I once had a favorite bar that I frequented often. It was a real "Cheers" type bar, if you know what I mean. They closed for a while to remodel -- actually to redesign. After they reopened, the feel was different, the ambiance was different, but more importantly the people and the camaraderie was all different. The new customers just weren't my type, and their demeanor and behavior just wasn't my style. It wasn't too long before I just quit going.
I've been coming to this bar (the TR bar) for a long time. I used to restrict myself to the "tech" section of the bar, never even venturing into the other sections. Heck, I was even the "top-tech" on the Q&A list for a while. But it got old, and I grew tired of it. Eventually, I quit going to that section entirely, and I then restricted myself to the "non-tech" section. I guess everything gets old after a while -- even your favorite bar.
And now, I'm beginning to ask myself why I keep coming back to this bar at all. What have I really accomplished that means anything? But more importantly, and this is what really gets me, what could I have accomplished if I had spent the same amount of time and energy in another direction?