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by ontheropes

I guess that I was just surprised that no one mentioned weight-loss supplements. I've been hard enough on my liver already without having some pill mess it up,

I'm not going to do them. They're too expensive for one thing and for another, I'm not going to get good health and habits out of a bottle. I can buy a six-pack of Bell's Expedition Stout :x for the price of a bottle of those pills.

I was talking about you today. Inkling has relatives in Livonia, Michigan and when he visits them we might meet someplace and have a brew or two. I suggested that we get you to join us if possible. You and I are each about an hours drive away from having a sandwich at Chili's or something and we've never done it. We all ought to start a trend, TR members actually meeting TR members. Could be fun.

by Member 25348569

are a traditional veggie to be served with turkey for an English Christmas. Most of my childhood memories have them boiled to death for about a half hour. We all hated them but felt that we had to have them.

On Boxing Day, December 26, the left-over sprouts (and there are usually a LOT) are chopped and mixed with mashed potato and then fried brown to give 'bubble and squeak'. This is surprisingly good and is eaten with cold turkey and pickles. In our family we only cook Sprouts for bubble, now.

Neil :)

Sorry about the off-topic post ruining your slim-line thread, Ropes, but I couldn't resist the nostalgia trip.

by tig2

Bubble and squeak. Can't find it here- not even in the so called "English" pubs.

I make my own. I use onion. I guess I am a barbarian too!

Tough!

Have you ever had sandwich cake?

by Member 25348569

Human physiology is such that if you lose weight quickly such as with a crash diet with no exercise, the body switches to 'famine mode' and extracts energy by breaking down muscle tissue in preference to the energy stored in fat. Although this results in a weight loss, it is muscle tissue that burns calories so, with less of it, you put weight back on more quickly and find it more difficult to lose it next time.

This is a vicious circle unless you lose weight very slowly or keep up or increase your muscle mass by exercise whilst reducing calories.

Just my two joules worth...

Neil :)

by gadgetgirl

is my problem.

Once I have a bad IBS spasm, no matter what I do, famine mode takes over. It's just not funny.

If I'm having a real bad time, I can lose 10lbs in around a fortnight. No, it's not a great way to lose weight, it's bloody painful. Despite going back onto the scratch diet (exclusion diet, for those that don't know my personal terminology!) I always put back on more than I lost in that particular spasm.

I'm gaining about 2 lbs a year, and it annoys me intensly. The other annoying thing is that I have to have three differing sizes of clothing in my wardrobe, so that at least I have something to wear, before, during and after spasm. Costly, and not funny. (Especially when planning for holiday, family parties etc.)

What is EXCEPTIONALLY annoying is that those people who don't know me that well think I'm unsociable, which couldn't be further from the truth. My old department in here actually gave up asking me on nights' out purely because I always said no; hey, if they'd just been going for a drink it would have been ok, but no way can I eat out without at least a weeks warning, so I can structure my eating and diet to fit in.

Now it's starting again! The current department is planning a Christmas do out of work, and guess who has had to say no? December is Scratch month for me anyway - I have to be soooooo careful, so that I can have my roast goose and home made stuffing on Christmas Day.

Oh, and I just had an email saying there's a departmental team building Christmas event in December too. Oh deep joy. Hate having to demand a look at menus, getting venue numbers and end up eating the only bland thing they're prepared to make. Aaarrggh!

Know anywhere that does intestinal muscle transplants? Know any donors?

GG

by jdclyde

But depending on the night, it sounds like a plan. With my boys, I need to plan things like that in advance though, and Wednesdays are Dart nights. B-)

Peer me when you get a time frame.

I could handle going to "hell in a hand basket"! :D

by ontheropes

I just checked Yahoo maps, I could get to where you work in about 90 minutes. If Inkling doesn't head out this way for awhile maybe one of these weekends that you don't have the boys and are going to be south my wife and I can roll north. I'm willing. Just say the word.

by jdclyde

did I mention I live about 50 miles in the opposite direction? That is where the two hour estimate came in.

Road trips are not a problem, just has to wait until after November because it is hunt'en season! :D

by Member 25348569

One of the things I've found useful for chucking the odd pound is to have a low carb/no carb supper. The rule that I've been told is "no carbs after five" so I just end up stir-frying some fresh veg, peppers, etc with chicken. It's not Atkins or anything - not even a diet - but just aims to to keep carb intake lower in the evening when I'm doing less. Seems to work for me.

:D

by nicknielsen

I grew up in New York and can't get enough Brussels sprouts. I tried growing some in the back yard a couple of summers ago, but the dogs like them too! :D

by jaqui

them there miniature cabbages are not on my diet, they have to much starch so low carb diets prohibit them.
[ which is good, I can't stand the things, while the rest of my family love them ]

You do know that they are not ready for picking / harvest until AFTER they have been hit by frost don't you?

edited for typo

by ontheropes

I'm not sure if I'll have dropped 8 lbs. or not. Tonight however I did grab a pair of jeans from my NoFarkingWay-do-they-fit pile just to see. I'll be dammed if I couldn't button 'em up with no problem. They were snug but not too bad to wear out into public. Tomorrow I'm going to go thru the entire pile.

When I made the NFW stack it was all jeans that I couldn't get zipped up and buttoned and here I've got at least one pair that fits again. Might not be a big deal to anybody else but it's a big deal to me. Progress, no matter what the scale says.

How do I feel? Relieved more than anything else. What I've been doing is working. I just need to give it time and those damm 34" jeans will fit good too.

I feeeel good. nanananananana I knew that I would. nanananananana

by thejellybean66

Sounds like you're doing a great job! I like wearing mens pants because I have NO HIPS. Before I gained weight, I was wearing size 30. Now, I can't even close a pair of 38s. I have a pair of 40s that I can just squeeze into but I am not sporting a pair of 40s out of my house! No way! I dream of the day I can squeeze my fat but into 30s again although my diet buddy tell me that might never happen. I'll be happy with 32s but I'm determined to get into those 30s again no matter what!

