Friday Hug - Part 3
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After Hours
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by jck
((((((((((((((((((((( hugs )))))))))))))))))))))
At least it's not Monday anymore!! :^0
by nicknielsen
by jck
by nicknielsen
But it took me about 3 hours to drive the 120 miles from Myrtle Beach to Columbia as that which was keeping me up last night continued today. Had to stop every other exit or so. I hate getting older...
edit: My own dang fault, though, since I didn't eat right over the weekend.
by av .
It was a good day to take a nap. I love a good nap on rainy days. All the trees are blooming, but its just 50 degrees F here today.
I hope everyone down South is ok after the horrible storms.
AV {{{{{HUGS}}}}}
by nicknielsen
and some strong gusts here.
I checked the radar map just before I went to bed last night and it looked like the worst of the storms were to the west of the mountains.
It's right green here today, about 80° F.
by shellbot
sucks right now..in the worst way
Will take any hugs anyone has to give..
:(
by cmiller5400
((((((HUGS))))))
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We are here for ya if you need a shoulder...
by shellbot
by nicknielsen
Many-many.
More, if you need them.
by gadgetgirl
you know that.
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:x
GG
by shellbot
by michael jay
as we all are, just wish I could wave a wand and make it better.
(((((HUGS)))))
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Hang in there sweetie.
by shellbot
but i don't think those magic wands exist
:(
by purpleskys
by nicknielsen
Got a new work van last Friday. It had only 27 miles on it when I was loading it up. I'll probably hit 1000 miles by Friday.
The good? Cruise, power package, stereo with CD and mp3 jack. Sweet. It's good to listen to speakers instead of wearing headphones. The cage has a cutout so I can recline the seatback slightly more. Very nice, very comfortable.
The bad? Less usable storage. The racks in the back are different and I lose both a 15-inch by 6-foot shelf and a strip of floor space. That's the difference between sliding things in next to each other, and stacking them, darn it.
The ugly? It has USB with MS Sync. Whoopee. I'll probably only use the USB port to charge the mp3 when I'm in the stores...
by shellbot
Its all good really isn't it..
Wish my update could be so positive..
"the big issue", once in a lifetime trip to the Seychelles cancelled, unemployed in 6 weeks...
I guess really that everything is just so sh!t that it really can't get much worse and can only start looking up.
On the upside..my cat is not shedding so much the past week..less hoovering to do... thats a good thing.
(hugs)
by jck
Was neck deep for 2-3 weeks in work. Now...nothing. Sit and wait. Let management take time making decisions after being all "time is important" demeanor.
Wish smacking people in the head was legal.
((((((((((((((((((( Hope you get something soon Shell ))))))))))))))))))))))))
by nicknielsen
Canceled the trip? Total bummer. Myself, I would have gone anyway, just so I could say I did. But that's me...
Is there even a hint of a new job showing up? Or is the whole recession thing getting in the way?
And a cat shedding less? Never a bad thing. Just watch out if she starts asking for Meow Mix; you'll be losing glassware. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KTMdTWeW2ZU
Maximum {((((HUGS))))}
by shellbot
Sitting around for 9 days, amidst happy couples and newlyweds on thier honeymoon.. I'd have locked myself in the bathroom and never come out.
i'll always have the website to look at..
http://www.hiltonworldresorts.com/Resorts/Seychelles/accommodation/index.html#Seychelles+accommodation+index++
I'll get there someday.. :(
To be honest, haven't been looking the past 2 weeks.. maybe start next week, now that i feeling a bit better. Recession thing is getting in the way big time...
by shellbot
Just got home from RObin Hood movie.. holy mother of ... what a cr@p movie...only went cause my mate wanted to go and thought well, would get me outa the house for a bit, and how bad could it really be..??
One redeeming thing, Russel Crowe pretty buff..and the scene where he gonna have a bath.. saaaaaaweeeeeeet ... I'd have me some of that for dessert :D
((((((hugs)))))
by nicknielsen
Stick to "Men in Tights", Disney's, and Prince of Thieves?
Might rent it if you tell me Cate Blanchett has a similar scene.
by purpleskys
by nexs
And we've been in a perpetual state of UnHugness as of recent...
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:)
by shellbot
Yes..we've been short on hugs lately..
Everyone busy..but still, thats no excuse.
:)
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by nexs
Friday NIGHT hugs (it's friday night for me now, so i'll try and make up for the hug shortage)
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by purpleskys
by nicknielsen
by shellbot
by nexs
Yaaay! On that note, he shall grab himself a beer.
