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OzMentalCase has been copping a lot of flak lately, and we all know that he was somewhat forthright in many of his earlier postings. However he has promised to be more moderate in his postings from now on.

Personally I consider he has started many interesting discussions, and contributed useful information and opinions in many of his postings.

So who else out there is prepared to stand up and be counted, and agree with me that OzMentalCase is definitely an asset to the discussions?

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by oz_media

Actually Julian, I am flattered but somewhat embarrassed but thank you very much for your kind sentiment. HEY, WHAT ARE YOU DOING UP!!?? Aint it the wee hours? Maybe it's the new drugs they got you on, weeeeeeeee!

I was looking for the right place to post a SCARY statement that I read on smoking gun, I guess this'll do.

NOTE: This is the written complaint from a child accusing Michael Jackson of pedophillia, please do not read if you are offended by such things. It is truly GROSS what this child claims he has been subjected to.

http://tinyurl.com/vrsg

This man is NOT well, I don't feel that a child was pushed into writing this for monetary gain. He would be questioned and further interrogated, it just wouldn't hold up.

This is the boy who was paid (reported onsite as 15-40 million, I heard 23 in a recent interview).

Unfortunately, because this case has been settled out of court, it is VERY hard, especially against such lawyers to have this as admissible character evidence in today's proceedings.

An hour alone with THIS little boy would fix things and he'd be singing a much higher tune than normal.

by thechas

Actually Julian, I do get a kick out of reading some of Oz's posts.

It is nice to have a "professional" flamer when a poster deserves to be flamed.

Heck, I have even seen Oz give some good answers in the Technical Q&A forum.

Truth be told, none of us are perfect and we should all accommodate each others peculiarities.

Chas

by av .

They are always unpredictable and lively, controversial, inflammatory, love it or hate it.

I am kind of a newbie with TR discussion groups. When I first started looking at the discussion group for Net Admins, I thought Oz was a group moderator because of all of his postings. I have to admire his dedication to keeping this group interesting.

by maecuff

However, it's fun to watch the bickering back and forth..I just don't get enough of it from my kids. So sure, be nice to Oz..just not TOO nice. Where's the fun in that?

by oz_media

You say you don't get enough of it from your kids? Are they available on e-Bay? Bet they would sell like hotcakes!

You sir, you maam, step right up and see the kids that don't bicker enough! What a sell out that would be, can I have the promotional contract?

And yes, don't be TOO nice, I might go soft (skinned that is!!), damn you guys are rude!

by maecuff

Just looking out for your best interest. And we tried the ebay route..my husband gets out in 10 to 20.

by hereinoz

I will be happy to throw my hat into the ring on this one Julian. I always have admired the way Oz is prepared to state what he thinks. I guess it makes it easier that I often tend to agree with him!!

I also admire the forthright attitude of Maxwell, even though I often disagree with him, and this makes it tougher for me, I still admire the fact that he is prepared to say it like he sees it.

The only problem in all of this is that we ( and I mean all of "we") often get blinded to the other's point of view, and I guess that is the important thing in all of this. We need to consider that Oz, and Colin, and you, and Max and most of the others, all have a legitimate point of view, and that if we can look at all of it in a balanced fashion, even if we disagree, we may just be able to learn from the others.

Then the moderator will have nothing to do!!

Cheers

Alan

by tomsal

I'll back you on that Julian, though I'm pretty sure at one time or another (but I've been around TR for a long time) Oz ripped me a new on in a discussion...I do admire his "say it like I see" perspective on things and I appreciate his sense of humor...yeah call me crazy but I have a strange sense of humor too...lol

So all let....
The Oz man cometh!!!

laters.

by hal 9000

I really love the 10 - 20 bit but he should have explained to the court that he didn't know how to use a computer and blame the nasty neighbours.

That way he could have got rid of the kids and the neighbour from hell in the one shot.

Col

by maecuff

Oh well, next time. I'm thinking about showing this thread to my older kids, they've run out of ideas for new chapters in the book they claim to be writing. My two teenagers (16 & 18) would honestly get angry with me, they would say, "You're just talking about selling us on Ebay, you'd never do that to Joey" (the 5 year old). How do you combat sibling rivalry between an adult, a sophomore in highschool and a kindergarten student? I guess one solution would be to stop favoring the youngest, but that's no fun.

by oz_media

You asked : "How do you combat sibling rivalry between an adult, a sophomore in highschool and a kindergarten student?"

