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My Dad sent this to me and I don't really care if Paul Harvey actually said it or not. I agree:
Paul Harvey says:

I don't believe in Santa Claus, but I'm not going to sue somebody for singing a Ho-Ho-Ho song in December. I don't agree with Darwin, but I didn't go out and hire a lawyer when my high school teacher taught his theory of evolution.

Life, liberty or your pursuit of happiness will not be endangered because someone says a 30-second prayer before a football game.

So what's the big deal? It's not like somebody is up there reading the entire book of Acts. They're just talking to a God they believe in and asking him to grant safety to the players on the field and the fans going home from the game.

"But it's a Christian prayer," some will argue.

Yes, and this is the United States of America, a country founded on Christian principles. According to our very own phone book, Christian churches outnumber all others better than 200-to-1. So what would you expect-somebody chanting Hare Krishna?

If I went to a football game in Jerusalem, I would expect to hear a Jewish prayer.

If I went to a soccer game in Baghdad, I would expect to hear a Muslim prayer.

If I went to a ping pong match in China, I would expect to hear someone pray to Buddha.

And I wouldn't be offended. It wouldn't bother me one bit. When in Rome...

"But what about the atheists?" is another argument.

What about them? Nobody is asking them to be baptized. We're not going to pass the collection plate. Just humor us for 30 seconds. If that's asking too much, bring a Walkman or a pair of ear plugs. Go to the bathroom. Visit the concession stand. Call your lawyer!

Unfortunately, one or two will make that call. One or two will tell thousands what they can and cannot do. I don't think a short prayer at a football game is going to shake the world's foundations.

Christians are just sick and tired of turning the other cheek while our courts strip us of all our rights. Our parents and grandparents taught us to pray before eating; to pray before we go to sleep.

Our Bible tells us to pray without ceasing. Now a handful of people and their lawyers are telling us to cease praying.

God, help us. And if that last sentence offends you, well . just sue me.

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by Member 25348569

Why would anyone want to say a prayer before a football game? Pray for what? A fair referee? Good weather? How absolutely trivial. Freedom from injured players? Better. The safety of the troops in Iraq? An end to violence? Much more worthwhile but I presume you're already doing that in church.

What [b]do[/b] you want to pray for? Sample prayer, please, so that I can see whether I'd be upset.

We don't get prayers before football games in the UK - nominally another Christian country - because I don't think more than a handful would consider that God has really got anything to do with it. I would suspect that you'll not hear prayers before football in many - if any - other countries either. Certainly not Italy, France or Spain as I've been to matches there and not Brazil or Portugal as I've watched live televised matches. So, the Catholics are quite happy to "Render unto Caesar the things which are Caesar?s, and unto God the things that are God?s." Is God a footie fan? I would also reckon that you won't hear prayers in any Isalmic countries as their prayers are much more personal - but, here, I'm guessing.

I suppose that if you believe that the sheer numbers of people - believers or not - who have no option but to listen in some way amplifies the effectiveness of your prayers then I can see your reasoning for wanting to do it - but it's a pretty strange god that you believe in under those circumstances.

Why do you all have this idea that God - if suitably coerced - will interfere in the minutiae of your lives? He's certainly demonstrated how notice He took of the prayers prior to Hurricane Katrina.

Do you [b]really[/b] think that God answers your prayers and actually [b]does[/b] physically intervene in your life? Again, I'd be interested in any examples.

just asking.

Neil :)

by protiusx

Firstly, let me apologize for taking so long to reply. I think the point is not why one would want to pray at a sporting event but if the community chooses to pray they should have a right to do so.

Additionally, I don?t think what people choose to pray for is relevant. Each person asks God for what?s on their hearts. Is it mature to ask God to make your team win? Probably not. Does it offend God? Well, I am not going to try and determine what God is or isn?t offended by but I think he doesn?t mind when people pray to HIM (yes I said HIM) and ask for silly things. Do we become angry when our children ask us for silly things? No. We smile and think ?How cute is that?? I think God is much like that.

I believe God does answer prayer but sometimes he says no. Just like a good parent he knows what?s right for us. How can we as humans even question the will of a God who created everything, is all powerful and all knowing?

by old guy

I know that a lot of people can't see, or understand, the scenario you have about God thinking> "how cute is that?" when we ask for silly things, but I agree with you on this. And, I'm thankful we do have a Father like that.

I also really agree with your statement below, "To allow prayer is not sponsorship but preventing prayer is censorship. " I think that most of us don't want to push religion on anyone who doesn't want it but we do get tired of some people trying to censor or stop others from practicing their beliefs.

by jdclyde

Just to have our kids/friends/family or whoever is playing the game to recieve no PERMANATE injuries and come out of the experience a better person.

Is that really a bad thing? Call it group wishful thinking if you will.

I would NEVER turn down a prayer/well wish for my boys in anything they do, whether i believe in that religion/luck charm/totem pole/rain dance. I wouldn't join in with any I didn't believe in, but I wouldn't stop it either, provided it doesn't require the severing of chicken heads and dancing in the blood or something.

I know, not the grand testament to religion your looking for, but this is what it means to ME and that is all I can answer for.

by Member 25348569

Which is [b]why[/b] this extremely public display of, somehow slightly irreverent, prayer is something that only seems to be an issue the USA. It comes over as very alien to me and to everyone that I've spoken to. I talked to as many people of differing religions as I could - and that's a few just in this office.

The thing that struck everyone as strange was not that you pray but that you want - demand - visible public evidence that it is being done even if only for a couple of minute. As if, in some way, you exert your authority and nail the USA as a Christian country with no argument.

I, personally, also find it interesting that others are so vehemently opposed to it because of their religion - your Sacred Constitution.

by jdclyde

green face and all, I would expect this of you! :D

I will write VERY slowly so you can understand.... ;\

Christians will pray at ALL major aspects of their lives, so this is nothing new or surprising. Do you really get surprised when the Pope comes to the window that the thousands outside are really there just waiting for him to come out? (I know, the answer is "yes".)

It isn't about making a show for anyone else. Many say "their prayers" before every meal, when they go to bed at night, at church, and all major events in their lives. These activites that affect the health and lives of our kids is a major event.

