologize, I only just now saw your post.

by maniacman

too many people will find it offensive and I'll get blasted for being this and that. Let's just drop it altogether.

by hal 9000

Mainly because none are silly enough to come out here. :p

As for Kiwi's they are [b]Delicious[/b] and I don't care who you tell. We also like to play them at Cricket, V8 Motor Racing and the like as a Kiwi Slinking Away Defeated Again is about the next best thing to actually winning. Actually we don't care to much if we Win or Loose as long as we beat the Kiwi's and Poms nothing else really matters. :0

We keep out [b]House Stock[/b] very close to home because we are very lazy and don't like walking any distance to get dinner. While we eat the Sheep the Kiwi's do other things with them. :^0

God their National Sport is [b]Sheep Dog Trials[/b] need I say any more? :)

Col ]:)

by nentech

But sometimes its nice to be thanked for your help

Welcome to TR
Hope you enjoy the posts of the local comics

Edit to add

Don?t forget to have a look around myWorkspace

It?s your workspace but they call it myWorkspace

by tig2

Every one of us, in trying to address your statements, is trying to give you information about what the tolerance level is. I know that you are aware that Beth will not hesitate to strangle your current account. She is the moderator and may do that. We are all only here by her good grace.

Anything that even remotely smacks of a racist viewpoint will be deleted. You know this. We are trying to help you see what is viewed as racism. No one wants to see you kicked again.

Many of us have a really good read on what will send your account to the byte bin. By giving you feedback, we hope to help- that's all. No one is trying to quash you. But there are times for intellectual debate and there are times when one needs to not share deeply held viewpoints.

You will figure out who you can have that level of discussion with and choose peer mail as the vehicle. That is a good solution. But please consider that you are getting good information on how best to proceed from all of us.

And keep this thought in mind- what you say in person is colored by things like body language, facial expression, tone, and enthusiasm. This, as much as your words, delivers your message. Here, you have text and emoticons and little else. An innocent statement can be easily misconstrued. I had someone go off on me as a racist because I pointed out that asking for password cracks and identifying oneself as Indian did a disservice to the great many of ethical Indians. Because I was unable to communicate my tone, I was misunderstood. That happens a lot.

Keep in mind that we wouldn't bother with you if we didn't care.

by maniacman

I agree that one person's interpretation of something may not be the same by another person. I'll refrain from making any statements that may be misconstrued as prejudiced or racist in tone, even though I have no intentions of painting myself as a racist and the likes. I see that some are overly sensitive here and it's best to avoid stirring the hornet's nest altogether.

by tig2

You are welcome to share your frustrations with me. Even where we disagree, I am willing to hear you out.

by jaqui

that's not bad. but the one I was referring to is:
"common sense isn't."

implying the last word of .. common :D

by charliespencer

Stilettos? That's ridiculous; even the boys at Clemson know better than that. If you put stilettos on them, you can't jam their back feet into your boots.

by Member 25348569

A leisure centre.

Neil :D

NITS(tm) Edit: for the more cosmopolitanly challenged among the peers, Cardiff is the capital of Wales.

by tig2

We're trying to keep him from heading down a wrong path that has gotten him kicked twice. Kindly do not make the problem bigger.

If you don't know what a situation is founded in, it might be best if you choose to not participate.

by nentech

When I wrote that

But he still needs to know that not everybody will take what he writes seriously

There are too many psychos and idiots on the net

I know you would never clown around in this forum

by tig2

He's a good guy and I really don't want to see him kicked. But he was headed for that road.

You're absolutely correct- there are a bunch of clowns out there. We are never rid of them. But I still recall the old days when your only coin was based on how you conducted yourself. Too much time in newsgroups, I guess.