A big stick, if it doesn't work, get an even bigger stick, hammer, rolling pin, clothes brush, wooden spoon (oh the memories).

by hal 9000

Oz has a forthright way of saying what he feels and weather you like or hate it he stands by his convictions without flinching one bit.

While there may be some things that I disagree with him on in these areas he defiantly has far more experience than me so I'll just defer to his opinion on most things like this as I really can't say anything differently for sure.

I have seen quite a few of his answers in the Q & A section and they are mostly correct though in some detail he could explain a bit better but then again the same can be said for all of us here, I think he may be allowing some level of technical knolledge that the person asking thequestion doesn't have. Also because of the time difference I'm one of the last to see these so now I generally just stear clear of them.

While I can stand the regulars having a go at him for his ideas what does really get to me is when someone who never particapates in any Q & A or discussions takes it into their heads to attack him for what he has said on one thread particuarly when there have been numerious other threads started by others that all say the exact same thing.

Yep I'll acknolledge I sometimes get carried away but generally it is with good reason and then there are my personal preducies that come into play as well so all in all keep it up OZ and do what you enjoy.

I for one would miss you're contributions if you ever decide to withdraw from TR as at the very least they are thought provoking.

Col

by mrbill-

We are gathered here today to show our final respects to a fallen comrade. Oz will be missed for his unique sense of humor, his strength to stand up for his beliefs, his ability to joyfully give help to others. Many will say he was a hard man to get to know and harder to appreciate ?

What this isn?t a eulogy? Oz is still around? Rats!

But seriously. Oz more than adds to this site. If everyone agreed all the time it would not be a discussion board. His arguments have changed my way of thinking on some issues. Though I am still a newbie on this site and have not participated in the Q&A much, I am nowhere near as sharp as you guys, I feel very welcome discussing things with Oz and the rest of you.

by oz_media

Just like me, you are a master of spelling and grammar mistakes, for this you are human.

You said "he defiantly has far more experience than me" Which really makes me chuckle because DEFIANTLY would fit as well as your intended definitely.

Good play on words.

As for me definitely having more experience than you, I would STRONGLY disagree in the sense of IT knowledge, that's why I came to YOU for help.

In respect to American politics, I also say that I have VERY little setailed knowledge yet have become a lot mre aware of the objectives of the American voters as a result of this forum, I have learned MUCH from the people here. I wouldn't think I am more knowledgable of US politics than you, we have the same resources.

I may have a better understanding of what it is to be thier neighbours, I have worked with and met MANY, MANY Americans so I have seen representations of the American people as well as having TV bombarded with it. My only knowledge of America is based on travel, work and those I have met. As for economy, politics etc. I'm as green as any Canadian, we just see the spew on our TV and get pissed at the in you face attitude, that's all.

by hal 9000

But as I'm basicly lazy I can't be bothered in even looking up anything on Americian Politics and other than the late night US broadcasts which I do not watch anyway there isn't all that much Americian news over here and even less that I actually see.

About the only thing thast I do see any of is ET early Saturday mourning just before the Thunderbirds comes on {the kid is still in me but I just love the way that they deal with some of the problems that are encounted and I can not get over the Supermaranition as I think it is brilliant} so for 5-10 minutes I tend to watch the end of that but it is about all that I ever see of Americian News/Current Affairs or other stuf.

But on the bright side the Aussie Dollar has drastly improved against the Greenback {now wonder where that term came from Green-Back sounds like a political party doesn't it?} So I can buy some more hotup bits without my wife noticing the massive drain on my bank account.

Col

by mallardtooxx

you forgot to list them as slightly used didn't you. The nabbed my wife for that so the next time I listed them as slightly used. No harm no foul and 35 buck apiece!!!

-duck

by mallardtooxx

Okay jules I will cast my lot here but I must say I think this is a little silly. Oz is a big boy and can take care of himself and he and I made our peace long ago but what the heck. But no one be surprised when this thread turns into an ugly thing of people saying you are cowing to OZ.

I agree and I disagree with oz, if that is something that requires I post on this thread then here it is. But Oz knows where I stand and so this is a moot point =)

-duck

by jardinier

but it has proven that, despite regular criticism, Oz's contributions to discussions are generally appreciated.

And I have no idea how you came up with the idea that I may be attacked for "cowing to OZ." (by the way, the word you mean is "cower") I do not cower to any member of this website. Sure, you haven't visited the discussions for quite a while, but you won't find any posting of mine which in any way resembles cowering to another member.

by oz_media

As I've said, I appreciate your support as would anyone. I hate to be sucked up to though, and NO I don't think you are sucking up and nor do you have any reason to.