Why, thank ye'.
by purpleskys
Happy Saturday morning ((((hugs)))) looks like a nice one...finally, no rain in the forecast for a few days. Have a good one :)
http://www.weatheroffice.gc.ca/city/pages/ns-25_metric_e.html
by nicknielsen
Completely overcast here and a chance of thunderstorms for the next 5 days. http://www.weather.com/weather/tenday/29201
But, just for you, Sunny Saturday ((((hugs))))
by purpleskys
by nicknielsen
My sons' alma mater just won its first state soccer championship by defeating the [u]four-time[/u] defending champions, 1-0, in two overtimes.
Weather's not been too bad, sprinkles here and there. Radar shows the storms forming well to the east of us.
And they're still playing hockey? But didn't the play-offs start back in February? :0 (Getting to be as bad as basketball... ;) ) At least the NHL is large enough now that the old joke about the regular season only needing to be long enough to weed out the bottom three teams before the playoffs doesn't apply any more. With the Bruins, Sabres, and Rangers long out of it, and me congenitally unable to root for either Chicago OR Philly, there's not much choice left... Go, Sharks! :D
by purpleskys
That must have been a gruling game, but I'm glad to hear they won!! woo hoo!!
And I hear ya, the hockey season sure does run long now, with 30 teams, not much wonder it runs into June ;) . When it comes to who to root for in winning the final round, I'm kinda behind Chicago (did you know that there are 20 Canadians on the Hawks?) But either way, as long as it's anyone but the Habs, I'm good :D !
by av .
I haven't hugged lately and was feeling a little guilty. We finally have some decent weather in NJ. I've got a good start on my gardening and I'm happy to just do anything in the nice weather.
AV
PS: More {{{{{{{{HUGS}}}}}}}}
by shellbot
Weather was amazing here over the weekend.. today started not so good, but its pretty nice out there now..
((((((sunny hugs))))))
by nicknielsen
So far today, fairly quiet.
(That loud noise is me, rapping on the tabletop...)
by av .
In the 90's in NJ. Not used to this weather so soon.
AV
{{{{HUGS}}}}
by nicknielsen
We got our early heat wave back in April, while you were dealing with the rains.
The grass was green, now it's brown...already.
by jck
been above 90F everyday here since...late February?
Scary stuff. I have people who are Florida natives telling me they have never seen weather like this in 50-60 years of life.
by av .
I'm not looking forward to it.
http://www.weather.com/outlook/weather-news/news/articles/noaa-hurricane-outlook_2010-05-27
AV
by nexs
by purpleskys
by nicknielsen
and Tuesday night.
I [u]WILL[/u] be there!
Anticipatory (((((hugs)))))
by shellbot
uummm..
the weather...
oh..me!! :D
tee hee ...
The weather in dublin is astounding...glorious...worthy of an award really..
In honour of the day, i pulled out all the stops and wore a dress to work for the first time in my life ever!!!
< no comments form the peanut gallery please>
Have a great friday y'all ..
Oh and its a long weekend here to boot!
2 hours till beer o'clock..
((((((((((big hugs)))))))))))
by jck
Mine sucks. Was sick. Came back to work anyways even tho I feel like trash.
Migrated the structure now. Waiting for phase II.
I will be rather sloshed tonight. I have reached my wits end.
Meeting in 1 minute. Gotta go. See you all later.
*********** hugs *************
by shellbot
So..spent a few mins catching up in the thread started by the "maak" dude (or whatever his name is).
Its obvious I'm not around much any more, and frankly after that thread, I'm not sure I want to be around anymore.
TR used to be a great place, yes the odd squirmish, and few trolls, but generally it was good natured .. Now, some people have been so brow beaten, they have moved on, and these were long standing members.
I used to look forward to my daily foray into the world of TR, now I just check in once a week.
Now, some of this is due to ongoing personal issues, and a general attempt to "go off the grid". Its amazing what happens when you turn off the computer, there's life out there!
I did not add my comments to the post I refer to, because I feel I would ruffle feathers if I did. And this is my issue. I once felt such a part of this place that I felt I could say anything and it would be taken with a grain of salt and some consideration that each human being is entitled to thier own opinion.
Its turned into a schoolyard, with people taking sides, and if I am afraid to make a comment because I think members who I would call friends may turn on me, then why am i here at all??
I had nothing bad to post in the thread, it was simply an observation and a small attempt at keeping the peace, but from some of the repsonses others got, I don't feel comfortable saying anything. Partly because I don't want someone taking my side against someone else.