This is not for your benifit that this is done, and it is NOT a recent thing done just to annoy the ANTI-Christians that have floated to the surface of the sewer the world has become like the pieces of sh1t they are.

And yes, you should know by now that I hold NON-Christians and ANTI-Christians in a VERY different light.

For anyone not in the US, they have but to read the Constitution for themselves to see what is there, NOT taking the word of a few ANTI-Christians what the constitution says. It VERY clearly states that the government CANNOT interfere in any way the free exercise of religion. It ONLY states that there will not be a "STATE RELIGION" that people are FORCED to observe. YOU are free to worship or NOT worship as you see fit. You are NOT free to interfere with anyone elses RIGHT to practice whatever religion they choose, anytime they choose.

I actually posted several good links on this topic so support all of this back in my "You do not have a right to not be offended" post just before Christmas that breaks this down.

Because you do not have this clause as a founding part of your country, I understand why you as well as our Candian neighbors don't understand this. Fortunately this is not something that DOES require global approval, but I am always willing (like I have here and my other discussion) try to help anyone else UNDERSTAND it if they are really looking to understand instead of just sitting back and critisising.

Make a point that is backed up with OUR laws to justify or back up your point on the behavior in the US and there can be a discussion on if this is legal or not.

Other than that, it is just people on the outside offering their OPINIONS on what they think/feel about something that doesn't affect them, based on nothing more than what they have heard.

And the people that "vehemently" oppose this are mostly uneducated in government OR intentionally seek to deceive others hoping that the others that are uneducated about government will blindly follow a few lies in the form of bullet points.

As it stands, this is all legal and nothing new.

by jamesrl

Up front I will say I don't care if you wanna pray in front of a football game.

And I am a Christian. We pray when we see an ambulance or a police car with sirens on. We pray before meals. We pray when whenever.

But the distinction I make is this. When its a private organization - like a pro team or a non-school team, pray away - you have the right to make that call.

When its a government funded team, or event, well it isn't right that the government single out one religion for inclusion to the exclusion of the rest. Because the government is by the people - all of the people, not the majority of the people.

And Merry Christmas, thats just fine its a greeting, but a prayer is more intimate and can exclude. Heck some Christian denominations I have been exposed to refuse to use the word Lord in prayer(they also expunge King from the hymnal).

No one is saying, that you can't have a private quiet time to do whatever you want to do. If you want to make a personal silent prayer to the god of your choice, no one can or should stop you. But if I were Jewish or Budhhist or whatever, I'd feel uncomfortable if the price of participation on a school team, which my family's tax dollars paid for, was to be asked to pray to someone else's god.

Sure, I wouldn't sue. I would stand silently and respectfully, as I have done when I attended a synagogue for a funeral.

But why do we feel the need to presume we have the right to ignore the feelings of others, just because we are the majority. Thats not what I take out of the Golden rule, which Jesus said was the highest rule.

James

by jdclyde

so you are saying it is alright to ignore the feelings of the majority in FAVOR of ignoring the feelings of the minority?

Government is for all, and so the majority does NOT have to be silenced and insulted to keep from insulting this minority.

While government isn't here to sanction a state religion, they are to in no way interfere with the free practice of religion in any setting.

I have already covered in the Constitution and the bill of rights, was well as the Jefferson papers that show the real involvment of government in religion. Everyone is free to practice any religion when and where they wish, NOT to Enforce that there never be a public display of religion.

You will find many call for a moment a silence so each can do a private prayer or whatever they believe in.

Freedom to practice or not practice religion IS a founding principle of the United States of America, even if that isn't a founding principle in Canada. We DO have protections HERE that you don't have there written right into our founding documents and until there is a constitutional ammendment to change this, we will continue to keep these protections.

Oh yeah, in the USA, it isn't "Tyranny of the majority", it is called a "Represenative Republic" where the people make rules based on a vote of the population. That is how you determine the rules, and the only thing to STOP the majority from making ANY rule it wants is the Constitutional test. Any law that violates our Constitution is declaired unconstitutional and stricken down. Or Constitution DOES protect the freedom OF religion and the RIGHT to express and practice that religion.

by jamesrl

We do have a constitution (suprise suprise) and before that we had the British North America Act and both enshrine freedom of religion.

Public displays are one thing. Like I said, if a pro ball team (a private enterprise) or a church or the boy scouts or whoever want to pray at a public event, fill your boots, I will pray too.

Surely the Bill of Rights is designed to protect the rights of everyone, not just the majority? Isn't that why the constitution (yours and mine) is so difficult to amend, requiring more than just a simple majority (50% +1).

To me religion is between you and your maker, and the government, as the government of all people has no role in it. But of course, you live in a different country.

You may be unaware that Britain's Monarch is also part of the Church of England/Anglican Church. You cannot at this time have a non CoE/Anglican as British Monarch, so they have some experience with state sponsored churches - the Anglican church was founded by Henry VIII.

Obviously the Supreme court disagrees with at least some of your intrepretation - didn't they rule on the Ten Commandments on the courthouse issue?

Your constitution and ours protects the rights of religion and the right to express and practise that religion to the citizens. The government is the issue we agree to disagree on.

James

by absolutely

As a vehement atheist I thank you for emphasizing that you understand that your right to practice the religion of your choice does not extend to determining your neighbors' choice of religion.

Now I shall have to revise my hypothesis that religion and integrity are mutually exclusive. ;)

by protiusx

Jesus said that the greatest commandment was to love the Lord God with all your heart mind and soul. The second greatest commandment is to love your neighbor as you love yourself. So what does praying at a sporting event have to do with the tyranny of the majority?

What I am saying is that communities (groups of people) who are of a similar religious belief should not be prevented from praying in a way that is comforting to them. Say for instance there is a basketball game in a community in New York that is 99% Catholic. If that community wants to proceed their basketball game with a prayer it is their right to do so. I am not a Catholic and do not believe in the divinity of the Virgin Mary but do I find their prayer offensive? Nope sure don't. This is about tolerance which seems to apply to non-religious people and their activities.

by Member 25348569

I still believe that the majority of people at any sporting match do not really require prayers before the match. They just want to watch the match.