I wouldn't accept being 'cowered OR cowed to'.

It's "Stand up and be counted" not "lay down and hope they accept you" .

by mallardtooxx

No juels it is cowing. I didn't imply you were cowering to him or because of him....ever heard of cowtow? Don't imply my meaning i never imply yours.

-duck

by jkaras

Oz is funny, annoying, odd, and controversial taking devils advocate stances. Some are pure humor, some fact, regarless of the intent the only time he is annoying is the sometimes banter with Max on side issues on who's going to get the better of who. Guys get a room already, you bicker like an old couple. LOL. Both post great stuff and I admit it is rather amusing at times but it gets too much. Other than that, them or any of us post our rantings is all good at anytime and it helps pass the day regardless of the opinion, thanks. Since we are complaining about others I AM REALLY TIRED OF HEARING BUY MY BOOK ALBATROSS. I'm glad you got published, it is rather a cool accomplishment but its getting old when you post it every so post. I am interested in your views not your plugs. I hope you sell well, I am not being sarcastic.

by jardinier

It is John Wills who published the book Albatross, and he has plugged it so many times, I have no idea how the idea got into your head that I am in any way associated with this book.

by jkaras

I merly didnt post his name not to call him out out of respect. I figured all would get it including him. I knew when I posted that thread it would seen as mean. It wasnt my intent, just it was getting a little old seeing his plugs. To be published is a great feat and I'm happy that he had the ability, but it distracts from his opinion when reading his posts. I have been tempted to go to books a million just to see the picture of what he looks like, but that would play into his hands.
P.S. How you feeling mate, better?

by maecuff

I'll have to give blunt objects a fair shake because shame, ridicule and name calling certainly hasn't gotten me anywhere.

by maxwell edison

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If being an asset to the discussion group includes running people off, people who were also assets to the discussion group, and people who once contributed but no longer do because of the flak they received.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes incessantly insulting another's country and countrymen.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes waving his own country's flag as much as he criticizes the flag of another's country.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes stating falsehoods and building arguments based on those falsehoods.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes dominating almost all discussions.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes criticizing others for doing things that he does himself.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes looking for every opportunity to levy an insult against certain targeted members.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes acting like an expert on subjects about which he knows nothing.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes being closed minded while proclaiming to be open minded.....

If being an asset to the discussion group includes being rude and crude, yet feeling justified in being that way.....

.....well, who am I to disagree?

This "New Oz", as you have described, might be compared to a mean drunk who's been "on the wagon" for only a few days. Sure, he might make nice-nice for a day or two while he's sober, but then he falls off the wagon and it's the same-old same-old all over again. The jury is still out, and recovery is a life-long process. So other than what I've already said too much of, I think I'll sit this discussion out.

by maxwell edison

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For what it's worth, the previous message I posted was not intended to start a new feud. To the contrary, I'm going to really sit this one out, regardless of where it goes. But I gotta' call em' like I see em'.

Are things different? Well, I hope so, but time will tell, and I'm certainly willing to give the benefit of the doubt.

by oz_media

Sit this one out by all means.

"Are things different? Well, I hope so, but time will tell, and I'm certainly willing to give the benefit of the doubt."

Benefit of the doubt?

read you last post.

by hal 9000

Maxwell on the very fist time I ever entered a discussion topic you and Road Dog both attacked me remember? It was a discussion about Rouge States and all I asked was "Who Defines a Rouge State?"

I was called every name under the sun from Unamerician {which I still do not know what that means} to God only know what else. You and th eothers on that trread seemed to be all gungho and wanting to do everything to support the current US Government or at least the Presidents then current view.

Now if I was as thin skinned as some I would just have walked away with the idea that everyone at TR is an Obnoxious Yank who tolerates no desent to their beliefs.

This is clearly incorrect but it would have been an easy choice as I certianly didn't need the agro for asking a simple question in an attempt to understand what you all where going on about!

But then again peraps some of you would have been happier if I did.

Col

by oz_media

You are right on all accounts.

I can also say the exact same about you, on all accounts.

So is this now a hypocritical discussion or are you stating that none of your poor examples apply to yourself?

I won't get to far into this as you know I really couldn't give a toss what you think of my character, you proved your inability to rationalize or determine one's character many times, but just to start:

"If being an asset to the discussion group includes incessantly insulting another's country and countrymen....."
YES, but it should read DEFENDING one's country against another's countrymen.

