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ok..i've just had the worst summer in history..(as some of you will know) and now the cat is missing..

went out friday and not back yet..he NEVER misses breakfast. not once in a year..and now he's missed 7 meals..this cat eats every couple of hours (inbetween naps)

we've looked everywhere, nothing..if he met a vehicle, chances are he would be on the side of the road, as most people here just move them off to the side..but we've on most of the roads around our place and nothing.

everyone trying to say he's just gone roaming, but i dunno.

anyone's else cat just up and done this and then come home????

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by mjd420nova

Most cats that go off roaming will return by night fall to familiar surroundings. Some cats will meet up with other animals and get dragged of into brush or gullies. Other times it seems that the cat knows when the time for the end is near and will just find a place of hiding and lie down to await the end. I wish you the best, as I don't know where you live to offer any further suggestions. The cat that owns us is 15 years old and never wanders far from home, usually never leaves his yard, either inside or outside the fence. They are very good at finding new hiding places and won't come out, even for food. It's like a hide and seek game that the cat will prove he can outwait you. Good Luck

by nicknielsen

When I was in high school, our cat used to go off about every two or three weeks and spend a few days away. We later discovered that he also had staff in the trailer park over the back hill.

When he'd had enough of us, he would go live there for three or four days. She was a very nice old lady who was lonely and a sucker for cats.

Hopefully, this is your problem and he will show up fat and happy in the next day or two. Best of luck.

by deadly ernest

1. They usually know when its time to hang up the boots, then they usaully go off somewhere quiet and out of the way.

2. If they find another set of servants worthy of them, they will sometimes split their time between servant households.

3. Check the vets, mine went missing for a few days when about a year old, got hit by a car and a good samaritan took him to the vet. When I checked with the vets I found him still in post op care.

4. Check your local animal pound, many councils now collect unregistered cats, and cats without collars and bells.

God luck, hope you find him well.

by jdclyde

Someone a block away had started feeding my cat (who had a collar and by no means looked like he had ever missed a meal) but he was a very nice cat.

Cat was gone for two weeks and I had already resolved myself to never seeing him again. :(

Then, there he was! :D It was a happy day.

Hope that it is just a stray in heat that has your baby worked up, and he makes it back home. I know all to well how a cat can endear themselves to a family even more than a dumb dog can. (I have both right now, and the cat chases the dog around the house.)

by tig2

I am not one to allow my cat out of the house- ever. I think that is best for my cats- three girls, all different ages, and I live on a fairly busy road and have dogs about. Very different situation.

I did have a cat decide to up and leave- got out of the house as I was moving. He moved in with a neighbour and she let me know that he had. As he was happy there, I did nothing to change the situation- I was ill at the time and had been trying to find homes for all three of my cats. Oscar (white persian) decided that HE would do the choosing of his next home.

One way that would absolutely guarentee that your kitty comes home is to run right out and get a new kitty. Works EVERY time. Proof? I had been catless for a couple of years. I was finally in a more stable situation and decided that I needed a cat. So I adopted Minou. About a month later, I was asked by the shelter I got Minou from to foster a Mom Cat and kittens. Within a week of Mom Cat and the kits (3 of them- entirely too cute!) moving in, two kitties were abandoned on my doorstep (one still lives with me, the other was placed in a loving catless home). If you want to insure the return of your kitty, simply go get another. But don't say I didn't warn you.

Oh- the third cat in the house is my partner's cat. Of course I hooked up with a cat lover!

Let us know what happens, Shell. I promise, God doesn't give us more than we can handle- even when we think we can't.

by tig2

We have upstairs kitties and downstairs kitties.

Minou and Callie know each other well and are fine together. My partner's cat hates everyone equally and does NOT likn Callie and Minou. So Kitty (his cat) lives in our bedroom/bathroom and is sequestered from Minou and Callie.

In Kitty's defense, she is about 13 and has had a tough life. Partner got her from his brother who got her from a shelter (was about to be put down).

My partner is wonderful for keeping me warm...

by jdclyde

My cat is an indoor cat. The only time he goes outside is when he is on his leash. He gets excited when he sees me pick it up and runs to the door! :D

by mlandon

Have had two cats decide to take off for a bit. Both were indoor-only cats and both incidences happened before we had them spayed/neutered.