You want to pray? Well, I say, pray to God on your own. That way, you get to pray and I don't have to listen. God obviously hears whether you pray en masse or not. If you want to pray in a big gathering, go to church or a prayer meeting and then there's no problem - you're there to pray. My objection is with the quite unnecessary public display of your spirituality. You force on me the necessity - because I'm really quite nice - to cease my pre-match activity and remain quiet while you indulge yourself. You destroy a little bit of my anticipation.

It's nothing but a power trip.

Can I come along with some of the Toon Army and have a couple of minutes singing "Who ate all the pies?" during one of your prayer meetings? Well, that would destroy the mood, too, wouldn't it? It would be totally ouit of place.

Tolerance is such an interesting concept. It means so many different things to different people.

As I've said repeatedly, the Catholic example really isn't a good one. They wouldn't dare have a pre-match prayer in the Stadio delle Aquile (Lazio) - there would be a riot! They take their football seriously in Roma! I know - I've been there and it's only a stone's throw from the Vatican. Trust me, the fans are there to watch the match. Period.

Neil

by cactus pete

According to snopes.com, that is not a Paul Harvey rant.

Second, the government sponsored event of a football game is bound by the full context of the 1st amendment - it shall neither promote nor discourage any religion.

Clearly, it is promoting (a) religion if the government sponsors a prayer. However, any fan may pray on their own. I certainly support that.

In fact, if someone starts praying aloud in the stands, and others join in, I see no legal issue. (as long as the fan isn't employed by the government)

And I'll take issue with a few points:

"If I went to a football game in Jerusalem, I would expect to hear a Jewish prayer.

If I went to a soccer game in Baghdad, I would expect to hear a Muslim prayer.

If I went to a ping pong match in China, I would expect to hear someone pray to Buddha."

Why would one "expect" to hear them? Should all governments be aligned with a particular religion? And just how many Chinese are Buddhists? I thought most were into Taoism (if allowed anything).

""But what about the atheists?" is another argument.

What about them? Nobody is asking them to be baptized. We're not going to pass the collection plate. Just humor us for 30 seconds. If that's asking too much, bring a Walkman or a pair of ear plugs. Go to the bathroom. Visit the concession stand. Call your lawyer!"

That's just the point. No person, whether in the minority or majority, should feel uncomfortable in a government sponsored activity because of religion. "Just humour us, pray on your own." And no person should have to physically leave, or otherwise "tune-out" during your prayers.

"Unfortunately, one or two will make that call."

Fortuneately, some people still feel it necessary to uphold the constitution. These people protect the Life, Liberty, and Happiness for us all.

"Christians are just sick and tired of turning the other cheek..."

Then that doesn't sound good for the Christians. They aren't following the teachings!

"Our Bible tells us to pray without ceasing."

So don't cease. Pray on your own without having to get the government involved. No one is stopping you but yourselves.

"Now a handful of people and their lawyers are telling us to cease praying. "

That's not true - they are telling the government to stop sponsoring it. There is a big difference, and you are being disingenuous to suggest otherwise.

by protiusx

To allow prayer is not sponsorship but preventing prayer is censorship. The constitution is clear in that the congress shall make NO law regarding the establishment of religion OR PROHIBITING the free exercise thereof.

by swk14

no one is stopping you from praying on your time. Prayer can be done while your sitting at your seat and the referee is tossing the coin.

by cactus pete

At a High School football game, when the prayers are led over the loud speaker, that's government sponsored prayer. If someone at a government function, who works for the government, leads or gives the microphone to another person - that's the government leading prayers.

If a normal civilian in the stands starts praying, that's not government sponsored. Neither is that act prohibitted in any form.

Therefore, the government is not preventing people from praying. They are simply keeping out of it.

Your right to prayer is upheld. Others' rights are as well.

What is the problem?

by nz_justice

In Jerusalem, I think the prayer is said before a suicide attack, not a football game.

In Baghdad I'd expect to here bombs. Muslims have compulsory prayers anyway. 3 times a day I think.

And In China You pray what and when the guv tell you to pray.

by protiusx

Have you ever been to Jerusalem? Do you know any Jews? Do you know any Muslims? I am in Baghdad and I interact with the Iraqi?s all the time. By the way the Muslims pray five times a day.
Do you know any Chinese people? Not Chinese Americans I mean a person from China? One of Communisms tenets is a state imposed atheism where certain religions are tolerated in order to preserve the Chinese identity but participants in non-state sponsored organized religions are imprisoned, beaten and murdered.
I suggest that in the future you should think about what you write before you write it.

by jamesrl

I can confirm the policies of China. Though it isn't well advertised, they still persecute Falun Gong members. One Canadian (who came to Canada from China and became a Canadian citizen) went there and was locked up on evidence she was a Falun Gong member. This is considered treasonous and can lead to execution. Falun Gong is a not even a "religion" per se, just a movement that promotes peace, exercise and justice.

I've worked many places where Jews, Muslims, Christians, Hindus and Buddhists work harmoniously together. Tolerance and respect are all it takes.

James

by Member 25348569

The legality doesn't interst me at all. Not one iota. I merely brought up the "Constitution" angle as from a distant vantage point such as mine, it looks like a religious war.

OK. Gloves off.

What does interest me is that you, Christians, feel that when a large number of people are gathered together for a purpose [b]totally[/b] separate from religion, you feel that you have the right to force your religion upon all of them without even assessing if you're in the majority! That's what it is, you know, forcing them - Muslims, atheists, Buddhists, Hindu, Catholics, even, and all less comitted Christians - to pause in their anticipation of the game, their conversations, drinking their cola and eating their hotdogs - damnit, their lives - to allow you to indulge yourselves for a couple of minutes in something [b]totally[/b], in their eyes and those of any impartial observer, irrelevant to the game.

I seek an understanding as to what you believe gives you the right? Not in "Constitutional" terms but just in the small day-to-day morality of common existence. In my opininion, nothing does, that's what.

You can pray [b]any[/b] and [b]every[/b] other time. Why does your religion require this open display of piety? I would conjecture that it's simply to put the thumb firmly and publicly on the neck of anyone who is not of your creed and cement your self-perceived position as the State Religion.

by old guy

Nothing is totally separate from my Christianity. I think (at least from what I have gathered) that most other religions, African, Muslim, etc. everything centers around their spiritual beliefs. Every aspect of their life stems from their spiritual beliefs. That may not be the case for a lot of Christians, which can prejudice others outlook for the whole lot. But it is for a lot of us.