TWO THUMBS UP OnTheRopes!

by ontheropes

It's funny how such a little thing can make you feel so good. What are we talking about after all? Wearing a pair of jeans I've worn before? Whoopee.

It feels like a big thing though. There was no way that I could've worn them a couple of months ago. No way, no matter how hard I sucked in my gut they weren't going to go. Now they just easily zipped and buttoned. Unreal. Makes me think that maybe I should have more appreciation of the "little things" today.

I wish I'd used a tape measure when I first started this whole thing. It'd be interesting to see what's changed. My size 38's just fall off of me without a belt. I'm getting closer to my goal.

I read your blog for awhile yesterday and will probably go back again, Ever consider an RSS feed? I thought blogspot.com let you add one. Maybe I'm thinking of something else. Nice writing style. You keep it interesting.

I see that you eat a lot of foods that I've cut from my diet. Enriched flours, pasta and white rice for example. Great looking tasty meals though. Where do you get your information on what and how nuch to eat?

by jdclyde

It is how you feel and look that matters.

When I started getting more active and trying to keep up with the boys, my weight actually went UP five pounds, but I went DOWN a pants size.

I don't even get on the dang thing anymore unless I switch it over to metric... :D

And yes, I weight about 100 lbs more than I did when I graduated from high school a "few" years ago.

by ontheropes

Over the years I've seen a lot of people where it's all about the weight. They weigh themselves a lot, everyday sometimes. That's not me. I'm only going to weigh myself once a month. I'm going to take my tape measure in there too.

I can deal with being overweight just fine. It's not like I draw a lot of stares when I go out in public. I'm guessing that I'm down close to 205. That's quite a change from 234. I'll be over halfway to my goal. I'm going to reach my goal. Besides the fit of my clothes I have to use the scale occasionally just to know where I'm at.

by inkling

I lived in Michigan for many years, from 6th grade til I joined the Marine Corps at the age of 24.

Ok, there was about a year and a half when I lived in Roanoke and Daytona Beach, but other than that, I lived in Michigan the whole time.

by jaqui

I eat the same way as I was patterned to by the high protien diet, lots of fresh fruits and veggies and meat, numerous times a day.
snacks tend to be savouries not sweets.
But the protien powders, along with custards, puddings, yoghurt, sour cream, pies, most pastries don't stay down.
I wind up puking my guts out when I eat them.
[ Nope, not lactose intolerant, milk, butter, cheese don't bother my stomache. ]

Inkling,
The reason I was put on that diet, was hypoglycemia*, with a full day of testing in the lab to find out what was wrong. it cleared that up, and I'm healthy, just can't put weight on.

*hypoglycemia is the first stage in becoming diabetic. if nothing is done about it most people with it become diabetic.

by inkling

I don't remember the exact numbers, but something like 85% of diabetics that he has treated are off insulin within weeks of eating in his prescribed manner.

It sounds like you are already following it for the most part, but it's interesting reading anyway.

by ontheropes

Thanks for telling me. I'm going to have to read up on it.

All I've got to grow veggies in is a 4'x4' box that I made from an old picnic table this year. I'd planted Sweet Potato vines and Red Crocus. They grew like crazy in the rich soil. Added nice color to the yard. Next year it's carrots and sprouts. If I can come up with some more wood I'll make another box and put in more shtuff.

by jaqui

since different items require different soil depths, watering levels, reading up can save you from the heartache of having half your efforts rot away in the ground.

Here, we have an ideal growing condition, we can almost literally just wave the seeds at the ground and have the crops spring up. [ wave at the ground means don't even plant any ;) ]

by ontheropes

No donors available in this neck of the woods.

I know just a little bit about planning ahead. While working my way out of this morning's fog with a cup of coffee I realized that it's Wednesday and we have our weekly big night out tomorrow. I plan today for tomorrow because I know how I am. I'll eat a little bit more today than usual because I'll eat less tomorrow before we go out to keep from blowing my two-day calorie count all to hell. (If that makes sense) They have really good nutritious food at dinner so I'll "save myself" 'til then. I'm going to to eat a regular size meal tomorrow and see how that goes.

I'm glad that I don't have to deal with the holiday's at work this year. There was always
something and I always had a tendency to overeat. That's why I said that this is a rough time of the year to be on a diet. I'm not going to let it get to me this time.

I can't imagine how hard it must be on you. Sounds rough. People don't generally seem to be very understanding about others needs. The are several health reasons that people may be on restricted diets, high blood pressue, diabetes, hypoclycemia, weight loss and IBS to name a few. Who wants to go to a dinner to sit around and watch people shovel it in. I know I don't.

I'm not looking forward to Thanksgiving and Christmas with the in-laws. I have several obese in-laws and inevitably they're the ones who decide what everyone else is going to eat by what they bring. My wife is on a restricted sodium diet. If she doesn't KNOW how much salt is in something she won't eat it. Do you think her family will cook for her. Not likely to happen. Her brother-in-law had a multiple bypass operation and is healthy but he's started to pack on the pounds again. He doesn't eat healthily and his place is where we go. I'd just as soon all of us go to a restaurant. Eat then leave.

When we have our dinners I'll probably load up on the celery, carrot and pepper spears, have some green beans and an appropriate sized piece of turkey (Thanksgiving) and ham (Christmas).

The family get-togethers are so predictable I'm bored out of my mind just thinking about them. Everyone even sits in the same place every year for crying out loud. Damm. It would definitely help if I liked those people more but I just don't. All of them, pain in the @ss.

Ahhh yes. The wunnerful Holidays. Come on New Years. We stay home for New Years! :D

by jdclyde

If I KNOW I either CAN'T or WON'T eat the food at the event, I eat before I go.

This makes it so I am not hungry, so less likely to consume something I wouldn't otherwise. A salad and a few light sides and I am good.

