Except for a certain proportion of today's younger generation who seem to have been born with awareness, it has been my observation that maturity is not likely to be reached until after the age of 40.
I have been at peace with myself and my ideas and opinions (which of course are subject to change according to new experiences or data) for well over a decade.
In real life (as distinct from the cyber life of TR) I am very easy to get on with, cheerful, witty and almost NEVER get into an argument.
I live in one of Australia's right-wing strongholds, but never find myself in an argument about politics.
Until a couple of years ago -- when the Internet took control of my life -- I used to regularly attend some church or other and never got into arguments about religion.
So I guess there is some mysterious quality in TR miscellaneous discussions which brings out the worst in me.
And now I will tell you another way that TR discussions have affected me.
Before I joined TR I had NO IDEA that as a foreigner I was required to dislike America and Americans.
I had always thought of America as the birthplace of jazz; the source of the best musicals ever made; the only country (apart from Australia which produced the first ever feature length movie) which continually churned out movies and certain TV series that didn't put me to sleep.
I also thought of America as the ally in WW II without which the Brits would all be speaking German and Australians would all be speaking Japanese.
I have never personally met an example of the so-called "ugly American." The Americans I have met have been polite, enthusiastic and altogether likeable.
The Mormons who occasionally knock on my door are always impeccably dressed and courteous.
So I guess that if I had never joined TR I would still be thinking of only the positive contributions of America and Americans.