And, except for their own personal respect of others I don't think any really has to stop eating their hotdogs or whatever they are doing. It is very appreciated that the majority would be silent during this time but if they don't want to they don't have to. However, I don't think that would give them the right to maliciously try to be raucous at that time.

by Member 25348569

and I've said this in every post on the subject, do not have prayers before football matches and I've not heard that it's being sought in any of the Catholic nations, for instance. I've still not had a good explanation why the American State Church wishes to do it.

Nothing may be totally separate from your religion but there are things that are for a significant number of your citizens - perhaps even a majority - and football is likely to be one of them. Has anybodey ever had a plebicite on the public involvement of religion in non-religious affairs? It would be a very easy way to settle the argument.

By the way, we don't even have the National Anthem before or after any but International matches so prayers are absolutely a non-starter here. Thank God!

by jamesrl

I remember well when the Lord's Prayer was said in schools, and when it dissappeared.

The first few years, we had a quiet time where we (the school) had an enforced silence. If at that time, you wanted to pray - go ahead. Pray to whoever or whatever you please. If you don't want to pray, meditate or whatever.

Then we did the national anthem.

I don't appreciate Canadians talking during the American anthem or vice versa at sporting occasions(I have seen both). Golden rule - treat others as you would like to be treated. Silence is not too much to ask.

James

by absolutely

To be raucous is part & parcel of a football game. It isn't malicious (at least not toward any religion), it's just the nature of sport, and that one more than golf or cricket, to be raucous. If you don't like it, you're watching the wrong sport, in the wrong stadium, at the wrong time.

The establishment clause of the First Amendment prohibits any government support of religion. That means, among other things, that no branch of government may use its resources to sanction prayer. [b]Regimented[/b] prayer in public schools is illegal, but parents are free to teach their kids to pray at lunch, during recess, or even instead of paying attention to social studies, provided they do so silently and in their seats.

by jdclyde

This has been going on long before it was fashionable to Christian Bash.

Our Congress starts with a prayer. (or didn't you know that?)

Many of our activities have had prayer as a part of it when you only had GOD here, just variations of how that god is to be honored and worshiped. Sure, there were the ungods here, but they didn't feel a need or calling to vocally attack anyone that is religious so the prayer went on and goes on.

So this isn't done for anyones sake but our own. You don't see the prayer from a high school football game televised into the UK to show how grand we are. It is a small LOCAL thing that takes a minute. What gives us the ability to take that minute? We have our freedom of speech as well, granted by the same constitution that prevents the government in any way to hinder our freedom to practice our religion.

Sorry about the last LEGAL response. After you poopooed my initial response, I missunderstood what it was you were looking for.

If this doesn't answer your question, how about this. A century ago, our forefathers knew this would drive the athists apeshit if we did it and planning ahead. they got this going so in the year 2006 it would serve it's purpose. :D

by Member 25348569

Why anything extraneous to the sport? We are all gathered there to watch a football match. Why can't we just get there, anticipate the game, watch the game and then go and have a post-mortem on the game in the pub?

Without a vote, we can never be sure that we have the Tyranny of the Majority or even the Minority. The one - and the only thing - that we can guarentee is that we're all there for the game.

Why do we need religious or, for that matter, patriotic displays? I cannot see that either really serve any purpose. As I said in my post, we don't have the National Anthem before British League matches and I don't feel that we're the worse for it. Internationals, we play the oppositions anthem so we have to play our own (bloody dirge) or that would just be too silly.

Neil :)

by old guy

escalating us up to American State Church. I don't think anyone else has done that for us. :) Just kidding.

I think I said that it would be fine if anyone doesn't want to participate in the silence before a game. So, if other religions don't want to then don't. I think that's ok isn't it?

I just don't know how to make it any plainer that if someone doesn't want to participate in a moment of silence then don't. I also don't know how to make it any plainer that if someone doesn't want to accept my spiritual beliefs or anyone else's then don't. But why, or how, can it "bother" someone if a lot or a majority, or even a minority wants to pause for a few minutes before whatever they do to have a prayer?

Also, for your statement about not having a National Anthem before your matches: Well, ok. If that's what you guys want, then, cool. But I still don't understand why it bothers some folks because we do.

BTW, I really like the way you thank God, and God bless us, as well as a lot of other phrases you use that definitely refers to God or diety. I just think it's funny (a good funny) that you are an atheist but you still use a lot of these phrases. :) (This is with respect not disrepect) Thanks,

by swk14

I will never understand this argument. I have never kept anyone from praying. Every Sunday when I am reading my newspaper at Panera Bread, a youth group comes in and sits near me. They pray. They talk about the bible. They do all those christian-y types of things. Never have I (nor management at Panera Bread) tried to take away their public right to do this. I have stated before that if any child wants to pray at school, there is plenty of time during recess or lunch where the child can pray. If a teacher tells any child that he CANNOT pray on his time, I would stand by the childs side and fight for his right. Professional football players seem to pray at all times during the game. You will always see players in a "prayer circle" when the game ends. Apparantly, the Steelers and the Seahawks prayed more convincingly this past weekend then the Broncos and the Panthers (which is suprising in the Panthers case since they are in the bible belt). If Mike Illitch (owner of my beloved Detroit Red Wings) decides he wants Joe Louis Arena to pray before games, then that would be his right. It is his team, and as owner of the team he could set aside that time. So far, for some reason that business decision hasnt occurred to him yet. (By the way JD, if you do have a close relationship with the big fella, cant you do something about the Lions?)

The only thing I can gather from this whole thing, is that Christians really do want a state sponsored Christian religion. They want it known before each and every day at school or at sporting events that the USA is a Christian government. Why else create such a fuss? Sure we mean atheists are asking for strictly science to be taught in science classes in lieu of supernatural. Is that too much to ask?