I am not an onion eater. (get back off the floor and sit down, it isn't THAT big of a shock!) I have to specifically ask about each dish before I take any, if they have onion in it or not. I have had "family" on the ex's side try to be cute and tell me no. They found out if I bite into an onion, I puke. All of a sudden, it wasn't so cute anymore..... ;\

by ontheropes

Everything is so predictable at the family dinners I'll bet that I can even tell you where everybody is going to park and who'll show up 20 minutes late so we have to wait for them. I'm going to have a dinner salad at home before I go. I already know what food will be there, in my minds eye my plate is already filled. Excuse me. Man that was good.

Seriously, these people are a pain in the ass. I could go on. I go to the big events just to be with my wife but we don't hang out with any of them the rest of the year. If it's a minor get-together, a birthday for instance, most of the time I don't go. Screw 'em. They remind me of the song lyrics that include, "I wouldn't want to be like you". Alan Parsons or somebody.

This post isn't much about food but that holiday BS opens up a whole can of worms for me. The food is always cooked very well it's just the phony people that ruin ANY kind of party that they have. I'm starting my "bah humbug" early this year huh?

by hal 9000

I've just been to another funeral of a friend who lost weight and stoped smoking under Medical Supervision. A week prior to his death he was given a [b]Clean Bill of Health[/b] by his quack and then had a massive heart attack and was dead before he hit the floor.

So much for being healthy he would have lived longer if he had of maintained his weight and continued smoking. :(

Similarly another fitness freak died yesterday while on his morning run seems that being healthy isn't all it's cracked up to be. Too many seem to be having heart attacks and dieing from health.

Col

by Member 25348569

but I've been told so many times that I don't have one...

Neil :D

Actually, you're dead right. If you don't keep the rest of your muscles going, it's going to affect your heart in the long term. However, the thing to remember is that exercise lowers blood pressure. Diets don't.

by ontheropes

Life is too damn short. Far too short.

My post below about wearing a pair of pants that I used to wear made me think. I wonder how much of what's going on with me today will be something I might wish for tomorrow. The one's I care about are fine, for the most part. They're safe, healthy and alive. I'll likely see them again. Those are all good things.

Thinking:: Life's just too damn short.

I'm content with what I have. I might be better off than people who have much more but can't enjoy it. I'm fine being who I am. I fit in my own skin. Hasn't always been that way. Glad it's like that today.

I'm taking it easy and taking it slow. I'll eventually get to where I want to be but the goal is not an end in itself, it's the journey to get there and beyond that counts. I get what you're saying. If I'm not healthy and happy now how can I expect to be "better" at some artificial goal I've set for myself.

Today is cool. I'll handle tomorrow when it get's here. A day, sometimes a minute, at a time is the only way we're all moving down the road.

I think I'm going to have some delicious pork roast and a smoke afterwards. No sense letting that roast go to waste.

by liame

Some great advice in this thread... far better than most dedicated sites!

Drawing everything together and adding from my own experience it comes down to a few simple rules... and a few things things to remember.

Rule 1 - WALK. No excuses, just walk. Every day. As much as you can. Build up to it gradually if you are unfit but keep at it. If you are fit or getting fitter include more hills and/or leg weights if you like but just walk! A cheap heart monitor is great if you are not sure if you need to push harder or ease off a bit - but as a guide you want to get a little bit of a sweat on and be a little out of breath, not gasping! 2-3Mph should be fast enough depending on the terrain. I promise you will feel better, breath better, sleep better, have more energy, concetrate better and much more all for the price of a little shoe leather.

Rule 2 - See rule 1. What do you mean you don't have time? Make it. We are not talking hours here... lunch break, early morning, in the evening... it needs to become a habit and a normal part of your day. Take my word for it, after a few weeks you'll look foward to it whatever the weather.

Rule 3 - I wasn't joking about rule 1 & 2. Can't motivate yourself or need a reason to go for a walk? Go to the pound and get a dog. Seriously. You'll never regret getting a dog. Live in rented and can't have pets? No problem, go to the pound and walk their dogs for them!

Now the things to remember...

Real sustained weight loss only comes with a change in lifestyle. But that change need only be very subtle in all but the worse cases. Say you put on 40lb in the last 5 years - that is just 3 or 4 spoonfulls of sugar a day from zero weight gaint!

Consume more calories than use and you will put on weight. Use more calories than you consume and you will lose weight. No if or buts. That is fact. The upshot of that is you should eat a little less and exercise more.

Don't fall into the trap of thinking diet alone will work long term, it simply won't.

Avoid trans fats / hydrogenated fats like the plague. If you are male do not eat soy products.

Don't look for quick fixes, magic pills or fad diets. They are all bound to fail. The only way is to change your lifestyle to a more healthy one.

How long did it take you to put on the weight? 5? 10? 15 years maybe? Its not going to come off overnight now is it? Be patient... but don't worry you will start to feel better almost as soon as you start making those healthy choices, and looking better within weeks.

There is only one excercise that comes close to walking and thats swimming. If there is a pool nearby do some laps regularly if you can. It can get a bit dull though and it costs a bit. It really is good for you though. Actually sex and dancing are as good as swimming and walking so try and get down the club, dance the night away and have as much sex as possible. Who said exercise is boring?

Free weights are a good idea. Nothing heavy, just a couple of dumbells will do. Look to increase reps rather than weight for weight loss and fitness. Always warm up first!

Don't smoke, if you drink, drink in moderation. In fact - moderation in all things. No pigging out. Cept at Christmas of course.

Don't weigh yourself too often. Once a week max. Once a month better. Weigh yourself at the same time of day each time and in similar clothing.

Eat more fresh veg and fruit.

Try to cut out refined sugars.

Eat oily fish at least once a week.

Cut down on fats. When you do use fats/oils use olive oil and olive oil based products.

Cut down on the salt.

Don't skip breakfast.

Avoid empty calories.

Switch to wholegrain products for bread, cereal etc. If there is a white version and a brown version of a food, eat the brown.