"If being an asset to the discussion group includes waving his own country's flag as much as he criticizes the flag of another's country....."

I don't wave a flag, I couldn't carry them all. I have however stated on MANY occasions I am proud to be Canadian, I am also proud to be British. This isn't flag waving.
America saved Britain, Canada needs America, this is flag waving.

I've said, it is fine to be proud of your country, just don't be telling me that I wish I was in your country, EVERYONE wabts to live in the USA and those who CAN'T are jealous.
Anyone can become an American citizen, I wouldn't be surprised if Osama has recently been given his US citizenship completely unnoticed.

So in closing Max, and I mean CLOSING, practice what you preach, don't throw stones in glass houses and have a great day!

All the best,
OM

by oz_media

Use Oranges in a sock. You can eat the evidence and they leave blunt non-descript injuries.

That aside, as thier mother, you may be still cooking for the hungry and unable to feed themselves (including your hubby), inwhich case poison is nice. You can just watch everyone quietly go to sleep and then watch whatever you choose to on the TV, without the screaming!

NOTE: I'm not implying you are a stay at home mom/homemaker but even women with full time, demanding careers are expected to cater as mothers always have. You may be independant and successful but you're still MOM.

'M'ean 'O'r 'M'asochistic - let the kids choose.

by oz_media

Ok well I think this thread could be laid to rest now.

I appreciate Julain's comments as well as everyone else's [well almost everyone's ;-)]

I think the intent was not to have a suck fest but because Julian wanted some peace to the recent freakouts in the discussions.

Nuff said, thank you all for your kind(?) comments.

at ease.

Oz-somewhat-embarassed-MentalCase

by hal 9000

Was to bake a very nice rich cholate cake and put those little pieces of chockie on the top.

After th ekids have finished it off you ask did you enjoy it?

When they reply yes it was lovely you then say good all the chockie was laxatives so you'll be viviting the toliet for the next few days. It is amasing just what the power of suggestion really does.

Col

by maxwell edison

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Even though I said I would sit out this discussion, your message deserves a reply.

You are absolutely correct about my behavior when you first appeared in these threads (I'll let RoadDog speak for himself.), although I don't think I ever called you un-American. (That just wouldn't make sense.) However, I called you much worse, not only in these threads, but in a couple of flaming emails as well.

That behavior was totally unacceptable, completely unprofessional, and only served to present me, not you, in a negative light. If I failed to do so in the past, I apoligize for my completely unwarranted behavior. And rest assured, I punished myself by writing 100 times on the blackboard (actually it was a whiteboard), "I will never be rude to Colin Luck again. I will never be rude to Colin Luck again. I will never be rude........" You see, back when I was in grammar school, the nuns used to make us do that when we misbehaved. Of course, that was only after they rapped our knuckles with that stupid yard stick a few times. So if I need to be subjected to the second half of my punishment, I will rap my own knuckles with one of those stupid yard sticks. (I must have one around here someplace.)

Those flaming sessions seem like they took place a long time ago, however, and that dirty water has long passed under the bridge, at least I think it has. In the case of our Canadian friend, by contrast, the ashes left over from those flames are still well within sight of the bridge. Given time, perhaps those too will have floated down-stream far enough to become insignificant, as I trust is the case with us.

P.S. As an additional punishment, I'll promise to sing "Waltzing Matilda" all day.

Once a jolly swagman sat beside the billabong,
Under the shade of a coolibah tree,
And he sang as he sat and waited by the billabong
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me

Waltzing matilda, waltzing matilda
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me
And he sang as he sat and waited by the billabong
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me.

Down came a jumbuck to drink beside the billabong
Up jumped the swagman and seized him with glee
And he sang as he tucked jumbuck in his tuckerbag
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me

Waltzing matilda, waltzing matilda
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me
And he sang as he sat and waited by the billabong
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me.

Down came the stockman, riding on his thoroughbred,
Down came the troopers, one, two, three.
"Where's the jolly jumbuck you've got in your tuckerbag?
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me

Waltzing matilda, waltzing matilda
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me
And he sang as he sat and waited by the billabong
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me.

Up jumped the swagman and plunged into the billabong,
"You'll never catch me alive," cried he
And his ghost may be heard as you ride beside the billabong,
You'll come a waltzing matilda with me.