As far as Christians founding this country, that is true. But are you sure that your version of Christianity today would be up to snuff compared to theirs? Would William Bradford even call you a Christian? Well, thankfully....we've evolved.

by protiusx

I agree that one should be free to pray and worship when ever he or she wishes. I also agree that it is more appropriate in some instances than in others.

I can?t speak for all Christendom but I can speak for myself ? I am an American and I enjoy the freedoms the constitution provides. Freedom of Religion is one of those freedoms that I enjoy and it is precisely because it is not a state sponsored institution. Where man is wickedness will ultimately follow for man?s heart is inherently wicked. Our faith is separate and should be separate from our government. I have never advocated otherwise. No where in my bible does it tell me to force people to ?believe?. It doesn?t work that way. God deals with each of us personally and it isn?t something that can be forced.

My faith calls me to love the lost and reach out to them. It does not tell me to rule over them or to hate them or to force them to my way of thinking. As I have said before I have Muslim friends and we are ok with the differences between us.

Your statement about what atheists are calling for is a generalization. Humanism is a religion that is taught in schools today under the guise of science. There are those rare atheists who are open enough to admit that as humans we are a long way from understanding the universe in which we find ourselves. I am not so jaded by my faith that I refuse to look at evidence. So perhaps as Neil and I have argued this point before we can come to a common ground.

Ultimately what I am saying is give unto Caesar what is Caesars? and give unto God what belongs to God.

by swk14

you said that. I dont understand this NEED for a big group prayer. Let the games begin I say. I dont NEED a silent time.

Also, I have the unique ability to talk on my cell phone, eat a cheeseburger, and drive at the same time. Im sure all of you could get yourself a good prayer in on the way to the game.

by jdclyde

Neil throws the "Thank God" in for a sarcastic twist, nothing more, and you can bet that if it is in one of Neils posts, he INTENDED it to be there.

I would answer his question myself, but I am right now feeling too damn lazy to look up what "plebicite" means! :D

Cheers!

by old guy

I know he is being facetious when he does that. I was just trying to rib him a little. But I guess it's not going over too well. That's ok. :|

by jdclyde

porn for all, but not prayer?

In the Stern discussion you were real big on freedom of speech, but not if that speech is to say a prayer?

I am confused at the inconsistancy?

by jdclyde

They HAVE rulled that you CAN have the 10 commandments, as long as you include other historical documents of a similar nature.

The case your refering to was because the judge had no authority to have this manufactured and installed in the first place. THAT is why it came back out. The judge took an activist stand on this, much like the opposition takes and activist stand against it. bottom line, a judge can not have statues created at tax payers expense and have them installed. There ARE judges that DO have the commandments hanging in their court rooms though.

I am sure we would make much more headway with discussions like this in a face to face over a beer or three. :D

by absolutely

Neither you nor any other Christian, nor any adherent of any faith, has ever had a problem with the government for peacefully practicing your religion.

Your problems with the Constitution occur only when you use public resources to subsidize your faith. God doesn't exist. If that sentence offends you, pull your head out.

by jdclyde

you went on vacation or something. ;\

Took your sweet old time. Didn't get an invite to the party? Must still be in the mail. Have to check on that one..... :)

Show in the constitution that tax dollars paid by Christians can not be used to subsidize anything. Not an emotional rant of how it is or how it should be. A clear law stating that this is forbidden.

Your serve. B-)

by absolutely

"Show in the constitution that tax dollars paid by Christians can not be used to subsidize anything."

Taxes paid by [b]Americans[/b] cannot be used to subsidize any [b]establishment[/b] of religion. The establishment clause exists, and it is as absolute as the free exercise clause. The government may take no action, however minor, for nor against any religion, however absurd.

QED

by protiusx

I don't have a problem my friend. I am a generally happy person who loves my family, smiles a lot and laughs perhaps to much. I don't have a problem with my government. I may disagree with some of the things my government does but there is a difference. I have never advocated the use of public subsidy of any religion. The constitution is very clear regarding the governments stance on religion. It doesn't have one. It should be non-discriminatory.

This comes from the well known and documented fact that the overwhelming majority of the writers of the constitution were in fact religious people. You can't rewrite history - it is what it is.

Now for your last comment - The arrogance is astounding. So you believe that if you make a comment that offends someone it is their problem and has nothing to do with you? So, it is perfectly ok for me to eat pork at the table of a Muslim or drink at an AA meeting? I disagree on a very fundamental basis with Muslims and I count many of them as my friends here. I will not offend them because I care about them. I may think their religion is wrong but I will never denigrate that religion because as a Christian I am directed to speak the truth in love. So I say this to you with all the love I can - You are prideful and arrogant and you should look at your heart before you fall from you self erected pedestal.

by absolutely

"Now for your last comment - The arrogance is astounding."

I paraphrased the final sentence of your opening post.

"So you believe that if you make a comment that offends someone it is their problem and has nothing to do with you?"

Well? Does freedom of speech mean that you can say offensive or derogatory things, as long as you do not incite or threaten violence? I believe so. You?

"So, it is perfectly ok for me to eat pork at the table of a Muslim or drink at an AA meeting?"

No. In the private abode of a Muslim, or in facilities rented by an organization that prohibits alcohol, your rights are limited by your host. Your extrapolation is invalid. I did not state God's nonexistence in a church, I stated it on the Internet. More specifically, in a forum dedicated to exchange of opinions among IT professionals. If you can operate a computer, you should know better than to believe a superstition derived from multiple death cults with their origin in cannibalism and real human sacrifice.

"I disagree on a very fundamental basis with Muslims and I count many of them as my friends here. I will not offend them because I care about them. I may think their religion is wrong but I will never denigrate that religion because as a Christian I am directed to speak the truth in love. So I say this to you with all the love I can - You are prideful and arrogant and you should look at your heart before you fall from you self erected pedestal."

I have earned my pride and am therefore not arrogant, but accurate about my own worth. Your reference to a "fall" is part of your superstition, not reality.

Here are your own words, not so different from mine:

"God, help us. And if that last sentence offends you, well ... just sue me."

by Member 25348569

Seriously, sarcasm is verbal and intended to hurt. I do sarcasm but rarely here [b]and[/b] I'll flag it so you know.

This is merely a combination of cultural conditioning and, possibly, just a little irony...