Cut down on red meats, replace with poultry, fish, beans and pulses to get the proteins and that full feeling without the clogged arteries.

Best to avoid high fat dairy products, but not dairy altogther as it contains loads of stuff thats good for you.

Drink plenty of fluid - it doesnt have to be water, but not too much caffeine.

Take control of your weight and fitness. No one else can do it for you. Its your body and your life.

If it comes in a packet, its probably bad for you. Get in the habit of making your own meals from scratch. Home cooked stuff is cheaper, better for you and costs less. And there are a million and one things you can cook or prepare in under 10 minutes.

The TV will not get lonely without you. Neither will the couch. Don't feel sorry for them.

If you are over 40 or have any medical conditions consult a doctor before doing anything. If they tell you something it overrides everything else. They really do know best.

Unless you are really big 2lb a week is the MOST you should aim to lose. If you are 250lb+ you could perhaps lose 3lb a week for a little while but not for long. Much better to lose it slow. Half a pound to a pound a week would be just fine. Don't get disheartened if you put on a little or havn't lost any. Just keep making the right choices and it WILL come off in good time.

It is worth remembering that most weight loss sites, clubs, books, DVD's etc are often as not pushing an idea/theory/product etc in the hope of getting money out of you. On the other hand some are very good at motivating people to make a change. Try to see through the BS and see what they have to offer. If it goes against ANYTHING above its probably a waste of time and money.

Now if I missed or forgot anything... sorry!

by locolobo

Just asking. Haven't heard that before.

I agree this is a good thread. There is a lot of good advice here.

by liame

Thats the newest bit of advice in the list.

Put simply soy contains estrogen mimicing substances. Not good for a bloke trying to lose weight or trying to become a father.

Google soy and estrogen sometime. And get scared.

by the listed 'g man'

Lost 14 Stone in a DAY, 14 Stone in a DAY! :-)

In all seriousness however you cause for self improvement is a worthy one. best of LUck with it!

by tig2

And it will give you back your cherished personal time that the undeserving bloke was stealing away!

Just remember ladies- I only need one of these to get hundreds of those. (I assume I don't need to spell this out...)

Married to a useless lunk that sits in front of telly all day? Ashcan is the answer!

Liam- I'll respect you mate. But don't trash us ladies here.

by Member 25348569

The chemicals that are causing all of the stress, Soy Isoflavones, contain about 0.1% of the oestrogen-like activity of the normal human female's endogenous oestrogen so it isn't going to make much difference to most women - if any - unless they take ridiculous quantities of supplements. Some doctors have, apparently, warned that breast cancer may be promoted by soy products and this advice is despite the lower incidence of breast cancer in those races that generally use soy in their diet. I suppose that there's a certain chance that the Western habit of processing foods might lead to increased Isoflavone levels and so there might be some small effect from consuming large quantities of such products but there's no evidence that the moderate consumption of soy as an animal-products replacement has anything but a beneficial effect. In fact, Isoflavones block the chemical receptors to which oestrogen attaches and may help to reduce the effect of high oestrogen levels.

As for men, well, the research linking animal fat to heart disease and cancer are far stronger than those connecting soy to any health problems. Soy is chock full of flavonoids and other anti-oxidants so, if you are considering substituting soy for meat or milk, then soya is still better for you than any animal products. There's a report out there that shows that soy milk can help slow down male baldness.

Trust me in this, tofu isn't going to shrink your testicles! Replace meat - especially red meat - or dairy with soy equivalents and see if you lose weight and your cholesterol lowers! If it doesn't, or your bollocks drop off, then sue me.

Neil :)

p.s. If you're trying to become a dad, just wear looser underwear for a few weeks to keep your nuts cool. That's far better advice.

by liame

Wow

It reverses male pattern baldness but you don't think it has other effects? Pull the other one.

As for your nuts shrinking... well thats not exactly it but it has been shown recently to massively decrease sperm count.

And please note... the advice was purely for men.

Edit: Its only studies here and there arguing either way at this point but frankly why take the chance?

There is also phytic acid to consider - which soy is chock full of. It blocks the absorbtion of magnesium, calcium, iron and zinc among others.

by Member 25348569

Sensationalist media:

"Men who eat just half a serving of soya a day have drastically fewer sperm than those who do not consume such foods, according to a preliminary study."

Read on...

"The study's researchers say larger trials are needed to determine whether men hoping to conceive a child should try to avoid soya foods, such as tofu, tempeh and soya milk."

The other side...

"However, soya industry representatives caution that the new findings contradict earlier studies that have shown no impact on sperm count from soya-based products."

Read around a bit...

Earlier studies involving men and primates with carefully controlled isoflavone intake have not observed an effect on sperm, according to Stephen Barnes, a toxicologist at the University of Alabama at Birmingham, US, who has studied the influence of soya foods.

The result from Chavarro's study (the one that caused all of the fuss and which was an anecdotal assessment of soya input for 100 men in total) stands in stark contrast to previous findings. "It doesn't fit in with the rest of what has been done experimentally," says Barnes.

Neil :D

You want to talk science or read the Sun? The baldness-reversal was a bit tongue in cheek but I'll match you study for study on everything else. This is MMR and all over again.

by jdclyde

As you exercise, you build up muscle while burning off fat. Muscle weights more than fat, so you can trim down and actually go UP in weight.

205? I don't remember the last time I saw that. About 245, wearing a size 36". (would be less if my pe#1$ weren't always getting in the way.... :0 ) I am looking at getting back to 230.

The hard thing is the part about remembering to eat on a schedule, not when you feel hungry. Another big part of avoiding the famine effect.

by ontheropes

The best idea for me has been to use my clothes as a gage. I remember very well how fit I was when I weighed 185. I was very fit.

I've got jeans from that period. You might have read about my NFW-do-they-fit jeans. Well this morning I tried on the whole stack again.

