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Hi,
I use Outlook express 6.0 and Microsoft Outlook 2000, on 2 different computers. Is there a way to have a receipt sent back to me from a message I sent to another user. Without the user receiving it,knowing they are sending a receipt back to me.
I know they are asked if they want to send the receipt back to me, but is there a way to eliminate that..so thay don’t see it…
Thank You..