Maybe 3 months of self evaluation has changed me, maybe the destruction of my marriage has given me a new perspective of things.
We are all here for such a short time, we know this..we have lost memebrs who were friends..does this sort of carry on really enrich your lives? Does it make you feel good?
I'd rather share good things and have a chuckle, and be willing to suport someone if they need it..thats the type of thing that really matters in this life.
Maybe I'm outa line here..but whatever...we all make our choices.
I wish you all a good day and I hope something nice happens, whether it be a smile or a kind word.
((((((hugs))))))
by purpleskys
thanks for the kick in the rear Shell... :|
edit: i needed it
by shellbot
I'm not intending to make anyone feel guilty, or be anyones conscious, I just feel sadness that so much energy is being put into such negativity :(
I'm not casting stones, god knows I've done the same myself.. i guess its just my new outlook on things. Loosing everything you value will do that to a person i guess..
by jamesrl
I tried to stay out....
And I do agree, these kinds of things take on a life of their own and the emotions and energy inolved are not helpful in keeping the community together.
Sorry to hear things are not getting better, wish there was something I could do to help.
James
by shellbot
Thanks..
I think things are actually going better. Hard to explain, but my world has been turned upside down, ripped apart and my very being is in shreds..but at least I know where I stand, I'm not walking around in a haze anymore.
Things often get worse before they get better, I have a long hard journey beginning soon, and hopefully with my husband by my side. We are both committed to making things work, but it will not be easy with the issues we are facing.
The best thing though, if it doesn't work, i know I will be OK, and I am strong enough to get through everything.
Oh, Chelsea graduated!!!!!! I'm so so so pround of her. Will send you a pic later on this week...might be calling on your shopping expertise again.. I'm thinking maybe earrings to match her braclet :)
Shells
by purpleskys
and sometimes a kick in the rear is a good thing...makes me take a moment and re-evalute as well. I didn't think for a moment that you were casting stones, only giving your reflection on what you saw happening.
Sounds like life has dealt you a bum hand, peer mail me if you need to rant at someone, I'm around; I'm currently an unemployed bum :| so I'm often not far from my computer. Hope things start to look up for you soon. ((((hugs))))
by nicknielsen
Time to kick this thing.
I make it 23 days. Getting antsy ((((hugs))))
by gadgetgirl
or aren't we on about the same thing?
As of today, (Weds, 16th) it's 12 days to arrival, therefore 14 days to the actual start....
And I can start counting down again. Had an anxious week there, when Ma got rushed into hospital, and the entire world got put on hold.
Home safe and sound yesterday, family and neighbours checking constantly on both her and Pa (so they complain they don't get a minutes' peace!) so she doesn't overdo anything at all.
((((((((( VERY RELIEVED HUGS ))))))))))
so, back on countdown.
12
[b] (((((((((( BOUNCING, BOINGING HUGS ))))))))))[/b]
:x
GG
by nicknielsen
before coffee! :D
13 days to arrival for me; I'll be pulling in Tuesday afternoon sometime. You want anything from here? Peaches? Pecans?
by purpleskys
by nexs
:D
What's the temperature though? I've not been there, but I imagine Canada to be cold all the time...
Time Traveling Hugs - it's thursday here (((hugs)))
by jamesrl
With the weird weather we've been having, we actually had days in April where it was snowing in Calgary and hot (for April) at 28 degrees in Toronto.
Of course it isn't cold all the time. We only tell people that to keep the tourists down to a minimum. There used to be jokes about Americans coming to the border in July with ski racks on their cars.
Couple thousand Kms from me, Purple has decent weather, we've had rain last few days. Gonna hit 32 degrees and sunny on the weekend in time for fathers day - perfect BBQ weather.
You know we have prickly pear Cactus native to the very southern part of Ontario...
James
James
by purpleskys
by gadgetgirl
- you just bring yourself, sweetz!
I'll re-issue contact details shortly - I'll be there from Monday night (hopefully! remember last years' storms that kept me in Detroit?!) Try and let me know what time you're getting in, and your hug will be waiting at the front desk!
Up to now, that's you, MJ and BFilmFan arriving in the afternoon.
HUGGERIFIC!
(Can't risk pecans, but I'd love a peach!)
:x
GG
by nicknielsen
Bummer.
I'll bring peaches. I think J.Ja is also bringing some. Depending on how much it costs to repair the Escort, I may also bring other surprises.
by michael jay
What a deal, and like you my wife's car picked an inappropriate time to need service, lots of bucks done, and not content with that the daughter needs help with her car, dang why am I so nice, guess I gotta help her too.