I now have 6 more pairs of 36" jeans that I can wear. I even have one pair of 34" that fit well enough that they're not too tight. I don't lop over too bad. That, my friend, is progress. Haven't touched a scale in a month.

The rest of the NFW pile is still too small to button but I can see that in the not too distant future that I'll be wearing them. When I can wear them comfortably I'll know that I'm back to the size that I want to maintain. I'm not going to go thru this crap again. I'm going to eat to live and not live to eat.

by jdclyde

Went to get dressed and really panicked for a minute because I couldn't pull my pants up! Turned out I had accidentally grabbed a pair of 30x30's that belong to ThingOne that are identical to a pair of mine.... :0

by sobaldrick

"The hard thing is the part about remembering to eat on a schedule, not when you feel hungry."

On my lo-carb diet I eat when I am hungry and as much as I need until I don't feel hungry. I do not eat on schedule, that's why it's difficult to take me out for food, because I inevitably end up taking most of it home in a box.

My guess is that a lot of obesity is because people eat even when they are no longer hungry. This gives you the ability to eat a little more next time .. and so on.

One thing that is being preached at work (I work for a health insurance company) is NOT to clean your plate. Eat as much as you need and save the rest for later.

Les.

Addendum: BTW, I went from over 250lbs, to when I weighed myself yesterday .. under 200. I agree also it's not about weight (I weigh myself maybe once a month) it's about how good you look and feel. I'm in my late 40s and I've never looked or felt this good since I became an adult.

by jdclyde

where I stressed portion sizes.

EVERYTHING I have ever read states four or five SMALL meals is better than three average size ones. You take in the same amount, just spread it out more. When you let yourself get to the point where you FEEL hungry, you are more likely to over consume, AND you have already started to enter the famine mode Neil referred to earlier.

What you eat, how much you eat, how often you eat. All very important pieces.

I have done very well teaching this to my boys. We regularly hit buffets because of time restrictions. I have gotten them away from the idea of you don't make a total pig of yourself then your not getting your moneys worth. Eat till your "content".

Congrats on the 50 lbs.

by tig2

And quite delicious!

I take a whole loaf of bread and have it sliced long-wise- from heel to heel instead of end to end. That will generally give you 6 (or so) slices of bread- narrow but long- to work with.

I start with ham and pickle salad. Then the next slice of bread. Now a chicken and celery salad. Then the next slice of bread. Follow with boiled egg salad and the next slice of bread. Back to the chicken and celery and a slice of bread and finish with the ham and pickle and the final slice as a topper.

Before you begin, remove all the crusts.

Now that you have your "cake" you must frost it.

A package of cream cheese (8 oz America) should be to room temp. Add 1/4 t of lemon juice. Blend till soft. Cover your sandwich cake.

Cover lightly and refrigerate for a couple of hours.

A slice should be about equal to a slice of bread- say 3/8 or so. But if you've gone to all this trouble, it can be bigger!

Got this one from my mum who got it from her mum. Very tasty!

I make this for Christmas.

by liame

So you think estrogen like chemicals are good for a bloke?

I'd rather skip em thanks.

And yes I know that study is a prelim. Answer me this - who funded the other studies? To be honest I have no idea, but I bet it will come round one way or another to the US soy marketing dollars.

And no I don't read the sun and didn't even blink at the MMR bs. This one on the other hand makes me think twice. I'd rather keep my estrogen levels where my body wants them rather than where Monsanto deems is safe.

by Member 25348569

Truthfully, I think that you have a lack of understanding of the nature and effect of soya isoflavones and how they fit into a larger picture.

Taken in the context of this thread, that is "lardies trying to reduce weight", we have the starting point of someone with too much fat tissue which, in men, produces oestrogen. Taking soya products as replacement for dairy has the following effects; firstly, the lower calorific values of comparable soya foods leads to a decrease in weight with a concomitant decrease in the quantity of body fat and thereby a decrease in the oestrogen produced by this fat. Secondly, Isoflavones have around one thousandth of the hormonal activity of oestrogen yet bind to oestrogen receptors which has the effect of displacing some of the "real" oestrogen and mitigating its effects.

Neil :)

To put it simply - again: if you are male and fat, replace some of your red meat and dairy with soya and if your t:ts get bigger, sue me.

If you are male and thin (I'm not thin), do and say what you want. It's not relevant to this thread.

by tig2

While not exactly a "weight loss" supplement, it is a good anti-oxidant and will help. I take it daily and have done for the last 10 or so years.

by ontheropes

I guess I'm going to have to look it all up about antioxidants and why they're good for me. Can't you get enough from diet alone? I always thought it was kind of a new buzzword for the supplement and diet industry. Going to look it up later. Need more coffee first. Slept in late today. Unusual for me.

by jdclyde

People can only affect your mood if you allow it. I refuse to give other people that level of control over me.

I mistook your post to be more about the health benefits (or lack of) of the food that will be presented at the festivities, than the event it's self.

I do not miss ANY of the ex's family. [i] (because I take time and aim carefully! ;\ )[/i] gathering with her family would be horrible for the boys and me.

Her sister once got made at me for Christmas because she went out and bought the EXACT "gift" her little angel NEEDED to have, and wanted me to give her the money for it and have it be from us. "Sorry, I am not paying for you to give your kids gifts." Yeah, I am a real jerk..... ;\

by ontheropes

I don't even want to get started in telling about them. Too much typing.

I already know they all don't like me. I don't give a rip. They tolerate me because of my wife. They don't want to tick her off. Neither do I.

At least the food's good.

by jdclyde

ok, enough of that! :p

A question the over weight dude would have to ask, what impact does being over weight have on the sperm count?

It has been shown that being over weight can contribute to ID as well. Does it matter if your shooting blanks if the gun won't shoot straight? :0

At ThingOne's request, we put tofu in our stir-fry. haven't incorporated it into anything else yet.

by Member 25348569

You'll only get to that stage if you have high oestrogen during puberty and the years afterwards. Usually, testosterone suppresses the formation of the male breast's finer structures so beer-t:ts are the closest we get. More information than you needed?

