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So, was this supposed to be funny and I'm just missing it? Or is it just funny, because it wasn't meant to be?

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One of your fellow TechRepublic members has sent you a private message:

From: jgeverett@...
Subject: Violent image
Message:
I am curious, no, disturbed, by the violence in your animation. Why did you feel this was the way you wanted to present yourself to the world? Even if you meant it as a joke, humor comes from somewhere. Is this really how you want people to see you?

Not that I am saying "don't do it". I am just sharing that I did not care for it. And it did not impress me with an image of professionalism, empathy, maturity, mental balance, or an ability to objectively solve and kind of user-related issue.

Advice from a former technology recruiter - don't include this with your resume, or where any prospective employers may see it.

Sincerely,

Jim

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by cactus pete

I recommend to you a great movie: Office Space.

Most techies know about it, and you might be more in tune with them when you've seen it.

by cactus pete

Since some people seem capable of taking great offense to my avatar I'll put it to a vote (albeit a weighted vote):

Should I change the avatar or leave it as it is?

typo

by jdclyde

If it makes you laugh, go with it.

This is NOT on your resume, and you are not getting graded based on your avitar.

That little number next to your name says more about you as a member than your avitar ever will.

Be yourself. Keep it. Don't hide because someone else doesn't have a sence of humor.

This isn't the same guy that peered you about your limp wrist style of hitting is it? :D

by cactus pete

And no, it isn't...

But I've come up with an alternative, just in case. I'm willing to change - I'm not so stubborn (honest) that I can't "fit in" a little if necessary.

I realize that some people are going dislike anything - I just don't want to be too far on the edge of that bell curve.

by maecuff

I like it. It's funny. I think that perhaps a stick needs to be removed from someone's oriface.

by jamesrl

Of course, what does one man's opinion matter....

It might be different if a) you were job hunting and b) the avatar was on the same website as your resume.

My whole staff loves Office space and i even don't mind that they think I look like the Stephen Root charecter (on my bad days).

James
James

by cactus pete

It never hurts to be prompted to think about yourself. Jim did that. I honestly couldn't tell how serious he was, so I availed myself of my peers' thoughts.

Thanks again.

by jamesrl

Of course, what does one man's opinion matter....

It might be different if a) you were job hunting and b) the avatar was on the same website as your resume.

My whole staff loves Office space and i even don't mind that they think I look like the Stephen Root charecter (on my bad days).

James
James

by jmgarvin

Keep it. This isn't a resume and this isn't some kind of recruiting tool (if it is a recruiting tool, may god have mercy on us all).

Honestly, I think it is friggin' hilarious! I love Office Space and I have a "Work Sucks" sign on my desk.

Now I need to go dig up Homer with the quote: "Trying is the first step towards failure."

by onbliss

...you can say anything to a developer (who has seen Office Space) and get away with it. Each time I see your avatar, I :-)

Vote: Leave it.

by zlitocook

Freedom of how we do things is slowly being removed. If I dont like some thing I dont look at it.

by charliespencer

I'm sure the message is intended seriously. I find your avatar to be annoying myself. There are others here I dislike even more, but it doesn't matter what I think. It's your avatar, not mine. If creates the first impression you want it to, that's all that counts.

For the record, I wouldn't have sent a private message on this topic. Also for the record, I'm abstaining in this election.

by tig2

I don't know that I would chose that particular avatar. But then, your avatar is supposed to be reflective of who YOU are, not who I am.

Frankly, I am jealous of anyone using an avatar that is not from the selectable group that TR makes available. The one I use is not reflecitve of me, just one of my traits- I drink a LOT of coffee (can you tell?). But I don't have a webspace to designate and I can't just upload a jpeg file so I use what I have and get happy with it. And to be honest, if my avatar was what I wanted it to be- at least for now, I would likely tick a few people off too. And no, I probably wouldn't use it on a resume.

The bottom line is that I think that there are as many opinions on how you should do what you do as there are people on the planet. What I value in your avatar is that you have a sense of humour and are willilng to share that side of yourself with the rest of us.

Edited because I failed to proofread- even knowing this keyboard has it in for me!

by cactus pete

Thanks.