One female was gone for nearly two weeks without being seen, during which we had the first snowfall of the year, before coming home on her own.

We also had a male that decided to wander the neighborhood for a week or so, showing up occasionally in the evening to let us know he was still around (but not letting us get near him - think the female cat that usually came with him was part of the issue). He came home a bit unwillingly when we caught him one night.

Do check your local animal shelters at least every other day or so. Putting up fliers can sometimes help. Good luck.

by jellimonsta

A number of family members have had cats go walk-about for a while. Checking the shelters and putting up fliers is the way to go.
If this is an expensive cat, or highly treasured, you may want to look at getting him microchipped.
Good luck Shell... when it rains it pours huh? :(

by wolf13

either at your local oriental restraunt or some dogs snack - if all he did was eat and crap not a big loss

by shellbot

do you have to work real hard to be such a f***ing C*** or does it come naturally?

I pity you that you don't have the basic decency that most people have and you seem to lack empathy as well.

What comes around goes around you pr1ck..and when your upset that someone you love is gone or in danger..i hope you receive the same condolences that you gave me.

Have a nice life

by cmiller5400

YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY NO EMPATHY FOR ANYONE! IF YOU HAVE NO WORDS OF ENCOURAGEMENT THEN KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. THAT WAS TOTALLY UNCALLED FOR. :_| And yes I did use all caps on purpose.

by jdclyde

While I am sure you thought you were being pretty clever, you have only branded yourself a f'en prat.

Now sod off.

under the best of times, scum like you would not be funny. When someone is upset over somthing, it lowers you a few notches more.

A cold lonely life to you, a$$hole. Not a long one either. Your passing will only make the world a better place for you leaving it.

by shellbot

Came home at about 6 am!!!

He has never ever done this before..he normally doesn't go roaming, he is neutered so never really goes too far.

He's not hurt, but is a bit scruffy and has lost a lot of weight. I guess when your a wee little animal and don't eat for a few days you lose it fast. He devoured 2 bowls of food in about 5 minutes flat.

Everything is coming up Millhouse..cats back, train was 15 min early this morn? (how that happened, not sure) so i early for work, i'm on a 1/2 day anyways..plus kid came to me last night and said "she knows she has problems to work through, and she will talk to the psycologist when she goes".

Its starting out a good day!
Thanks for your support guys..except for you Wolf, you MF'ing @$$hole.

by Member 25348569

Don't waste pixels on gits like Wolf. Even us non-cat-people can be happy that your moggy is back. Probably got accidentally locked in someones shed or garage. Hopefully it won't happen again.

Neil :D

by secretgeekygirl

So happy to read that! I don't post too often (never have the time), but the cat title got my attention!

We have a squatter who adopted us a few months ago. (We live in a very rural area, with farm fields on every side of us.) He almost always greets us early in the morning for snackage and a drink, then leaves for his day job, whereever that might be. He normally stops back by around 6 pm, eats and goes to the shed to sleep it all off! Ha!

We were recently worried when we didn't see him for three days recently... but when we came home from doing laundry at 5 in the morning, he was waiting for us in the driveway!

by cats&dogs

I am glad that your cat came back, safe and sound. However, as a person who also volunteers at the local SPCA, I have to say - please keep your kitty inside!
Some believe it is cruel to keep a cat indoors, but it is not so...do some research on this. It is much more cruel to let your cat out where s/he can encounter vehicles, dogs, coyotes (and other wild animals), disease, or worst of all - humans. There are some really sick people out there...I have seen what they can do and it is horrifying.
Indoor cats live longer, healthier lives.

by shellbot

some people are sick and thats what worried me the most..if he gets hit by a car that is one thing..but to not know if someone harmed him, thats what was eating me up.

last weekend a few miles outside of town, someone reported that a group of kids abandoned some kittens. when the spca went to get them, they found that there were like 4 or 5, and they were alive..(some just barely) but they had been basically tortured.

it made me ill just reading the article..i can't even comprehend what sort ot mind does that to a helpless animal.

what kind of adults do these children grow up to be? i have my own ideas...

by cmiller5400

My cats have been indoor cats for 99.999999% of their lives. They are now 20 yrs and 18 yrs old. (I have 2 females both 8 yrs old and have never been outside except in a cage to the vets!) And man can they be cranky at 5 in the morning when you don't give in and feed them. ]:)

by jellimonsta

My parents had a cat that went outdoors all the time. She went walk about a few times too (once was missing for something like 8 days (getting fed somewhere else though)) :)
She lived until she was almost 23. She was kind of senile in her last days though. :)

by jdclyde

It is HAPPY TIME!