As for the question of reduction of sperm count in the fat, as far as I can see from a preliminary search, yes it does.

So, if you're fat then you've probably got man-boobs AND a reduced sperm count but it's probably OK because having the former means you've less chance of using the latter.

Go with the soya... Not too much, mind; but a bit of beancurd in the stir-fry doesn't seem to have stopped the Chinese from breeding pretty well.

Neil :D

by tig2

Peer for detail. I don't want to drive Neil up a tree!

It's really, really, good!

by cdd

I currently weigh 386 lbs and was 225 lbs when I start IT. I am now pre-diabetic. I challenge you to loose weight. I am going to be posting pictures of me on our companies website so as to make sure that people know that we have to stay in shape.

- Chris Donnelly
President
64bithost.com

by ontheropes

As you've probably read I only weigh myself once a month. I'm going to post my weight here sometime Friday. I expect to be down at least 5 pounds but I'll take even a couple of pounds. I have no idea where my weight is at right this minute.

I've been eating healthier foods, keeping a journal, increasing my exercise and counting my calories. My clothes fit better, shoot, I've recently gotten into jeans that I haven't worn for years. I must be losing weight. My goal is to lose 8 pounds per month, right thru the holidays too. I'll bet that I can do it. If I can you can.

Check out Dr. Fuhrmans site: http://www.drfuhrman.com Apparently some diabetes can be controlled thru diet. You owe it to yourself to take a look. My opinion.

Good to meet you Chris. Watch this space. I'll be looking for you. Feel free to send me peermail at any time.


Oscar

by Member 25348569

All the fresh fruit and veg is good with bananas, black grapes and dates being very highly rated. Cranberries are supposed to be really good for the bladder. Watch out for the con of "superfoods" when some weird berry is touted as the latest wizzo super-source. It's usually bollocks.

There are some surprising sources. Coffee is really high in antioxidants and most people could get more from drinking coffee than most other sources. Black tea, not green, is the second most likely source for antioxidants but green tea is good, too. REAL chocolate is good and is full of all sorts of odd chemicals that seem to have beneficial effects. That's either 70%+ cocoa solids chocolate or pure cocoa powder which is pure chocolate without a lot of the fat.

Enjoy. :D

by ontheropes

That is surprising!

I'm trying to stay away from too many supplements. Not cheap! Of course now that I've cut out one of my favorite food groups (alcohol) I can afford them.

I've read a lot lately about diets that are high in fruits and vegetables and how they're good for the heart, among other things. Apparently I'm on the right track.

A multi-vitamin and fish oil pills twice a day are part of my day. Keeping it simple should allow me to maintain a healthy routine once I reach my goals.

As an aside - It's bizarre how much more I'm noticing about weight-loss and health now that I'm paying attention. Where was I?

Thanks Neil

by jdclyde

The majority is not absorbed by the body and simply passed through.

No substitute for healthy eating.

Progress is much to blame. That, and good refrigeration. In the "ol" days, you went to the market to get what you needed for dinner because it didn't save.

Now everything that is a pre-cooked meal has so many preservatives and chemicals, it is no wonder our bodies have no idea what to do with it.

I hear that Margarine is almost chemically identical to plastic? :0

by hal 9000

I just love chocolate particularly that horrible Swiss Stuff. B-)

When this Super Quack finishes with me if I live I'll pig out on that Bloody Chocolate and insist that it's good for me. After all being forced not to eat any for weeks now is frustrating and almost beyond my ability to continue living. With no input of what I'm addicted to life just isn't worth living. :D

I just love the quack I'm constantly told to put on weight and then hauled over the coals for what I'm eating to increase the weight. [b]It's a Conspiracy I tell you![/b] ;)

I'm sure that my quack would be ecstatic if I was to start eating cardboard but he would still insist that I need to add some more weight. The story about making it easier to carry my coffin is wearing a bit thin by now. :^0

Col

by tig2

I see that Neil has posted some good information already.

I find that I don't get enough just from diet. I take the capsules- available from just about anywhere- every morning with a B Complex. I do tend to feel better when I do.

I have also had good luck with Golden Seal but find that I don't have the time anymore to make the capsules and I haven't found it pre-made.

by Member 25348569

* Allium sulphur compounds - leeks, onions and garlic.
* Anthocyanins - aubergine (eggplant to you), red grapes and berries.
* Beta-carotene - pumpkin, mangoes, apricots, carrots, spinach and parsley.
* Catechins - red wine and tea.
* Copper - seafood, lean meat, milk and nuts.
* Cryptoxanthins - red capsicum, pumpkin and mangoes.
* Flavonoids - tea, especiaslly green tea, citrus fruits, red wine, onion and apples.
* Indoles - broccoli, cabbage and cauliflower.
* Isoflavonoids - soy, lentils, peas and milk.
* Lignans - sesame seeds, bran, whole grains and vegetables.
* Lutein - leafy greens like spinach, and corn.
* Lycopene - tomatoes, pink grapefruit and watermelon.
* Manganese - seafood, lean meat, milk and nuts.
* Polyphenols - thyme and oregano.
* Selenium - seafood, offal, lean meat and whole grains.
* Vitamin C - oranges, blackcurrants, kiwi fruit, mangoes, broccoli, spinach, capsicum and strawberries.
* Vitamin E - vegetable oils (such as wheatgerm oil), avocados, nuts, seeds and whole grains.
* Zinc - seafood, lean meat, milk and nuts.
* Zoochemicals - red meat, offal and fish. Also derived from the plants animals eat.

Interesting that the isoflavonoids in soya that caused the disagreement elsewhere in this thread are also present in peas, lentils and milk...

The general idea seems to be that getting them from your diet is the best way. Supplements seem to lack so of the trace chemicals that can have an effect on the absorption and efficacy of the "real" stuff.