Now you all have a nice day and, by the way, "plebiscite" is the correct spelling of [b]my[/b] typo and means a vote.

Bummer. Must really get a spell-checker.

by absolutely

Getting the story straight is always the weak point of a belief held on faith. The original myth of Christianity was that Jesus' birth was announced by an astronomical event that led Eastern astrologers to the very stable where Jesus was born as the Jewish Messiah, some events of his life, and his resurrection after being executed by the Roman state at the request of some corrupt Jewish officials. The modern Christian myth is of persecution by the very state that is codifying Christianity as the official religion. Since you asked, Mr. Trak, the problem is that a great many people prefer to believe what they are told in church than what they can prove, even if it requires them to invent lies to make their whole story internally consistent.

by old guy

is your opinion, which is fine for you. However, you state it as if that is proven fact vs the Christian "myth" as you call it. Your opinion is no more fact than anything else--it's just your opinion. Please prove these are lies as you call them.

by absolutely

It is physically impossible that a person dead for three days came back to life without modern life support equipment. The longest recorded periods of brain death in a human that ultimately survived is on the order of an hour, not even one day. Not even close. It is also physically impossible that the Red Sea parted [b]because[/b] some guy hit a stick on the ground. It is possible that a lot of people have personal reasons for wanting to benefit from the doctrines of forgiveness and charity, but it is not possible that the events of the Bible called "miracles" are factual. The proof is all around you. Study biology, chemistry, or physics, it makes no difference. The truth is not only out there, it is self evident to anyone who has eyes to see, ears to hear [b]and[/b] a mind to comprehend.

by jdclyde

you know he can't. Maybe if you give him a few thousand years more, the religion of science will hold the answers he is looking for?

Ah, but that is the REAL key isn't it? He isn't looking for answers because he don't think there is a question.

by absolutely

Here is the metaphysical proof. This does not require years of study to grasp advanced math, then apply that knowledge to the study of the natural world. Even the mystics will understand.

Imagine a deity. You may call it "God", "Satan", "Protius" or "Ellsworth", or anything else, for that matter. Suppose this deity has created the entire cosmos, yourself included, and made all humans with our nature as it is. This deity then has the audacity to label the nature, which [b]it[/b] created, fallen, and to blame [b]us[/b] for [b]its[/b] failure to make us perfect, in its own image. Such a being not only is unworthy of my praise, it is unworthy of my respect, and it is unworthy of yours, too.

I have better things to do than to keep explaining the logical consequences of the above proof, so I will be leaving this thread now.

by protiusx

Wow! Now you and I are going to go around for a long time. Sweet! Firstly you should do a bit of research regarding Christianity if you are going to make such flippant comments. I can see that you are attempting to sound informed so I would like to give you the opportunity to reference your sources before I give you some reading homework. That's of course if your willing to read it.

The Christ or "Messiah" was prophesied thousands of years prior to the birth of the man named Jesus. The astronomical event that lead the three wise men "or Mages" to Jesus was also prophesied in Jewish scripture.

It is difficult for me to follow you when you talk about his crucifixion and subsequent resurrection so maybe you could elaborate on that a bit. That was prophesied by Jewish scripture as well by the way.

Could you give some examples of the modern Christian myth being of persecution? Christianity is not the official religion of (I assume your talking about the US here) the US. The US has no official religion as this is prohibited by the second amendment to the constitution.

Now on your last point - I agree with you. Surprised? If through out history Christians read their Bible there would be a whole lot less misery inflicted upon the world allegedly in the name of God. Can I prove God exists. No. I can't. That is why it is called faith. I am not angry with you nor do I hate you because you do not believe as I do. I wonder why then do you feel such angst towards those who do believe?

by absolutely

I won't bother "debating" the nature of the biblical events I cited. To me they are myths intended only as allegory to the literate ancient Jews who recorded them, to you they are facts. But the modern myth of Christians being persecuted by the state is well illustrated by your own words:

"Christians are just sick and tired of turning the other cheek while our courts strip us of all our rights. Our parents and grandparents taught us to pray before eating; to pray before we go to sleep.

Our Bible tells us to pray without ceasing. Now a handful of people and their lawyers are telling us to cease praying."

No court has ever stripped an American of its right to be Christian, though on numerous occasions it has been necessary to remind you and yours that those of us who live in the real world according to facts, not mythology, have the right to our own equal protections, and that you do not have any right to use the government to support your religion. Likewise, nobody, lawyer or otherwise, is telling you to cease praying. You are being instructed that the rest of the world may not be made to wait, by government coercion, for you to finish talking to yourself. That is the modern Christian persecution myth I mentioned.

by jellimonsta

[I am not angry with you nor do I hate you because you do not believe as I do. I wonder why then do you feel such angst towards those who do believe?]
Protius,
I believe Absolutely had Catholicism forced down his throat from childhood, and obviously it left a bitter taste in his mouth.
Absolutely obviously has a great deal of faith as he takes his personal experiences as fact. To me that is BLIND faith!! :p

by old guy

Absolutely it is meant to be raucous at football games, as well as other sports. However, please reread my statement (quoted below). I specifically said it would be during a time of silence and that it wouldn't give them the right to be raucous --not the whole game. Again, if someone wanted to be disruptive during a moment of silence for those who want to pray then they can. However, I feel that would just show how selfish and "malicious" they could be. I wouldn't say anything to them but (for whatever it's worth) I would have absolutely no repect for them. And, yes, I know it wouldn't matter to someone like that but it matters to me.

"It is very that the majority would be silent during this time but if they don't want to they don't have to. However, I don't think that would give them the right to maliciously try to be raucous ."

by protiusx

I am not saying that all sporting events should be preceded with a prayer. I am saying that if a group of people want to they aught to have the right to do so. I would never force my belief on anyone and I don?t think that was the intent.

Your example is not on point at all. I am not saying that the Christians should march down and have a pre game prayer before the Manchester United take the field. That would be ridiculous. There is a time and place for everything and I have been to high school games that begin with a prayer. It is a tradition of some communities just like the singing of the national anthem.

by Member 25348569

We get down to the final sticking points.