HAPPY DANCE EVERYBODY! :D

Everybody but MF'ing @$$hole Wolf that is. Hope he chokes on his lunch today.

by navy moose

We had our old white Maine Coon go missing for a week once. He was elderly and was a formerly outdoor cat. We resigned ourselves that he tangled with someone bigger than him. I went outside to the garbage and he comes running up to me talking up a storm.

Needless to say, that was his last unsupervised trip outside.

We've rescued a number of cats, our most recent rescue is now living with us and has zero desire to go outside. His girlfriend and kids were all rescued, fixed, and have great homes.

Navy Moose

by shellbot

JD..you've gone and done it now

Happy Dance triggered me to think of HAMSTER DANCE!!!!!!!!!!

God..its gonna be there all day isn;'t it...
i can even see them dancing round inside my head.

by deadly ernest

the poor puss has been.

I'm not really a cat person, nor do I object to them. But i'm still trying to figure out how I inhereited the cat I have. My sister had a cat when she moved down to live with my father and myself. When that cat died, dad got a new cat for her. But he looked after it the most. When dad died, we both cared for the cat. When issues saw me moving out, I got told to take the cat with me as it's mine. Still don't know how. But I couldn't kick the poor thing out, or take it to the pound. Since then I've moved hours three times and still got it, 6 years later.

And he still causes me to sprain ankles when he decides to jump on the bed and got to sleep on top of the blankets, on top of my ankle. I roll oevr a lot, and he depresses the blankets for quite an area, kind of like turning over with your ankle tied to the bed in the old spot. Grrr - flaming cat. More a trouble than anything else, yet I still worry if he goes missing for several hours. We live on a farm now and the nearest house is over half a kilometre away, he rarely ventures out of the house yard,and spends most of his time in the hosue. Beats me where he hids for hours at a time.

by haylocks

and, hey, this thread is way more fun than fretting about css v tables!

Like your response to Wolf, Shell, but he reminds me of me when I was single, overpaid and arrogant, and immature. I am now underpaid, older, with a wife who loves animals and thinks I might have grown up a little over the last 20 years. I guess Wolf will grow up too.

We have four cats and two dogs right now, and I keep wanting more!

If your cat came back thin, my money's on it's being accidentally shut in somewhere. Either way, I'm happy for you and the cat.

Best regards

Richard

by tig2

But glad to hear that your kitty is home safe. I would guess that he's been shut in somewhere. Hopefully, he won't care to go outside for awhile.

I installed "Kitty TV" (read birdfeeder) for my downstairs girls. It keeps them entertained for hours on end. The only time I have ever had a problem with it was when Callie forgot that windows are solid and ran into it thinking she could get the birds. Callie isn't the brightest bulb in the box sometimes.

And you're right- Wolf has some personal issues...

by jdclyde

She doesn't own a "bird feeder". It is known as "Bait". :p

Always a pile of feathers under it...... ;\

by haylocks

go on holiday! They don't tell you, they just go! It's a chance to eat differently - birds, mice, that kind of stuff.

But it's possible that the cat is shut in somewhere like a neighbour's garage - hope not for both your sakes!

Good luck...

by jdclyde

you would not believe how cool it is to have a cat that will walk on a leash! It isn't easy, and most cats would rather attack the leash than walk on it.

Oh yeah, gotta have the body harness, not a coller.

will have to get a pic of him on one of our walks! B-)

by haylocks

by jdclyde

Need just a little bit more orange. And yes, he LOVES the water and comes running anytime he hears the water run and has jumped in my shower more than once!

http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g92/jdclyde/HPIM0103.jpg
http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g92/jdclyde/H0212.jpg
http://i54.photobucket.com/albums/g92/jdclyde/HPIM0106.jpg

I just assumed he was a common tom cat! Will have to read up on this site and see if Mr. Hyde really is one of these or not. (got that name because he is loviedovie one moment and psycho the next).

Thanks for the link!

And no, he is not shy.

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