Neil :D

Stuff this health lark. I'm going out tonight for a couple of Cobra beers, lamb jalfrezi, naan and rice! Wall-to-wall animal fat and carbohydrate with the only healthy stuff in the chilis.

by ontheropes

Appreciate your putting all of this in one spot. I'll likely refer to it again.

This is our "big night" out. We joke about it. Nothing like what you'll be having but I'm off the diet for today. I'll probably still end up with a deficit.

They hold the Senior's Dinner at the local hospital. That's right, I'll be eating patient food and liking it. It's actually pretty good.

Think about that when you're having your decadent supper. :) Hoist one for me.

by ontheropes

He said that there are some nutrients from fruits and vegetables that have never seen the inside of a nutrient bottle.

I'm down to three cups of coffee/day now. The first one's the important one, the rest are just because I like the taste. I may cut out that third cup but I doubt it. I don't intend to replace fruits & veggies with coffee. That'd be kind of stoopid.

I've been eating so healthily lately my body is probably wondering WTF!

Have to keep some bad habits I think. I still smoke. Still like it. I am NOT even going to try quitting smoking while reducing weight either. Not going to happen, in case anyone's wondering.

by ontheropes

We used to deliver processed meat to Mexico for making into hotdogs and bologna. We ran the reefer unit at -40F and that stuff never froze. They'd scoop out a sample without difficulty at our destination.

That can't be good for you.

I ate lunch meats until I started reading about healthy eating habits and coincidentally started this discussion. Not planning to have some anytime soon.

Fresh meat yes. Processed meat no.

Something else: I remember hearing a "honey dipper" say that the septic tanks of America are full of vitamins. By that he meant that they just pass through the body. I chew mine. Nasty tasting to some but I chew 'em. Trying not to waste my money. I should get Flintstones chew-ables but I don't.

by ontheropes

"In any case, our dietary decisions should not be based on the dining habits of flies."
Too true.

I'm sticking with butter, trying to avoid the hydrogenated oils. I've always liked butter. I have to ask myself, "why not have it?"

by jdclyde

you could DRINK it and it doesn't change the absorbsion as it passes right through your system. (based on talking to medical "professionals" such as Doctors and pharmacists).

As for flies, I think if even a fly won't eat it, there has to be a reason.

Myth or not, I still use butter in my house.

by ontheropes

From what I've read vitamins are absorbed differently when they're in food than when in pill form. Some is still absorbed. There were a couple of articles that recommended multi-vitamins for dieters in particular. Dieters may not be eating a wide enough variety of foods to meet all of their nutritional needs.

The issue might be storage. If you're getting the correct amount of nutrients thru your diet any extra via vitamin pills will not be stored.

by ontheropes

I just weighed myself and I weighed 198. That's a 13 pound drop since 9-25-07. I was looking for an 8 pound drop as that would've been healthier but it is what it is. My planning has been below my daily caloric "goals" on purpose. I wanted to see some kind of loss on my scale. I guess I did that.

A little over eight weeks to my goal of 180. I can do it. I should eat more than I have been to keep my weight loss around 2 pounds per week.

I feel good. Not weak or anything. Two days ago I did more exercise than I've done in two years. I got off of my butt to just do it due to this discussion.

I can't believe it. Thirteen pounds in one month. Hmmm. I haven't weighed less than 200 for years. I think it's cool. That makes for an overall weight loss of 36 pounds. Seems like a lot.

by locolobo

Keep it up. Thanks for starting this thread. There has been a lot of good advice for all of us here.

by ontheropes

Bought fresh grapefruit, carrots, radishes, celery, bell peppers and tomatoes. Fresh and frozen vegetables are becoming a routine, LARGE part of my diet. That's an important change for me. It's not going to be just taking the weight off, keeping it off is going to be the tricky part.

I've learned a lot in a short period of time.

FWIW I'm going to post my progress here in the upcoming months. I'm looking forward to that six-pack of Bell's Expedition Stout :x on New Years Eve so I've got to hit 180 by then. :D With the advice given here, I believe I'll do it.

by cmiller5400

"That makes for an overall weight loss of 36 pounds. Seems like a lot." It IS a lot. Compare it to 36 pounds of hamburger stacked up. That would be 10 or more large tubs of hamburger. Someone mentioned that to me as a way to compare what you are not carrying around on your body anymore. Kind of puts it in perspective.

by ontheropes

Muscle weighs more than fat, right?

I look very different from when I started. I've got 'before' pictures to remind me of what I used to look like. No way do I want to go back to that. I've got a few more 'cans' to go but every day brings me a little closer.

I'll be able to get into some of my old dress slacks before too long. I'll be giving myself a couple of hundred dollars worth of pants that are just taking up space now.

by tig2

Keep up the good work.

And don't forget, diet is NOT die with a "t"!

by ontheropes

One thing that's been surprising throughout doing this has been that my energy level is high so I must be doing it right. No worries.

by w2ktechman

For me, my stomach goes in phases, sometimes I eat less, and I can go weeks like that and feel good. Then suddenly I will get hit with massive hunger for days, and even eating the same amount is just not enough. After a few days of it I usually start eating a bit more for a while. Then I start getting lazier and have to eat less again...

36 pounds is a lot. Do not discredit it, you are doing an excellent job. Me, I try a little, but have not taken the plunge to decide how much I am going to lose, and not at all have I been working on it. Over the last year, I dropped 10 pounds and thought that was good....

So, OTR, you do inspire others here. I know this cause I have been thinking about actually trying to actively lose a few pounds myself. Me, actively...
Not only that but look at this thread, I am not the only one. So keep up the good work.
And it seems that others here are inspiring you as well. This is a good 2-way street. All the better for success!

by ontheropes

Using a journal has shown to be an excellent way for me to track calories and exercise. If it takes 12 calories per pound to maintain bodyweight I just stop eating when the calories are 1000 less than I need for maintenance. To lose 13 pounds in a month I probably overdid it before I started keeping a journal or I burned off a lot more calories by exercise than I thought. I now chart exercise too.