It is my premise that if, in a religious community such as the one in which you live, a proposition is made that there be pre-match prayers, those members of the community who, whilst Christian, are "less" Christian than you will find it very difficult to say what they really mean.

[b]Get on with the match![/b]

With public prayers you cannot do anything but force your belief on me and others like me who do not follow your "brand" of religious belief. On the other hand, my public lack of prayer, a Catholic's private prayer to Mary, a Muslim's private prayer to Allah and your private prayer are indistinguishable to anyone but God. And He, of course, is the only one who counts. Oh, and we all want [b]our[/b] team to win.

by osumiller

I have read all of the above posts, and this is my conclussion...

I wear my countries flag on my shoulder to protect and uphold the constitution. That means that I will lay down my life to make sure that EVERYONE regardless of their opinion or belief may practice it freely. If you don't like me, or our government, that is for you to decide, and it is your right. However disrespectful of me, you might be, I will still try to respect you and your beliefs, and as long as you are not infringing on someone else's rights, I will not have any problem with your excercise of those rights.

That said, let me comment to those who are not Americans. We go to great lengths to try and be non-offensive while in other nations. That means that if you are in a country/community where the majority of the population is muslim, it would be in poor taste to eat or drink openly in public during daylight hours while those around you are observing their holy period of Ramadan. I don't have to agree with the views of the community or the culture that makes that community what it is. I should, however, be required to be respectful, after all, it is THEIR community.

As for schools and religion in America, I don't think that a state-run school should invoke any single religion on its students, but if the community determines that it wants its schools to do this or that, the community (who pays the taxes and funds it) can do something about it. The town were I live voted down ALL elections where the schools would have gotten more funding, simply because the school board was worried someone would sue them at Christmas time, so they took down a nativity scene.

I know that sounds harsh, but that is the right of the community. I do not agree with the whole of Christmas, since I feel it is a pagan holiday, along with Easter. Yes, I am Christian, but I celebrate both of these each week when I commune with my Lord. I don't need to have a special day only once a year to do this, since I do so each week. But even though I don't agree with a holiday, I WILL NOT Infringe on someone else if they are bent on publicly displaying it. If you don't agree with the community, be respectful, and if you can't do that, MOVE!

by jdclyde

expect people to be respectful?

Oh wait, that is perfectly reasonable.

Sorry about that!

Thank you, and Carry on.

jd

by faradhi

I cannot agree more as to how Christmas and Easter is observed here in our country.

I just do not understand how some fata$$ sliding down my chimney says Christ is born. Also, I fail to see how some bunny crapping chocolate eggs says Christ is risen.

by absolutely

tell me to move? I am not infringing on anybody's rights when I prohibit my money from being spent on their superstition.

"I will still try to respect you and your beliefs, and as long as you are not infringing on someone else's rights, I will not have any problem with your excercise of those rights."

Great. It is my right to neither practice nor subsidize any religion. Respect that right.

"That means that if you are in a country/community where the majority of the population is muslim, it would be in poor taste to eat or drink openly in public during daylight hours while those around you are observing their holy period of Ramadan."

Actions in "poor taste" are not a violation of anybody's rights. Poor taste is a matter of subjective opinion. Individual rights are not.

"I don't have to agree with the views of the community or the culture that makes that community what it is. I should, however, be required to be respectful, after all, it is THEIR community."

Not in the country you claim to defend. In this country, it is everybody's community, and as long as I'm not in your church, your religion does not apply to me [b]in the slightest[/b].

by swk14

This is off topic. Have you ever stumbled across the blog "The Raving Atheist"? He pretty much spends most of his time ripping anyone that is an objectivist or an admirer of Ayn Rand. He also is strongly anti-abortion. A weird mix. Anyways, check it out if you want a good puke.

by jdclyde

you always forget that MUCH of the tax dollars are NOT YOUR tax dollars so you have no legal nor moral NOR ethical claim to them. Until there is a LAW saying otherwise, it is done and will continue to be done.

And yes, in America, Communities DO determine standards of what is acceptable behavior and what is not.

There are "dry" counties in Michigan where you can't buy beer. So much for what you invision to be YOUR rights.

The world does not revolve around you, even if your ego MAY be big enough to give off it's own gravitational pull? :D (now THAT is funny!)

by maxwell edison

If you have a problem with a person's public display of their spirituality, are there any other "public displays" that you have a problem with? If not, why single-out spirituality?

Find someone displaying something in public (sexual orientation, affection, protests, smoking, drinking, a fat gut, etc.), and I'll find another who's offended by it.

by Member 25348569

As, to me, are gratuitous displays of patriotism. I don't single out just prayer.

The discussion concerns sporting events. I go to football matches to see football. Everyone else is there for the football. Isn't that enough? Do we need anything else? No. Is there anything we all want? Yes! More goals! Anything else? Yes! Thierry Henry to play for Crystal Palace! Anything else? No. It's a football match! You want to pray? Then bugger off and pray and leave me to my football!

Actually, if Thierry Henry did play for Palace, I would consider conversion to Christianity. Ah! Dream on...

:D

by absolutely

Football games aren't stopped and school is never interrupted for a group mumble in honor of the fat, drunk, stoned, protesting or sexually adventurous. Why should religion or spirituality get special treatment as the one show-stopper for which we all have to stop what we're doing? Picture a moment of silence at the beginning of a football game for any of those other diplays and then try to defend organized public prayer with a straight face!

by absolutely

However, my emphasis is on a different word that you used.

"It is very that the majority would be silent during this time but if they don't want to they don't have to. However, I don't think that would give them the right to maliciously try to be raucous ."

I respect your appreciation, but the fact that these football fans we're discussing are in a football stadium, during a football game, and not in a church or at a religious celebration, means that they have the to be raucous.

by jdclyde

what is the direct quote or law?

Subsidizing the establishment is paying for buildings and such, not activities such as a Christmas tree or nativity scene or even the "faith based inititives" that have been found to be constitutional.

How do you explain that? Should be "easy" again for you to explain how we currently DO have the money going to these charities that are run by religious organizations AND has not been stopped by the courts.

Your serve, but your down a point. :D

by absolutely

"Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof;..."

In other words, Congress shall do [b]neither[/b] of the following: make law to respect any religion, nor to prohibit it.