Have a wonderful New Year!

by maniacman

but I have had Beth smack me upside the head a few times for innapropriate comments, but it never came to the point where it was warranted to have me kicked off.

by nentech

TT may have been frustrated with the actions of other posters
It is probably a simple mistake
I would not worry about it

Please take this as some well meant helpfull advice

People tend to forget there is a silent audience reading these forums
It is easy to get lost in the battle and forget there are people from all over the world and many different cultures reading what we write

It is easy to offend a large number of people and not know it
That is one of the reasons why Beth steps in

To be safe it is better to avoid any comments about race or culture

I did notice the clowns continued their antics later on

Col

by jaqui

my religion has new years day on November 1. :p

I don't follow the "Christian" calendar. :D

by pser

It just don't make no sense that common sense don't make sense to some.

by deepsand

I would submit that it is more often the case that some here are [b]duly[/b] sensitive, while others are not.

by tig2

We have to speak in the language that will be understood by the receiver. Work with me here.

by shellbot

You just had to ask about banishment didn't ya??? And look where it went??
:)
Ah just joking.

Welcome to TR..and as everyone else said..common sense will take you far. We all have crossed a few lines, but generally after we were members for quite some time. I think once you get to know everybody, you'll realise what you can and can't get away with.

Have fun ]:)

by charliespencer

I'm working off the governments' calendar and my workplace's. They say a new year has begun, and their the one's who affect my income. Funny about the governments. The feds say my tax year begins Jan. 1, but their spending year begins Oct. 1, and the state starts their spending July 1.

Forget religion. Astronomically the new year began with the winter solstice eleven days ago.

by rob mekel

I knew something was wrong with the new Cardiff centre.
To less to eat for those sheep ;)

Rob

by charliespencer

A biology prof informed me that a kangaroo's penis is forked at the end like a snake's tongue, or like two baseball games played on the same day.

by hal 9000

Actually reminds me of the start of 1974 where we had a bit of water washing around our feet in the low lying areas.

But with a bit of luck the dams will get some rain.

Besides Kangaroos kick and hurt. :p

As for Roos being a pest depends on who you talk to on that one. I've heard it said that they are an [b]Endangered Species[/b] Bloody Hopping Rats. They also have been known to kill cars and the odd truck as well., But on the up side Roos do far less damage to the ground that the sheep. :D

And Roo tastes much better too. Also Roo is supposed to be better for you so if you want to eat healthy you eat Roo not Sheep. See I knew there had to be something good about them. :^0

Col ]:)

by nentech

Imagine walking around with a snake tongue in your pants :(

Brrrr that?s scary

Could be hard on the ears
Drop your pants and all the woman run away screaming :_|
Maybe that?s the problem with the Aussies sexual frustration :^0

Hal

Gosh wet feet is that a flash flood for Australia :D
Not too bad I hope
You may need to move from a pebble to a rock to avoid it :^0

But it?s got to be better than fire
Hope you don?t see that for a long time

Cheers
Col

by hal 9000

Most of Brisbane was underwater and the flood reached the peek on Jan 26 or as some others may realise Australia Day our National Holiday. :D

Naturally where the river couldn't flow freely over the place it got a lot deeper and in many areas the water was not only fast flowing but full of you really don't want to know what. :0

Back then I was a volunteer for the SES that's the State Emergency Service and at one place a team of use where sent in to help members of the public evacuate. When we first walked in there, we had a few inches of water over the ground 3 hours latter we where walking out up to our necks in the smelly nasty stuff. It didn't go down for days/weeks either. But the next door down to where I was going in was pulling semi trailers out of the building that where well underwater. The first one that they pulled out had everything shut up tighter than a drum. When some idiot opened a door he didn't touch the water for 40 feet. :D

They took our recommendations after that and sent the diver back to the trucks when they got out of the Building doors and opened up the truck doors. It actually looked really funny to see a completely dry wheeled end loader and 30 feet further on the roof of a semi just emerging from the muddy water.

But now in the SE Queensland it's wet and on the west coast they have fires burning out of control. What makes things even worse, in Melbourne where they have all 4 Seasons per Hour it's been Hot and on New Years Eve it got down to 42 C just after Midnight so it was a bit warmer there during the day. Here it was [b]COLD[/b] Melbourne stole out fine weather and gave us all their rain for 55 years by the looks of things. We have another big low hitting the place now and the likely hood of a Cyclone affecting us by next week.

[b]Still Cold & Wet here. [/b] :(

Col

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