When I dieted years ago I weighed myself everyday and used graph paper to keep track. That worked. I think that counting calories is a step ahead of the graph paper but whatever works is cool. No doubt some people can keep everything in their head.

I intend to continue to weigh myself once a month until I get close to my target weight where I'll begin weighing myself everyday. I didn't do the tape measure at my weigh-in. Not sure exactly why not other than I'm using my clothes as a gage. Maybe that sounds stoopid but I know how my clothes used to fit, how fit I was and how fit I am now. I don't expect to gain a lot of muscle mass right away because my workouts, while strenuous, are nothing like they were even three years ago. It will be awhile before I get back to being as physically fit as I was. I'm working up to it.

This discussion has seriously helped motivate me. I've gone back to re-read every entry at least once. I've found myself getting out of my chair and trying something new. Even writing this made me stop and try an exercise using my wrist in a way I've never used it here at home since my injury. Push-ups. I am now sore in places that haven't been sore in over two years. It feels good. I've got a long way to go to get back to doing the push-ups I did before but hey... Sue me! I'm not too proud to admit that I had to do girls push-ups with my wrist brace on. Damn wrist felt like it was going to snap off even then. I'm just glad I did what I could do.

Lao-Tzu said, ?A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step .?

It's cool that this thread is almost at 300 posts. Nothing even strayed too far from the topic either. (I am kind of a lard ass.) I've learned that people have problems with weight gain. I didn't know that. I see that some folks have trouble with foods period. I've got it pretty easy compared to them. I've discovered that I can control what I eat. I'm not prone to cheating on my diet. I'd be lying to myself and I'm not doing that. I can face my physical inadequacies of today knowing that I'm doing something positive about them. The end result is that I'm more content within myself.

Once I reach my target weight I don't believe that it's going to be hard to maintain it. After all, I'll have at least 1000 calories extra that I can ?spend? on food. I shouldn't be hungry. I'm just thankful that I stopped myself when I did. Fifty-one is NOT too old. With my poor nutrition I was on the fast-track to obesity, diabetes and other illnesses. According to BMI calculators I was obese. The cut-off is 233 pounds for somebody my height. I'm sure I've hit 240. The extra load on my system is fading away a day at a time.

My wife was told by her doctor that she'd have to take blood-pressure pills. She refused. She bought an automatic blood-pressure cuff and cut out all salt from her diet. In less than a week she brought her blood-pressure under control and has maintained it. Proof positive for me that what we eat seriously affects our health. I was ignorant.

I thank the FSM that I don't have to stick a needle in my leg for insulin or have to follow some type of restricted diet. I can eat whatever I want whenever I want. My choices of what to eat and when to eat have definitely changed. Several of the posts here are somewhat responsible. I've used Google to verify information and have found my own way. No one else will be able to duplicate my efforts and achieve the same results. I've found what's right for me. Everyone else has to find what's right for them.

In the end, if this thread helps one other person in even a small way it was worth all of our efforts. It's not about vanity. It's about health.

by sobaldrick

Has anyone else discovered this? You can find it in most drug stores in the North West US.

Lo-carb chocolate .. yummy!

Les.

by sobaldrick

Talking of buffets, I make many runs to the food, take a small portion, eat that and if I still feel hungry, get back and get another portion. I'll get through 5 or 6 runs in a sitting.

What I cannot understand is why anyone would feel it necessary to overfill their plates with all sorts of food that one would not normally see mixed together in a meal.

Then, the thing that really gets my goat, is seeing a person who picked more than they could eat leave food on their plate. I mean for what reason would someone want to purposely waste (good) food? The only justification is if you find you don't like it. In that case you should sample it first if you are unsure.

Ok, rant over.

Les.

by w2ktechman

Personally, I was at 220 for about 6 years. Then about 2 years ago the doc told me that I had to do something. Since fast food was my main diet, I have learned quite a bit about cooking, and cannot bear the site of an empty fridge anymore.

It wasnt until last year when I decided to cut out2 pizza's a month and cut fast food almost entirely out of my diet. Also frozen foods were cut back as well (except hash browns and veggies). Salt, I dont put salt on anything anymore.
It seems odd that in 1 year I lost 11 pounds, down to 109 now. All from fast food, pizza, and salt.
Since I have less salt, I also have less desire for more water as well, so I drink less.

3 years ago I mostly cut out soft drinks. Mostly just flavored water, vitamin water, and regular bottled water.

by hal 9000

It's also False Advertising and should be totally removed from the shelves.

If you are prepared to eat chocolate you want everything that comes with it and the more sugar the better!

[i]Edited to add[/i] Mr Fibber says 2 Hours [b]WOO[/b] for anyone who suggests that Sugar Free Chocolate is acceptable. :D

[i]For those who don't know about Red Dwarf WOO means it's [b]With Out Oxygen.[/b] This causes a massive loss of weight.[/i] :^0

Col

by jessie

Don't mean to be rude 'er nuttin' there Col, but what's a Fizzy Table? Is that kinda like a Fuzzy Table, or more like a shallow jacuzzi? Or is it some new drink that I should really know about? Or probably shouldn't know about it as the kids would want to drink it... can't have them gettin' dain-bramaged at such a young age.

by noneedfortenchi

Old fashioned pre - computing type spamming
of course. Like all of us who spend a
minimum of 8 hours a day at our desks
getting enough exercise is a problem. I get
out every weekend helping my son deliver
papers and advertising material, the
original spam. There is a hardware option
some use to defeat this spam, a notice
fixed to their letter box, " No Junk
Mail ", " No Circulars ", or similar or the
software option of having a letter box so
full of spam you can't fit any more. It
forces me to walk for 90 minutes carrying
large amounts of spam enabling my son to
finish his deliveries in half the time. He
is so generous he lets me help him for
free, where as it would cost me to go to
the gym. He sees this as a win for both of
us