So, with no money in my pocket I should be there Tuesday afternoon. Its only money.
by nicknielsen
by hal 9000
[b]SWMBO[/b] insisted that I fix her daughters car after she blew a head gasket after destroying a Water Pump and not being satisfied with that she them insisted that I also deposit money into her Bank Account.
Not sure why I had to give her daughter money the only thing I can think of is not only did I pay for the parts and repair the thing but I had to pay for for the privilege of fixing her car.
Something in that [b]Female Logic[/b] escapes me as I always thought you paid for the parts and labor to repair your car, not get the parts & labor free and get paid by the person repairing the car for the privilege of fixing it.
Though I must say that the women at the bank agreed with the Wifes Logic, the men there just agreed with me it's not worth the hassle to ask why it is so. ;)
Col
by michael jay
by purpleskys
I've got a buddy that lives in Ft. McMurray, their weather can get quite cold for winters and they also have the really long hours of day light in the summer.
It's kinda funny though, how the weather can be cold on the east coast and mild on the west coast during the winters, but our summers are almost the same except I have found the east coast to be more humid than the west. When we drove through BC a number of years ago, I was quite shocked to actually drive through a desert and it was really hot and dry (it was August).
I also spent a week in southern Ontario (Hamilton) back in the early 90's, the weather was warm that year and there were a lot of thunder storms in the evenings, but it sure was pretty there. I loved it, would consider going back sometime and touring around the Niagra region a little more.
by nexs
That I'd like to visit Canada in the snow season and have a white Christmas. Being in Australia, our Christmas' are either hot, darn hot, or fuggin' hot.
It'd be nice, but hard to get used to the cold, our little aussie internal thermostats can't comprehend -40 degrees...
by purpleskys
We don't get a lot of white Christmases in Nova Scotia anymore, the climate has become too mild. Northern Ontario would be good for one though. We rarely ever get anything below -20C.
This gives a person a bit of an idea of what it can be like here; Darryl threw this page together shortly after New Year's one year http://www.ldmsoftware.com/Community/Jan1_2009/NewYear2009.htm before that, we hardly had any snow before then that year.
by jamesrl
In my southern Ontario area, chances of a white Christmas are less than 50%.
Go north 1000 kms (still Ontario) and its probably 75%.
Where we are, -40 (not factoring wind chill) is a once a winter thing, usually at night.
Your body does adjust, if you go outside and expose yourself to the cold. Some people rarely go outside and dont adjust.
James
by nexs
That looks awesome!
You've got some mighty big snow pools around there :P
I guess it's human nature to want things that are different.
:D
by nexs
Then I can only imagine how many digits are on the winter gas/electricity bill.
But, James, you are destroying my idea of a white Christmas! Ha!
by hal 9000
Much nearer the Equator in Sunny Queersland.
Mind you purple it's the middle of winter and [b]COLD.[/b]
Col :p
by purpleskys
by jck
been 36C+ here for the past 3 weeks every evening when I get home from the office.
I'm moving one way or another. I can't take anymore of walking out of the building at 4:30 and thinking someone put me in a steam room.
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by hal 9000
I don't like cold. I've had it in Germany years ago and England and didn't like it. ;)
I'll stay here where it gets part way warm :0
Defiantly didn't like the Black Ice which was a real downer so it's a defiant No No as far as I'm concerned. Though when I looked at that Temp it was at night. :p
Col
by hal 9000
What you mean like Black Ice, Brown Sludge, Enormous Heating Bills that mean you are working to support the Power Company, The Winter Cloths Company and the new car company due to the salt used on the roads that destroy cars?
Been there done that and didn't like it one little bit. Give me a 40c + Christmas any year and I'll love it even when there is 300% Humidity and the rain doesn't get any closer to the ground than 3000 meters. ;)
Col
by nicknielsen
Got the Escort out of hock for only $183 (not including the $130 I spent on the switch).
Sun's shining, beer's cold. Party on ((((hugs))))
by av .
Good deal! Any car servicing nowadays is a small fortune.
Its pretty steamy up here in Jersey. I think we're going to have a very hot summer. I made myself a nice batch of ice tea with lemon and fresh mint. Had a couple of beers to, but it gets warm so fast.
AV
by nicknielsen
by av .
If you go to the dealer, you get ripped off. I have to depend on the dealer now because I have a Pontiac Grand Prix and those are history.
I'm still crying about that.