I'm getting a general feel that even people who don't care for it, don't particularly care about it.

by jellimonsta

You can create a small jpeg and upload it to photobucket where you can create a 'free' account. :D
Thats what I did! Hey, I am 'thrify' not cheap! :p

by tig2

Thanks Jelli!!! Now I can visually annoy...

Seriously, that site will be a great resource for communicating photos with my team. Perfect!:x

I hate this keyboard...

by mickster269

Is the one belonging to the Great Powers That Be who moderate these boards.

If the people at TR don't have a problem with it, then it doesn't matter.

by ontheropes

I saw your Avatar in another discussion earlier. I?m personally not bothered by it at all but what the Hell do I know? Have you seen my Avatar?
It was nice to see that Jim was concerned enough to send his free professional advice. Perhaps you should thank him for his guidance and direction, offer profuse apologies and seek his opinion on choosing another, more PC, Avatar. It may mean the difference between having a job and becoming homeless. Good God man... think of the consequences!!

You?re not one of those people that have an unprofessional saying like ?Are we having fun yet? on their coffee mug too are you?

by ontheropes

in a northwesterly direction from Dexter, MI lower peninsula. Hell is rarely affected by hordes of mosquitoes, deer flies and no-see-ums so all y'all yoopers would have too much free time for your hands, eh.

The road to Hell is, I believe, Darwin! Coincidence?

edit east/west duh

by ontheropes

your mug may suggest an STD or possible bio-toxin molecule. That could offend the molecularly challenged. I'd reconsider but hey... it's not my job in jeopardy.

by maxwell edison

My avatar says, you can't fly like an eagle when you're cooped up with a bunch of turkeys.

Your avatar says, when you're cooped up with a bunch of turkeys, beat them to a pulp and have them for dinner.

Wanna' trade?

Try sneaking up behind them, and hit them over the virtual head with a silver hammer -- much more subtle.

by cactus pete

I haven't seen your avatar working for a while...

Keep your hammer - I wouldn't dare steal your thunder.

To bastardize some phrases - "That's impossible. Instead, only try to realize the truth ... There is no paper jam."

by maxwell edison

I just noticed it today. It's because the Web site I "borrowed" it from (and was linked to) was taken down. I have to find a new eagle.

by jdmercha

I would guess that they are not aware of the icon's origin.

But then they are correct "don't include this with your resume, or where any prospective employers may see it."

by jellimonsta

Keep it!
Pay no mind to the haters. Don't let them be dissin' on you!... Or something to that regard! :D

by Member 25348569

Leave it alone or there'll be [b]trouble[/b]1

:D

Interesting post, though.

"professionalism, empathy, maturity, mental balance, or an ability to objectively solve and (sic) kind of user-related issue" All grossly over-rated attributes in my opinion.

Then he gets a tad patronising.

By the way, you [b]haven't[/b] got this on your resume? You haven't? Oh, good...

by ontheropes

to my email address after I respond to peermail from you, then give me about fifteen minutes and I'll send you the link.

by ontheropes

at PC Jim -The former Recruiter.
I remember seeing a line of silk ties that have molecules for different STD's and other things imprinted on them that only mean something to those "in the know". The same kind of stuff like, "There are 10 types of people. Those who understand binary and those who don't."

by Member 25348569

What STD stands for in your post coz I can't imagine any of these on ties...