Some courts have permitted some money to be given to religious displays and funded certain activities that the courts deem to be "for the public good". The error in the latter is the assumption that their estimation of the "public good" trumps the establishment clause, or any part, of the Constitution. I don't know how the funding of nativity scenes is ever rationalized, but I'm sure it is irrational, and most likely involves misrepresenation of facts, too.

Show me the opinion -- whether written by a private citizen or a judge -- that states that $0.01 or more of public money may be used for any religious activity, and I'll show you direct contradiction with the Constitution.

by jdclyde

a big difference between making a law and spending money, but I don't expect you to see such a simple concept because your not willing to look at anything but how much you hate all religions and it seems to be your lifes work to condemn them all globaly, dispite your preaching about rights.

Another thing you don't "get" is that it doesn't MATTER if you "know how the funding of nativitity scenes is ever rationalized" because nobody has to answer to you NOR justify this spending. (and yes, that just eats you up that you don't matter.)

So your direct quote failed completely to show where government is legally prohibitied from spending tax dollars paid by CHRISTIANS, on Christians.

The courts have already ruled that I am right and you are wrong.

by absolutely

Now we're communicating. There is not a question about any religion, except those in the field of anthropology, such as "When were these stories invented? What person or people invented them? What human experience were they invented to explain away?"

by old guy

stated that if they do not wish to be respectful of the others then they don't have to. They can keep right on doing whatever they want to. However, as others have stated in this thread, it is a human respect of other humans. That's a very simple request but it seems that there are some who aren't capable or who do not want to be capable of simple respect of other people.

by old guy

was if his "facts" are indeed fact then I asked him to prove that Christ did not die and was raised from the dead. Sure we haven't seen anything like that happen and I've been in the medical field for almost 30 years. But that does not prove that it has never happened. I can't see or touch air but I sure believe that's what keeps me alive. (yeah, I know that's an old one but hey...)
I asked Mr. Absolutely to prove his "facts" are actually facts as well. He believes they are but can you actually prove it scientifically?

by old guy

Jellimonsta, I think you may be correct. I have known several folks who had this happen and felt the same way that Absolutely seems to. Unfortunately when that happens they usually can't see the difference. More unfortunately too many times some churches have tried to force their tainted beliefs on their members. This usually happens when men get in the way of God and try to run the church themselves.

by jdclyde

me to stop trying to present you with an arguement that wasn't ever going to win you over and just look where you are at and where you are going.

From the place you are at, there is no point discussing religion as a valid point, but only if there is a legal right or not to do "this" "there".

Opinions of what SHOULD and SHOULDN'T be are pointless and requiring you to prove there is no god is just as much of a waste of time as you telling me to prove there IS a god. Not going to happen either way. Save ourselves a lot of time on that score.

See you in court! :D

by jellimonsta

Picture Mr. Nicholson breaking through a door with an axe proclaiming "Here's Jelli!" :)
Absolutely and I have been around on the whole Christianity thing many times. I do not discredit his intellect, but at the end of the day one can only know 'so much'.
As the old proverb goes "Mans greatest knowledge is the knowledge that we know nothing". I know Absolutely is going to disagree with that too though! :)

by protiusx

I didn?t write anything about freedom of speech. I am writing about the difference in what one can do and what should do. There is a difference. I agree with you that freedom of speech as defined by the constitution gives you the right to say and write what you want to regardless of its content or message. That does not mean that I believe that right makes offensive remarks that demean one based upon their spiritual beliefs is right.
Our impasse is that your personal beliefs cause you to feel as if what you say is most important and the affect of what you say is not important at all.
I am not condemning you for voicing your opposition to my or any other religion.
The quotes you included were not mine.

by absolutely

"Our impasse is that your personal beliefs cause you to feel as if what you say is most important and the affect of what you say is not important at all."

On the contrary, I believe the effect of what I say is very important. Otherwise, I wouldn't say it at all! People who believe in any god or gods are confused, and if the effect of what I say is to help even one of them understand that, then I have done a very good thing.

by protiusx

Except for your interpretation of the first amendment. It clearly states that Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof. This means that Congress shall make NO law respecting an establishment of religion (no state religion like humanism which is taught in American schools but I digress) or prohibiting the free exercise thereof (which means I can say Mary Christmas) when I want and to whom I want. I can even say ?God bless you? and not be arrested. I can walk into a post office and say ?Praise the Lord?. Telling a person where they can?t pray or worship is called PROHIBITION!

by swk14

there is a law, doesn't make it constitutional nor right. Barring alcohol sales is anti-capitalism and anti-American. You are prohibiting business from it's right to make money.

Jesus did turn water into wine.....not a refreshing pepsi. At least according to the myth.

by cactus pete

The government must pass a law to spend money... It's called an appropriations bill when being debating...

The courts have decided that money can be spent in certain circumstances. So long as HS football game prayer meets the same court determined criteria, everyone should stop complaining.

But the courts decided that you can't force everyone at the game to listen to a broadcast prayer. (Note, I didn't say it was a few people and their lawyers that did this.) Therefore, those who feel opposite should stop complaining.

by absolutely

This sounds like it could be my old arch nemesis ippirate! If ever I somehow accidentally swallow some household cleaner, I hope I can remember "The Raving Atheist", and have access to the Internet!

by swk14

When I found this particular site, that was during the great debate you had with him. I've never seen someone write so eloquently (IPPirate) and have absolutely nothing to say. Anyways, that whole "Morals and Religion" thread made me a regular reader.

For the record, now that you've brought it up. It sounds exactly like IPPirate. Ravingatheist.com

by absolutely

I think we would all be much better for it if we did not bother with so much subtlety, and only resorted to the law when a true act of coercion occurred. And then, respond with greater authority than the courts do now.

i have no problem with you praying every day all day, if you choose. Just don't expect me to pay your bills if you pray instead of earning a living!

by old guy

It appears that you are so closed minded that you can only see what you think is fact or logical and therefore can not see, hear, or understand that you may be way off the target and have no actual, scientific fact to prove anything you say. Wow, that must be a really small world you live in. I certainly hope and pray (yes, for you) that you can open your mind and experience the vastness of this world and the world that is not seen. Good luck in your life.

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