Regards from up over.......

by oz_media

or should I say MOOO?
Definitions;
COWING: Cow \Cow\, v. t. [imp. & p. p. Cowed (koud);; p. pr. & vb. n.
Cowing.] [Cf. Icel. kuga, Sw. kufva to check, subdue, Dan.
kue. Cf. Cuff, v. t.]
To depress with fear; to daunt the spirits or courage of; to
overawe.

COWING:
Entry: truculent
Function: adjective
Definition: belligerent
Synonyms: abusive, aggressive, antagonistic, bad-tempered, barbarous, bellicose, browbeating, brutal, bullying, caustic, combative, contentious, contumelious, cowing, cross, defiant, ferocious, fierce, frightening, harsh, hateful, hostile, inhuman, inhumane, intimidating, invective, mean, militant, mordacious, mordant, obstreperous, opprobrious, ornery, pugnacious, quarrelsome, rude, savage, scathing, scrappy, scurrilous, sharp, sullen, terrifying, terrorizing, trenchant, violent, vituperative, vituperrious

Concept: unkindness

So as for Julian, HOW DARE YOU BE SO UNKIND!!

by oz_media

Max and I are constantly cowing each other, this is the nature of our discussions.

Oneupmanship to sit the other down.

by oz_media

Although Cowtow is a common spelling it is not an actual word. Kowtow would be more apropriate for your implied statement, I think.

Entry: kowtow
Function: verb
Definition: grovel
Synonyms: apple-polish, bootlick, bow, brownnose, cave in, court, cower, cringe, cry uncle, fawn, flatter, fold, genuflect, give in, give up, go social, honey, kneel, knuckle to, knuckle under, pander, play ball, prostrate, say uncle, stoop, toady, truckle
Concept: unsocial action

This obviously has NO relation whatsoever to Cowing, which pretty much means the opposite of Kowtow.

I know this is trivial but if we are on a spelling and grammar binge now, we may as well define things as they were intended to be read.

I'm not taking a shot at the Duck OR Julian, just a moderative position.

Now back to your corners and come out fighting clean.

Ding, Ding

by jardinier

although I still have no idea why you figured that members would immediately assume that you were referring to John.
John Wills is a good natured person, and accepts criticism graciously. Make your comment directly to John next time he plugs his book in a discussion. Very likely he will take the hint and stop plugging it.

And thanks for your concern for my health. I am actually feeling marvellous, although low in physical stamina, which I am assured will get back to normal in due course.

What I am suffering from is a tired back. Sitting up in a hospital bed, propped up with pillows in order to use my laptop, is such an uncomfortable and unnatural position that it has really annoyed my back. I was required to sit up in the bed and keep my legs horizontal as part of the process of releasing the build-up of fluid in my body.

by guruofdos

...and almost dies laughing!

Aw Col, man! What a typo! I think you meant ROGUE states and not ROUGE states! Rouge, from the French word for 'red', is applied to the female physiognomy to add a nice pinky flush to the cheeks! Now don't think for one minute that I'm anti-gay (some of my closest friends are, and I shared a house with one once!) but the concept of a 'Rouge State' conjoured up a wonderful picture in my mind of State Secret Police sqads mincing about in high heels and make-up and making limp-wristed salutes to a dictator wearing something by Yves St. Laurent in a delicate shade of pink!!!

And for the gay community out there...an IT related nugget of trivia.

IMSI, a software company famed for cack family software and naff utilities, have one great product called TurboCAD. I think they are on version 6 or 7 now, but I had the first Windows release, V3.0. It does pretty much most things that Autocad can do but simpler and cheaper and is far, far easier to use for beginners. Anyway, Version 1 and 2 were both DOS based and were originally produced by a software company called 'Pink Software', which was owned and staffed by a group of 'queens' based, I believe, here in the UK!!!

I still fire up V1 sometimes...I can produce drawings in the original DOS TurboCAD 3D programme (which came on two 1.2Mb 5.25" floppies and had a two-inch thick printed manual!) using command line instructions on a 286-12MHz in about a third of the time I can using any Windows based version from 3.0 onwards with a mouse.

More proof that 'newer' isn't always 'better'. Of course there is a flip side...the DOS version takes forever to print with only 640kb of RAM and no clever print driver...it just sends raw PCL data to the printer(I usually import the finished drawing into 3.0 for Windows which supports the V1 DOS files)!

by jardinier

"Don't imply my meaning i never imply yours."

You might care to consult your dictionary and compare the meaning of the two words "infer" and "imply."

After which I think we can stop this silly nit-picking nonsense.

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