STD Doctor(ate) of Sacred Theology (degree)
STD Sexually Transmitted Disease
STD Standard
STD Stunde (German: Hour)
STD Safely Tolerated Dose
STD Salinity Temperature Depth
STD Santo Domingo, Venezuela - Mayor Humberto Vivas Guerrero (Airport Code)
STD S?o Tome and Principe Dobra (ISO currency code)
STD Saturation Transfer Difference
STD Saves the Day (band)
STD Scheduled Time of Departure
STD Science and Technology Division
STD Screw the Dealer (Euchre card game house rule)
STD Second To Die (life insurance)
STD Security Tools Distribution (Knoppix)
STD Selective Transmit Diversity
STD Set Direction Flag
STD Severe Tire Damage (band)
STD Short Term Disability
STD Sigma Tau Delta (Sorority and English Honors Society)
STD Simplified Trellis Decoder
STD Single-Trial Decoding
STD Singly-Testable Dependent
STD Small Target Detection
STD Socially-Transmitted Disease
STD Society for Theological Discussion
STD Software Test Description
STD Software Test Document
STD Solar Terrestrial Dispatch
STD South Tibetan Detachment
STD Spanish Training Division
STD Spatial-Temporal Detector
STD Spyro the Dragon (game)
STD Standard Offline Test Driver
STD Standard Trunk Dialing
STD Standing
STD Star Destroyer (Star Wars)
STD State Transition Diagram
STD Steady
STD Step Transaction Doctrine
STD Steward
STD Stick the Dealer (euchre)
STD Storage Technology Division
STD Stud Book
STD Student Technical Director
STD Stunden (German: Hours)
STD Subscriber Trunk Dialing
STD Subscriber Trunk Dialling
STD Swimmer Transportation Device
STD System Technology Demonstrator
STD System Test Directive
STD Systems Target Decoder (MPEG systems)

by tig2

Something I have pointed out in the past...

If you hit your co-worker in the face with your fist, that's workplace violence. Disgusting.

If you hit your co-worker in the face with an office supply, such as a paper shredder, spindle, computer keyboard, etc, that is an accident. :)

Very important distinction...

by tig2

I should think not as the co-worker is then attacking you... no, wait. That IS workplace violence but you are not the perpetrator, you are the victim. Your co-worker is the perpetrator for attacking your fist with his/her face.

Disgusting.

Should have used an office supply.

by jmgarvin

I've got a few resumes to fire off, I think I'll "borrow" your image and attach it with my resumes.

I think potential employers should know they are getting a non-professional, non-empathatic, immature, unbalanced mind, and poor problem solver. It seems like it's only fair....

I wonder what jgeverett thinks of Yoda. Perhaps I'm short, green, and smell like a swamp?

by ontheropes

...you'll blow my cover.
Ya' hit a nerve too.

The neverbusted thing got to be a PITA 'cuz some TR peers seemed (to me) to assume I've successfully hidden criminal activity or sumthin' else unsavory.

To me: neverbusted = bent, folded, mutilated, spindled, beaten, shot at and been missed, S*** at and been hit, stomped, tromped, jumped, thumped and dumped BUT still in one, relatively complete, almost-sane, piece.

I done felt pre-judged, kind of like my wearing a black leather jacket and colors, (no tie), to church.
When I wore my leather with patch, into my job as Deputy Dog my law officer peers didn't seem to care. Must be the different crowds I hang with.

I changed the alias to something stoooopid-er so's not to offend.

Sensitive (overly) dude ain't I? Mebbe I'll change it back. Dunno.

by tig2

Who cares what other people here think of you? Certainly you shouldn't.

I, for one read "Neverbusted" as "Smarter Than You". An apt and fitting ID.

Don't bother with idiots. They are simply God's way of saying "OOOPS!"

by ontheropes

You had to go ahead and make sense to me didn't you? Not about being "smarter than you" though. Still, my being something approaching human I do care what (most) people here think though. Color me warped in some fashion I can't quite grasp.

by jaqui

try the gods are saying [b]clean up the gene pool[/b] with the idiots. ]:)

by av .

I think you have one of the best on TR. Please don't change it! Jim is taking it way too serious. I think he should just not look if he's so disturbed.

Its a stress reliever for me everytime I see it. :D

by mjwx

It's funny, shows you have a sense of humour.

Personally I don?t care what some anally retentive hypersensitive "recruiter" has to say. In fact I would probably send him back something worse just because he had annoyed me (Peer mail, If it was a public discussion I probably wouldn?t be such an arseh0le).

My coffee mug
http://tinyurl.com/d4fr2

by jdclyde

I like the mug shot! Just may have to look into getting myself one for my birthday! B-)

by mjd420nova

It is far better to keep everyone guessing as
to how big a fool you are until you open your
mouth and remove all doubt. Consider the
source and remember. OPINIONS and A$$HOLES
are one and the same. Everyone has one and
your job is to determine which one they are
exercising. ENOUGH ALREADY

by Member 25348569

I was tring to picture a tie with, say, a pen:s with a syphillitic sore as I'd obviously gone into stupid mode.