AV
by nicknielsen
Had an '86 Grand Am before the Escort: 4-cylinder, 5-speed. Lots of torque, ran great. Would love to still have it.
But the radiator fan relay died on the hottest afternoon of the summer while I was circling the block looking for a place to park at the courthouse (call response, not legal problem B-) ). No temp gauge, just an idiot light, so I didn't catch it in time. When it overheated, it blew the head gasket.
At the time, the need for 'a' car was more important than the need for 'that' car, so I traded it in on the Escort. Although I've gotten great service from the Escort, I fit the Grand Am [u]without[/u] altering the front seat and it was a blast to drive.
I should think you'd be able to find a local mechanic who can do the work at a less-than-dealer rate: Pep Boys, Sears, Firestone, or an independent. You can still get the parts from Advance, CarQuest, Auto Zone, or any NAPA dealer at a significant discount off dealer prices.
by jamesrl
Most cars that have been produced for a while have a steady stream of parts, both the OEM (original equipment manufacturer) and aftermarket parts. Sometimes the OEM parts are better, sometimes not, sometimes they are inferior. When replacing the gaskets in my intrepid, the mechanic showed me the original oil soaked paper gasket that failed, and then showed me the fibre and steel wire reinforced replacement from aftermarket. The replacement cost me a whole $3 more than the OEM but would last forever.
Dealerships also do a profitable business selling parts to independants and even other dealerships, and that isn't going to change.
So don't be afraid to go to an independant.
James
by av .
I can find a cheaper mechanic. I always kept the car dealership maintained and its in great shape, so I bought out my Pontiac lease. I have too much fun driving it to let it go. I commute about 80 miles a day. Lots of highway driving. It helps to have a V6 supercharged engine when you have to get out of bad situations.
AV
by hal 9000
All new cars have modifications introduced over their lives and the Reputable Dealer makes these changes during Routine Services at no cost to the owner.
If you do not take your car to the Dealer you can not get the Makers recommended changes made and have to wait till there is a recall notice issued which only happens with most models of cars after several fatal incidents. It's much better to get the changes made by the dealer when they do the routine services than it is to have to wait for the possible recall notice to be issued which effectively means that you are far more likely to be one of those fatal incidents because you are waiting for the recall notice to be issued rather than having the changes made along the way.
When I worked for a Ford Dealer here there where over 300 modifications that had come through the works before we saw the first of the new models that they applied to. Little things from Automatic Gearbox changes for the electronics to major things like replacing front suspension Ball Joints that failed when driving over less than flat roads and caused incidents that where to say at best something that you didn't want to be involved in. I remember attending one of these incidents where the car had rolled several times and none of it's occupants walked away from. To make matters worse it wasn't a failure of a Ford component but the component from one of their suppliers who supplied the same part to the GM Model range so it adversely affected all of the then current models in AU.
We did hundreds of these changes during Routine Services to prevent the owners or the cars drivers having problems latter. Just about all of these changes where done without the input from the owners complaining about something we just got the go ahead to perform any Recommended Modifications sent out by the factory. While the initial service costs may have been more than after market Repairs did we where not confined to Log Book Services but could do what was specified by the maker at no cost to the owner to make the [b]"New"[/b] car safer for them to use. The non-dealers do not have access to the Free Components of the Manufacturer reimbursed for Labor in fitting these modified parts. Quite often as the Car Maker doesn't make these parts the Component Maker pays the Maker to make the changes. ;)
Col
by jamesrl
I don't know about Australia, but in North America (Canada and US at least) any recall note is sent directly to the owner from the manufacturer.
During the warranty period, its a good thing from a records keeping perspective to use dealership service. It may result in fewer arguments if there is a disuputed warranty claim.
From my experience with dealerships, I had a hard time getting them to follow the steps in a TSB (technical service bulletin) that clearly addressed issues I had with the car. Now some dealers are better at this than others.
I've never heard of a situation in Canada/US where a part is replaced free unless its under warranty or a recall.
James
by shellbot
2 more days of work..then I'm unemployed..* meh *
the weather is fab .. and ohhh..what day is it today??
its...its....
:D
by purpleskys
by shellbot
.. aarrrggggg..
Where is MJ and his magnificant memory???
by purpleskys
by shellbot
by purpleskys
by michael jay
no, not me, I am lucky to remember my own name some days.
Hugs, Happy Birthday dear.
by nicknielsen
But a very Happy Birthday to you anyway.
Hope you have a splendiferously serendipitous day.
by jck
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