problem setting up internet / file sharing between two PCS via crossover
Greetings
My name is Ryan and I am fairly new to this whole forum discussion thing, please be gentle. (And I hope I am in the right spot)
I have two PCs, both with windows XP. Both have an ethernet card installed. One has a wireless internet connection (I share this connection with my roomate over a wireless router [that isn't anywhere near my setup so I cannot plug directly into the router itself]).
What I want to do is network both computers together so they can share files and the internet connection.
I purchased a crossover cable (yes I made sure)and connected both PCs together with it. I ran the network setup wizard on both PCs (which was a little confusing so I dont know if I did it right) It setup a connection but it has a big red "X" on it and it cannot find the network cable (on both machines). On both computers it says the cable is unplugged. And now I sometimes lose my internet connection on the host computer. If I disable the new local network connection I setup on the host I get internet back.
I know it can work, I know its possible to setup it up this way because I have done it before on windows 98. XP is a little different and I don't know what the heck I am doing or even what I am doing wrong. Do I need to manually setup TCP/IP? IPX? I've been reading the forums on this issue and it's all pretty confusing, pretty much everyone has a different solution for this.
I would appreciate any help you guys could give, I do thank you for your time.