The [b]organisms![/b] D'oh.

by charliespencer

We lived there for a couple of years in the late 60's. In only two years I learned to never live where the weatherman uses the words "Lake Effect"; where the highway department regularly purchases road salt; or where snow shovels are sold as anything except a novelty item.

by gadgetgirl

(I am so tempted to say keep it because you punch like me - a girl! - as in the last thread about this!!!)

It's funny and it suits your sense of humour; it's not one of the usual ones, and personally I LIKE IT!!

I have been sorely tempted to put a new avatar up for myself, but can't decide which camera to use to photograph the vibrator ..... ;)

]:)

GG

by tig2

I understand completely that you would want to not alienate people. But I can't validate not being who you are.

My experience of you is positive, I am sure that my experience is shared. For those who are of a different opinion, well- I respect an individual's right to an opinion but I don't have to agree with it. I am reasonably certain that my ID annoys some. Let's face it- Tigger is a cartoon. I'm not. For any that wish to see me as a cartoon, that is their prerogative. But most chose to view me based on what they can see in what I write.

I, for one, like you better as yourself.

P.S. LOVE the avatar!

by ontheropes

The whole thing probably stems from my real life appearance. I've often been told that I have a very intimidating look about me so I tend to go out of my way to appear non-threatening, most of the time.
I'll throw on my scowl when I'm in a rush and want to be first in line at a crowded restaurant or something. It's one of the personality defects I have.

by jellimonsta

Even those that really know me as a person have no idea why I choose the alias of Jellimonsta! :)
I guess the latest avatar is representative of me though. Well, it was until I shaved! ?:| :|

by oz_media

I almost wish I had sent it, that's FUNNY!

Yes I have seen som epretty sad peer mails come my way too. How violent by personality is, how I should seek help for my agression andpent up anger etc. I suppose people don't see me giggling or laughing with a friend through a lot of my posts.

Always seems to be a backyarder though, someone justhinding away and secretly reading posts without reply. I wonder if they actually plan such an email for months and get a rush when they send it out. "I DID it!! I spoke out for myself!!!" LOL :-)

Either that or they've never watched the movie before.

by unique_masha2000

This will sound interesting.
When I animated the man walking. I only meant for him to swing from side to side, that is balance without falling. The falling you can say he did by himself, that is it's a Maya bug something with the way the figure stabilised (kinematiks?) in animation i don't know. But it's a cool special effect. I don't realise it as violent, or scaring people to death. Because the man survives. And you can call it artificial intelligence if you will

by think180

Quite a learning experience for me today. I revisited this
old post and was stunned with the volume of responses.

And for the record...
I am a great fan of Office Space (even before it was a cult
hit). For me, the unscrewing of the cube walls by Ron
Livingstone was therapeutic.

But...
I had not connected Cactus Pete's avatar clip with the
copier destruction scene (which also is a fave of mine).

Just to remind myself, I went onto YouTube and checked it
out, and saw the clip in question.

So...
I realize I misinterpreted the feeling behind the avatar
choice and CP's intent. Given that, I can see how my
comments came across as a bit heavy and obsessive. If I
had I made the Office Space connection, I would not have
jumped to the conclusion I did.

Since this is really a peer forum, rather than a broader
public space, the risks of misinterpretation are more
limited.

For what it's worth, my revised thoughts now are that
using that clip in a closed forum like Tech Republic WAS
funny, and probably has real cathartic value.

by tig2

Not many would return to the "scene of the crime" over a year later and apologise. I credit you sir and wish there were more like you- able to reconsider and communicate your change in thinking. And more importantly, to offer an apology.

We are proud to call you a peer.

But you really must visit more often!

by think180

TiggerTwo - thanks for that. It made my day. I am glad I did
revisit the thread and see the chain of events.

by absolutely

But, I'm glad it did. It was an interesting conversation to read. Now, do you think you can talk Pete into replacing his avatar? I loved that little animation!

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